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Hi there! I wonder if love spells really work... I'm doing now a NEW MOON LOVE SPELL and it takes 12 days. I'm at the 10th day.. when should the spell work? After finishing it? Cause right now I can't see any changes yet... Please if anybody can help me..
They don't work.
How could you be so sure? I mean this is my inly hope he will come back to me! :((
I think you can do many things that would give you more hope. For instance going and talking to him, improving yourself, showing him that you are a desirable person. A potion does none of these things.
There is a whole thread already devoted to this:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/psychi...lls-79510.html
Need karma I've already read that.. thanks anyway! And Capuchin I've tried to talk with him , he doesn't want to talk... I've tried to improve myself, he doesn't care... I did everything :( I have only hope now...
You need to move on. You cannot rely on spells and other things, you're losing grip of reality.
I believe they do work just as my affirmation of 'Body heal thy self' works. But are love spells ethical? Do you really want to make someone love you?
Please reconsider. It's never ethical to take away another human being's free will, and a love spell does exactly that. A love spell is a form of coercion, and it's especially harmful because the person usually has no idea they're being coerced. How do you supposed your beloved would feel, upon discovering they were manipulated into loving you? I doubt they'd like you very much after that. Wouldn't it be far better to allow them to decide for themselves whether they loved you, rather than having false feelings as a result of a love spell? How would you know if they really loved you?
Consider for a moment that you discovered that someone had used a love spell on you..........?
'Body heal thy self' is a natural process whereas the body wants to reach a state of homeostasis. Love spells are a figment of one's imagination.
For blue rose: But I know he still loves me.. but I don't know what is wrong with him... I just I wish he could talk with me...
NeedKarma,
"'Body heal thy self' is a natural process whereas the body wants to reach a state of homeostasis. Love spells are a figment of one's imagination."
Perhaps, but the affirmation is quite simply a way to occupy the mind in order to reduce worry and negative thoughts. Me believing that it works for me is still 'all in the mind' - same thing really.
I don't think a potion helps in that way, If I cast a love potion on someone, I would lay back and let that potion do all the work. Quite the opposite of the effect you describe. Maybe that is just me though.
alina_mystic,
How do you know he still loves you if he won't speak to you?
Try to see the situation for what it really is and not how you would like it to be. Besides you could cause untold damage trying to do spells when you don't know what you are doing. Would you really want to hurt him?
alina, switch to reality mode and just go talk to him. Try to find out if you did something to upset him. If that's the case, you could apologise and ask him if he would like to see you again.
I'm afraid you are going to have to accept the outcome. take a look around, maybe you are focusing on him so much you're not noticing anyone who may be genuinely interested in you.
I said in the other thread, and I'll say it in this one: Love spells are really bad juju unless you have had a TON of training as to how to do one (for example, casting a general "I'd like to attract someone who has these qualities" rather than "Make specifice person x be in love with me").
Taking away free will is AWAYS a bad thing.
I would like to ask, though... if he ALREADY loves you, and you know it, why cast a "love spell"? That seems like a huge waste of energy, when it would be simpler and easier just to TALK to him.
Do you have any spells to make someone in particular talk to me, syn? :p
Nope. And even if I did... spells take a LOT of work and energy. It's not "hocus pocus give me what I want" then lay back and eat bonbons and wait.
It's more like... research, think about it, do more research, think about it from another angle, get a second opinion, think again, meditate, think VERY hard about EXACTLY what you want (the more specific you are, the better), think about it again, figure out SPECIFIC wording, meditate, call energy, speak the spell, invest the energy, and trust.
Wouldn't it just be easier to walk over and talk to the person?
What is there to think about so much before casting your love spell? Where does trust come into play?
Trust means eat bonbons.
You have to trust in yourself, and in the energies that you called, that you did everything right. Any doubt at all, and you'll have problems.
The big things you're thinking about (for ANY spell, not just a love spell) is how this is going to affect you, the other person or people involved, and the world around you. If you say "I want to meet a handsome rich man that would be interested in me" you'll probably get it... but he WON'T have other qualities that you want, but didn't SAY you wanted... like "unmarried" or "honest" or "not abusive" --you get the idea.
Have you ever read "The Monkey's Paw"?
Like a genie, then?
I researched it and it is a 1902 fictional story. Nothing to do with the reality of 'casting spells'.Quote:
Originally Posted by Synnen
It *is* a fictional story.
But the moral of the story is "Be careful what you wish for".
Same thing goes for casting spells. If you're not careful, you WILL get what you wish for, but it won't be what you were thinking, it will be what you actually SAID in your spell.
One must learn to separate fact and fiction.
Yup.
Just like one must learn to separate the "fact and fiction" of the Bible.
Beliefs are beliefs. My religion believes that spells work. Other religions believe that prayer works.
