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  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:07 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Getting married
    AS Judy caught on one of my answers, so I figured I would tell my family first, and sad as it may be in real life, this group here is about all the family I have except for my grown children.

    But I will be getting married again ( OK I know I have been warned) on Dec 7 th.

    And for those that like the funny side of it, I am going to marry my ex wife again. Over the last few months we have went back to counseling and have a totally new aspect and view on our relationship.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:09 PM
    Curlyben
    Way to go Chuck..
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:10 PM
    JudyKayTee

    Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!

    I'm glad for you... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.

    I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:11 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Curlyben View Post
    Way to go Chuck..


    Hummm have to wonder which way?? But thanks not a easy choice, but this is one tha is not the norm for our advice, and I have to say it has a lot to do with the book I have been pushing on the relationshp pages latey, "Love Languages" it made even me look at a relationship in a totally different way.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:16 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Ah, hah! That's EXACTLY why I get paid to do investigations!

    I'm glad for you ... and for her. I don't think anyone should be alone and it sounds like you've fixed what was broken.

    I think it's great and on a personal note - I wish I would meet someone. However, if I EVER post I'm reconciling with MY ex I want you to drive here and slap some sense into me.


    Still own the weighted gloves. Yes it was funny, all of her friends always told her I was still in love with her, I guess from the way I treated her when we were together for our sons events. Then of course she was somewhat jealous when I was getting closer to someone else a few months back.

    So after a lot of disucssion we decided to at least go to counseling to help see where we both were at.

    And the fact she is a much younger beautiful sexy women who used to be a college cheer leader had nothing to do with it either.

    But seriously it shows that anything is possible.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:45 PM
    JudyKayTee

    And I repeat - if I EVER think about reconciling with my ex...
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:48 PM
    artlady

    My uncle married my aunt twice and the second time was a charm.
    Better to get it right the second time around.Many congrats!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 01:50 PM
    redhed35

    Congrats to you and your bride.

    Excellent.
  • Oct 16, 2009, 02:02 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I just hope I have not disappointed 1000's of my single women readers
    ** yea like I have them
    I did get reconised once ( that was when I took my photo off here) they thought I was a nutcase and went off on me in a store
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:29 PM
    J_9
    Congrats Chuck! The second time's a charm!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:33 PM
    ScottGem

    On December 7th?? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.

    Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:49 PM
    rockie100

    That's great! By the way, I have the book Love Languages. It's a great read and has opened my eyes quite a bit. Side note: I have started dating my ex boyfriend of 3 years. We have been apart for 2 years. I have grown in my understanding of how to run a heathly and happy relationship since then. Hope the best for both of you.
    Rockie
  • Oct 16, 2009, 03:59 PM
    Wondergirl

    I thought you seemed softer and happier lately! Now I know why!

    Congratulations!
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:03 PM
    Stringer

    I am happily married for the second time, not that I was too happy the first time. But I learned lessons during and after my first marriage that changed my life. It is sweeter the second time around, never have I been happier or more content.

    Congratulations Chuck, I wish you a very happy life.

    Stringer
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:05 PM
    earl237
    Congratulations Fr_Chuck! I wish you and your bride all the best. I'll think about you on Dec 7th. "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men."
  • Oct 16, 2009, 05:07 PM
    danielnoahsmommy

    Congrats!
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:12 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    On December 7th???? You are getting married on Pearl Harbor day? A day that will live in infamy. And this is supposed to be a good omen for a marriage.

    Congrats and good luck. You will need it for that day ;)


    Yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
    nikosmom
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    yes, I was born on the day the Titanic sank ( not the same year of course) and Dec 7 was when I was adopted

    LOL!

    Congrats Chuck and I hope this time ends happily ever after! :)
  • Oct 17, 2009, 09:20 AM
    mudweiser

    I don't know what the past was like with her but she must be some lady that you'd want to marry her again ;)

    Good luck Chuck and congrats :)

    Sarah
  • Oct 17, 2009, 01:23 PM
    friend4u178

    Congrats Chuck

    Hope it all works out for you.
  • Oct 17, 2009, 05:52 PM
    Cat1864
    Congratulations, Chuck. :)

    I am so happy for both of you.
  • Oct 18, 2009, 06:53 PM
    88sunflower
    Well congrats chuck. That's wonderful news. I am so happy for you both and wish you many years of happiness.
  • Oct 27, 2009, 05:19 PM
    Alty

    How did I miss this thread?

    Chuck, you're leaving me? I thought we had something special. I thought I was your one and only!

    Sigh.

    Oh all right then, go on, get married, be happy, see if I care. ;)

    Really though, congrats, I'm really happy for you. :)

    I guess it's just me and Exy now. Exy, I'm all yours, Chuck found someone else!
  • Oct 27, 2009, 06:03 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    How did I miss this thread?

    Chuck, you're leaving me? I thought we had something special. I thought I was your one and only!

    Sigh.

    Oh all right then, go on, get married, be happy, see if I care. ;)

    Really though, congrats, I'm really happy for you. :)

    I guess it's just me and Exy now. Exy, I'm all yours, Chuck found someone else!

    :eek::eek::rolleyes: and... :confused:

    Sigh...

    Stringer
  • Oct 27, 2009, 06:10 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.

    But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.
  • Oct 27, 2009, 06:32 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    :

    Sigh....

    Stringer

    You're already married Stringer, Exy is single. :)

    Wait... I'm married too. I almost forgot about whatshisname. :eek: ;) :p
  • Oct 27, 2009, 06:33 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.

    But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.

    An internet wedding would be cool, but if you can't pull it off at least take lots of pictures for us.

    I really am happy for you Chuck.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 09:34 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    I guess I should make it a internet wedding, do a cam cast of some sort.

    But we did have to change the date, after talking with the pastor everyone talked me out of Dec 7 ( still like that date) and we changed it to Thanksgiving.



    I think it should be an AMHD reunion!

    (And I like Dec 7, too.)

    Absolutely true story - a co-worker of mine got married on Thanksgiving and said that way the groom would never forget their wedding anniversary. I didn't have the heart to tell her that Thanksgiving is not like Christmas where it's a set date.

    Duhh!
  • Oct 28, 2009, 09:01 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I think it should be an AMHD reunion!

    (And I like Dec 7, too.)

    Absolutely true story - a co-worker of mine got married on Thanksgiving and said that way the groom would never forget their wedding anniversary. I didn't have the heart to tell her that Thanksgiving is not like Christmas where it's a set date.

    Duhh!

    I really wish I could rep you for that Judy.

    I love it.

    I'm the one that forgets anniversaries, hubby never does. He even brings home flowers on the day we apparently met, sometime in March I believe. ;)
  • Oct 28, 2009, 09:16 PM
    asking

    Congratulations, Chuck! I hope it's a great wedding and the second time is sweet and happy. :)

    We'll raise a glass to you out here in California on Thanksgiving.

    (As for me, I'm with Judy on this topic. If I ever say I'm going back, stage an intervention, stat.)
  • Oct 28, 2009, 09:23 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by asking View Post
    Congratulations, Chuck! I hope it's a great wedding and the second time is sweet and happy. :)

    We'll raise a glass to you out here in California on Thanksgiving.

    (As for me, I'm with Judy on this topic. If I ever say I'm going back, stage an intervention, stat.)

    If you live in California I'll stage an intervention just so I can visit. ;)

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