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  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:05 PM
    adam_89

    Ouch that is pretty crappy.

    Sorry Sunny.

    I could imagine that would hurt, it makes it seem like there is no trust there on his part. What is up with that? Is he being guilty of something?
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:09 PM
    88sunflower
    Funny he has been weird with me lately. I have been questioning him a lot. Not that he is up to something but if he wanted to keep going forward.

    His excuse for looking at first was to see my pictures. Hmmm well its not in the received calls log! Then he said he did it because I came home and have been crying all weekend about being laid off but haven't done anything to collect my checks. That has anything to do with what in my phone? GGrrr... I have nothing to hide I leave it around all the time. I never even have it with me. It's the fact he did it secretly. Then lied. Wow and I was so happy thinking we were doing well. I guess its just a bump today. Makes me angry though.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:14 PM
    adam_89

    Well, dop whatever makes you happy Sunny because that's what you are is a big burst of sunshine!

    If you take it as a bump in the road and just keep on moving, them keep on trucking hun. You just need to be happy and you deserve happiness.

    I'm sorry he done that, he really shouldn't have but maybe, and hopefully he learned his lesson.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:17 PM
    88sunflower
    Yep I am having a beer. Lol

    I am sure for one reason or another I deserved it.

    I am hating this no job thing. But I usually spend an hour at the gym. But since I have no job I am working out over 2 hours or longer. I am loving it! Feels great.

    How are you? Things going OK with the house and the issues you were having?
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:20 PM
    adam_89

    Well, have 4 or 5 beers for me, I could use them to chill me out.
    I am doing better, but still stressed about them. I keep having plans and they keep falling through but after tonight, all should be good.

    I wish I had the motivation to go to the gym or to work out at all. When I work out, I never concentrate on losing weight I usually gain weight because I focus on muscle when I really shouldn't, haha.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:24 PM
    88sunflower
    Good. I hope it all works out for you.

    I like going just for the me time and the stress relief. I was doing weights big time for a short while but stopped. I didn't like the clothes getting tight feeling. Even though it was for good reasons. I do bust on my abs though. Some small weights and major cardio. I am not over weight but I do enjoy it so I am going to keep at it as long as I can.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:34 PM
    adam_89

    A nice tight stomach looks good on a girl for sure. Around here it seems socially acceptable to be fat if you are a guy so I have kept the same weight for quite awhile but I am not happy with the way I look. I just don't know what to do because I have no motivation or mind set.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:38 PM
    88sunflower
    Its just habit for me now. If I don't have the motivation I just hop on a treadmill and drag butt. At least I am moving.

    I would rather have a guy with some meat then nothing at all. I like a husky man for sure.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:54 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Adam, I love to cook, so any excuse to whip up something different or new is a good excuse for me!

    Sunny, I'm really sorry things are so tense for you right now. I really do hope things turn around for you. Hugs big time sweets.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:57 PM
    adam_89

    Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

    What time is dinner ready Bella?
  • Feb 15, 2011, 01:58 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Adam, I love to cook, so any excuse to whip up something different or new is a good excuse for me!!

    Sunny, I'm really sorry things are so tense for you right now. I really do hope things turn around for you. Hugs big time sweets.

    Thanks bella. I just get worked up.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 02:07 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

    What time is dinner ready Bella?

    So they can feel better when they plump up?
  • Feb 15, 2011, 02:08 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Yea know that is another bad thing, is 90% of women I know say they would rather have a guy like me than a skinny man. I don't know whaty has happened over time but it seems backwards.

    What time is dinner ready Bella?

    So they can feel better when they plump up? After they get that ring on their hand in some cases? Trust me... I'm related to people that let themselves go after the wedding. More than a couple.


    Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 02:45 PM
    adam_89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    So they can feel better when they plump up? After they get that ring on their hand in some cases? Trust me....I'm related to people that let themselves go after the wedding. More than a couple.


    Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.

    I can hear you there. I don't need a mirror yet either so I should be OK just as long as I don't go crazy.