I'm not trying to convince you, but the question was asked, and I answered to the best of my ability.
Synnen, great advice.
The rest of you, if you don't have any CONSTRUCTIVE input, stay out of it.
Whether you want to refer to it as "magic" or "miracles", it does exist. Tell a Christian that no matter how much you pray, God is never going to acknowledge your existence. I don't think they are going to be too happy about it. While I agree that love spells are a very, very, very bad idea (Especially if you have never cast any other spells in your life), tell a person that spells in general don't exist is even a worse idea.
End of my soap box.
But it's true isn't it.Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness1970us
That's exactly what I am saying. And I don't think it's bad idea to say it.Quote:
Originally Posted by darkness1970us
They do work,you just have to think positive and invite all the positive energies that you can invite.you also have to have FAITH.I have used it and it worked.if it works, you have to make sure it's him that you really want. But they do work, I am a living proof. Plenty on eBay as well.
I remember seeing this great episode on the twilight zone one night... It was about this beautiful young woman whose lover left her for another. She went to a witch and asked for a love potion. Sure enough the witch had one and gladly offered it to her. She fed it to her lover and in an instant he was mesmerized by her once more. They galloped off to be wed. The night that was to be their honeymoon the bride and groom readied for a night of marital bliss. All of a sudden the young woman was overcome with an urge (what urge she could not know). She leaped into the night cursed by the very potion that made her dream come true. You see she had unknowingly sold her soul for the love of this man. There was no heart left in her for she had stolen the heart of another. Tit for tat my dear. Ever thought how you would feel if someone cast a spell on you? I would think long and hard before conjuring any more potions.Quote:
Originally Posted by alina_mystic
Exactly. Positive thinking works. Spells don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by CalifornianCancer07
I think they work I'v never tried a love spells, but if you have the power then yes... tell me how it goes!
Let me get this straight: you are the Adult Sexuality Expert on this site and you believe that love spells work. Is that correct?Quote:
Originally Posted by Synnen
I believe in many things, including the Great Flying Speghetti Monster, Bigfoot, aliens, fairies, the Loch Ness Monster, time travel, and that stupid people should just be allowed to have to live with their stupidity with no one making it all better for them.
I am Wiccan. Wicca - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Part of that belief system has to do with spells, so yes, I believe that if done correctly, spells can work. Between you and me, I think that spells work slightly better than prayer does, because it's a greater focusing of energy.
My question back to you now is: What the hell do my religious beliefs have to do with whether I'm the Adult Sexuality expert?
It wasn't about your religious beliefs (you should know me better than that :)) it's about the love spells. Are love spells something you would recommend to people here?
I wouldn't recommend a love spell to anyone asking for one. I thought I'd made it clear in my posts about love spells that casting one without specific knowledge would be a Very Bad Thing.
People who want love spells don't really want love spells. They want things to go their way in a relationship, and that's NOT giving the other person the free will to choose them or not.
Let's put it this way: As a general rule, I think that anyone NOT trained in casting spells should have about as much business casting them as an untrained person doing an appendectomy. YES, occasionally you hear about it working, but most of the time, it's just going to make things worse.
I am a white witch and I did a "love spell" recently just to get a male's attention and it worked just fine... I did it on a Thursday and when Saturday came, 2 guys came up to me in a market and got my number. So, if you believe in it, try it. Do what you and your heart desire. "]Quote:
Originally Posted by alina_mystic
Love,
Ninii
Oh, and one more thing... keep Karma in mind. If you infer on other's lives in a bad situation, then something bad will happen to you. What goes around comes around.Quote:
Originally Posted by alina_mystic
Ninii
P.S. email me anytime with questions...
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I believe they work if only to put you in a receptive frame of mind. But using one on someone is not fair - to say the least.
I say everyone desevers there god given free will and that should never be taken away... and spells, karma, chi, pray it all has to do with how firm you are in what you beleave if you wake up and say its going to be a bad day... its going to be a bad day... same as if you said its going to be good... you would be surprised at how much power the human mind has and what the body can do... if your able to truly focus your energys and know how to focus it... put in mined what you want.. and it will start to happen others will see it... cause it just radates off you... thats me =) good luck with everything... and about losing the love... I know how that gose... because I fell comepletely in love with this girl... and then I let her go... and I've been trying to get her back ever since... its been over 8 months... and I went on a camping trip and on that I got some deep down to heart advice from my cousin... and is that sometimes the times just not right and if you try to rush things you might just make it worse... so message me if you feel like or what evers cleaver... and you might want to watch a movie called "What the Bleep Do We Know"
If they did work wouldn't we be with other people. Like I would be with debbie moore, Pamela Anderson. The list is endless. If they did exist then please give them to me.
Hello,
As long as you don't mess with free will. You should have seen results.
Peace.
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