Originally Posted by
JudyKayTee
Let's see - Summer of 2002. I had been divorced, unattached, for about 9 years. He had been divorced, unattached, for about 18. Set up by friends. Neither one of us wanted to go (I found out later) but I owed my friend a big favor so I said, OK, I'll meet him but just for coffee. What does he look like? She said, I don't know, knowing the whole time that he was older and I might not be interested. Apparently he asked the same question - he was "into" tall, slender girls who enjoyed sports, that's not me - so his friend refused to answer him.
I went to the restaurant, parked around the corner so he couldn't follow me home, this GORGEOUS man with the biggest blue eyes I've ever seen, 6'2" silver haired, (found out later, sexy), opened the door from the inside and said, "Are you Judy?" I stammered, "Yes." He said, "I'm so glad."
Coffee turned into dinner turned into more coffee turned into talking half the night. We had a wonderful, knock you off your feet connection from the first time we laid eyes on each other. He asked me to marry him that night. I thought he was crazy and told him so.
We got married about 8 weeks later and everybody thought we were both crazy.
And it worked and it lasted until he died.
I've never had that type of reaction to anyone, never before, never since.
He was a hard act to follow.