    That is a good explanation as to why my past coupld gfs were thin and then a couple months down the road, I gain nothing and they gain 40 lbs.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 03:13 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Yeah I need to lose a few myself. I CAN still see my feet and suasage (without a mirror) so I'm not THAT big.

    That made me giggle. You said sausage.

    I am not the norm for women. I was actually a size 10ish when I met my hubby. Now I average a 1-2 depending on the store. I guess I like to fight gravity. I kind wish her were more active with me but I am a big girl.
  • Feb 15, 2011, 05:34 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

    Made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!
  • Feb 16, 2011, 06:05 AM
    88sunflower
    Bella I wish I loved cooking as much as you do. I guess its because I am not good at it. I don't think I am. When I try new things the hubby gets nervous.

    Baking forget it! I can't even get box brownies to turn out.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 06:21 AM
    smoothy

    My wife still weighs what she weighed when we got married almost 20 years ago 110 lbs give or take a few (shes short). And yeah... she does work to maintain it. I'm the one that put on some weight over that time. But most of it upper body. And 4 inches on the waist.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:05 AM
    adam_89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

    made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!

    Ah no, I eat ver big meals all the time, and somehow don't gain much, hopefully I have reached my peak. We don't have to be a couple, you can just cook for me and as I can tell, you don't like bigger sized guys.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:40 AM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Well I'm not telling y'all what size I am, Christmas was not kind to me... :D

    made Lasagna for dinner tonight. It was pretty good. I don't know if we would be very compatible Adam, the guys I date usually plumpen right up when they start dating me. I've maintained basically the same weight from my early 20's. I'm happy with the size I am now. I did join a gym and have been doing Hot Yoga. Holy crappola, that stuff is intense!

    Size doesn't matter is what us girls say. (giggling)

    Silly girl your so pretty in your pictures I am sure your just fine. Us girls have a bloated image of ourselves anyway compared to reality.

    Now get cooking for adam and no flirting. I am the rightful owner of him and bear. I claimed them long ago. ;)
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:42 AM
    88sunflower
    Want to hear more of my crap luck? We got our passports so we could go skating in Canada on the canal right. I got laid off Saturday the passports were in our mailbox on Monday. My darn luck. Well there is always next year.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:48 AM
    Unknown008

    Sorry to hear of your bad luck streak Sunny :(

    I hope that from now on, things will be the opposite, meaning high up good again :)
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:54 AM
    88sunflower
    I thought they kind of were jeez. Thanks unky.

    Bella is cooking dinner for AMHD. I don't think she knows that yet. Hope she has enough chairs. I prefer a nice thick steak a little pink. Pasta is always good. Pizza and wings with a beer would work. Tacos?
  • Feb 16, 2011, 07:57 AM
    Unknown008

    So far, it works for me :p

    Ok, dinner is ready now :) Later!
  • Feb 16, 2011, 08:13 AM
    adam_89

    How long do passports last? Do you have to renew them every year or what?
  • Feb 16, 2011, 09:27 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    Want to hear more of my crap luck? We got our passports so we could go skating in Canada on the canal right. I got laid off Saturday the passports were in our mailbox on Monday. My darn luck. Well there is always next year.

    Look at it this way... maybe your next job will be a far better one. Many times we stick around when we should be moving on... because of the devil you know VS. The devil you don't thing.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 11:25 AM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    How long do passports last? do you have to renew them every year or what?

    My sons is only good for 5 years if I read right. Mine is 10 I think. They are pretty long term. Which is good. But when its time to renew I am sure it will be easier. It was easy enough though. More then I thought.


    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Look at it this way.....maybe your next job will be a far better one. Many times we stick around when we should be moving on....because of the devil you know VS. The devil you don't thing.

    Actually each new job I have had has always proven to be better. This one was not expected to last as long as it did but the pay proved to be way better then expected. I am going to get back in to banking. That's my thing and where I excel the most. I love it. I have a great connection right now at one. Problem is there is not an opening just yet and if so it will be part time. But I am OK with that. Stepping stones to the top!
  • Feb 16, 2011, 11:44 AM
    adam_89

    Love your optimism Sunny.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 11:51 AM
    88sunflower
    Thanks adam.

    This is my third day home and I am so nuts its not even funny. Wow how do people do this and like it?
  • Feb 16, 2011, 11:57 AM
    adam_89

    I don't know, when I was 16 and in school I quit a job and was unemployed for a month in a half and about went crazy. And I was in school too. I don't see how people do it either.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:01 PM
    Unknown008

    It depends... for me, so long I have a forum and new things to learn or some interesting puzzle/game to solve, I'm fine. :p
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:25 PM
    Wondergirl

    You quickly learn to adapt. I was forced to retire because of illness and then became homebound when the Groundhog Day Blizzard left us two feet of snow plus drifts. Homebound isn't bad if you have books to read, crossword puzzles to do, a good computer, and a working stove. It's when the power goes out that you begin to twitch.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:32 PM
    adam_89

    I could only imagine.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:35 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You quickly learn to adapt. I was forced to retire because of illness and then became homebound when the Groundhog Day Blizzard left us two feet of snow plus drifts. Homebound isn't bad if you have books to read, crossword puzzles to do, a good computer, and a working stove. It's when the power goes out that you begin to twitch.

    I did start reading again recently. I love it. I have been enjoying true stories. That is a good thing. I actually get kind of obsessed with cleaning. I am pretty neat anyway. But I will be windexing the washer and dryer soon or scrubbing cracks in places people don't see. Plus my gym time is always a good time killer. Maybe I will start selling on eBay again. When I was home pregnant I pulled my hair out. I was buying fish and birds just to have something to clean. Then I started selling on eBay and it was fun. Took up tons of time.
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:36 PM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    I could only imagine.

    I twitch with power on. Imagine that.

    LOL
  • Feb 16, 2011, 12:54 PM
    adam_89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    i twitch with power on. Imagine that.

    Lol

    Lol
  • Feb 16, 2011, 01:52 PM
    adam_89

    How do we get banned from this site?
  • Feb 16, 2011, 03:07 PM
    Aurora_Bell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Ah no, I eat ver big meals all the time, and somehow don't gain much, hopefully I have reached my peak. We don't have to be a couple, you can just cook for me and as I can tell, you don't like bigger sized guys.

    Adam you're crazy! I love a big beef cake! I totally like a guy with meat on his bones. I just said that because you said you were trying to loose weight, or did I read that wrong? From your pic's you look just fine to me! :D :D Now Adam, if we aren't going to be a couple, and you get all the good eating... what do I get?? ;)

    Sunny, you always know how to make me blush! Thank you! Sunny, I'll teach you how to cook. Baking isn't my strongest point either. But I am learning... slowly, after a few mistakes you learn what NOT to do pretty quickly. You should have seen my disastrous blueberry buckle cake.
  • Feb 17, 2011, 05:58 AM
    adam_89
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Adam you're crazy! I love a big beef cake! I totally like a guy with meat on his bones. I just said that because you said you were trying to loose weight, or did I read that wrong? From your pic's you look just fine to me!! :D :D Now Adam, if we aren't going to be a couple, and you get all the good eating.... what do I get???? ;)

    Sunny, you always know how to make me blush! Thank you! Sunny, I'll teach you how to cook. Baking isn't my strongest point either. But I am learning...slowly, after a few mistakes you learn what NOT to do pretty quickly. You should have seen my disastrous blueberry buckle cake.

    Hmm... I would like to lose weight but I am not trying to lose it. Haha.
    You have a good question about what you get, you would have to ask Sunny if she would share with you. Then you could have what you wanted.
  • Feb 17, 2011, 06:12 AM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Hmm...I would like to lose weight but I am not trying to lose it. haha.
    You have a good question about what you get, you would have to ask Sunny if she would share with you. Then you could have what you wanted.

    GASP! Oh sure a pretty girl moves in and can cook and now I have to share. What's in this for me? Oh all right, just shower when your done in the kitchen. (giggle)

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