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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Just a ?

Is it the man's responsiblity to pay for all dates when dating?

Is there not an obligation more now that women are completely capable of stepping up and contributing in the dating period?

No. If it was my responsibility to pay, then it is absolutely the woman's responsibility to put out at any requested time.

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Originally Posted by Krazi

ooooooooo.....i'm so on it.

what year?

1980's that's all you're getting!

Awww sucks kp :(

I send you red bull and push you into a nice hot shower!

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Originally Posted by kctiger

No. If it was my responsibility to pay, then it is absolutely the woman's responsibility to put out at any requested time.

How long until the is an expectation for a female to contribute?

Is a month to early for a gentlemen to request that the female start sharing the dating expense?

I think as a man, I probably would never ask.
But as a female, I would never continue to date someone with out stepping up to the plate once in awhile.

Guys I am BORED.

Sarah

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Just a ?

Is it the man's responsiblity to pay for all dates when dating?

Is there not an obligation more now that women are completely capable of stepping up and contributing in the dating period?

I say definitely not a mans responsibility. Most women have careers now, make enough money to support themselves, why should the guy have to fork over all his money to go out on a date?

Equal rights means equal in all ways.

Just my opinion.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I say definitely not a mans responsibility. Most women have careers now, make enough money to support themselves, why should the guy have to fork over all his money to go out on a date?

Equal rights means equal in all ways.

Just my opinion.

Mine too, but thus far I feel like the minority on this thread.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ey-352392.html

Muddy, do you have a Facebook page?

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Originally Posted by kp2171

i felt a disturbance in the force.

found a sex room i hadnt subscribed too.

all is better now.

hi all. im in a l o u s y mood. woke up with clothes on. man, i hate that.

There's no way I would've allowed that to happen ;)

If I have to eventually "ask" a girl to chip in, we wouldn't be dating long. I don't see a problem with the second or third date being shared equally. Just my opinion though. Maybe that is why I don't date gals that long...

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

1980's that's all you're getting!

Honey... I got pics that date to 1950's and up...

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Muddy, do you have a facebook page?

I do.. haha but I only have 20 people on it :( I'm a loser like that.

SARAH

--oops caps

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Originally Posted by kctiger

If I have to eventually "ask" a girl to chip in, we wouldn't be dating long. I don't see a problem with the second or third date being shared equally. Just my opinion though. Maybe that is why I don't date gals that long...

I agree, as a guy, if she wasn't stepping up a month in and I had to request a split... I would just stop dating.

Now I have had guys buy me drinks at the bar for months... with me only buy an occasional round here and there... but I realize that because I am so fun drunk, it pays itself back.

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

Awww sucks kp :(

I send you red bull and push you into a nice hot shower!

Made me laugh

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

I do..haha but I only have 20 people on it :( I'm a loser like that.

SARAH

--oops caps

Well add one more friend... all of us here are friends... nothing like being cool :cool:

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

...but I realize that because I am so fun drunk, it pays itself back.

Laughing even louder.

*cleans off screen with polka dot boxers alty removed*

That

Seems

Wrong

It didn't seem wrong, it was wrong :p hahaha

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Originally Posted by kctiger

If I have to eventually "ask" a girl to chip in, we wouldn't be dating long. I don't see a problem with the second or third date being shared equally. Just my opinion though. Maybe that is why I don't date gals that long...

I don't see a problem with all dates being shared equally. You're not married, you don't share your incomes, why should you be forced to pay for everything just because you have a penis?

Just saying. ;)

Licky man/thing is back yay!

Need kitty avi to help w screen

First date, I will pay, and expect to pay. No problems with that. Subsequent dates, however, can and sometimes should be equal. Or I pay for dinner, you pay for activity after dinner (movie, bowling, whatever people do on dates).

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Originally Posted by kp2171

laughing even louder.

*cleans off screen with polka dot boxers alty removed*

that

seems

wrong

But they're cute! I love pink boxers with purple polka dots on a guy. Shows confidence in his manhood! :)

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

But they're cute! I love pink boxers with purple polka dots on a guy. Shows confidence in his manhood! :)

Try telling that to Vaughn!!
I bought him a black jacket and it had 2 pink drawstrings... he hates it lol

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

But they're cute! I love pink boxers with purple polka dots on a guy. Shows confidence in his manhood! :)

Or colorblondness...

Oops... colorblindness...

The blondeness... can't do much about that. At least I'm pretty.

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Originally Posted by kctiger

First date, I will pay, and expect to pay. No problems with that. Subsequent dates, however, can and sometimes should be equal. Or I pay for dinner, you pay for activity after dinner (movie, bowling, whatever people do on dates).

When hubby and I were dating it was 50/50. I made more money then he did, besides, I don't like owing anyone anything.

No, we didn't sit down and say, okay the bill is $10.50 you owe $5.25, it was just like you said, I pay for dinner, you pay for after dinner fun. We didn't count every penny, but it was equal.

You go bowling on a date? No wonder you're single. ;)

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Originally Posted by kp2171

or colorblondness...

oops... colorblindness...

the blondeness... can't do much about that. at least im pretty.

You are pretty. Now come a little closer, naked man! :D

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

You go bowling on a date? No wonder you're single. ;)

I love bowling!!

I didn't say I go bowling, I said "whatever you guys do after a date..." I wouldn't know... :cool:

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

I love bowling!!!

KC meet Shaz, Shaz, KC!

Carry on... ;)

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

KC meet Shaz, Shaz, KC!

Carry on.... ;)

Lol :)

What would you do on a date Alty?

Have sex...

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Originally Posted by kctiger

I didn't say I go bowling, I said "whatever you guys do after a date..." I wouldn't know...:cool:

I haven't been on a date in so long I have no idea what they do anymore.

Now, back in the day, when I was ahem, young, we did the movie thing, the house party thing, the sex in the back seat of the car thing. You know, teen stuff! ;)

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Have sex...

Hey, true, but HEY!

Did we date? :confused:

I wouldn't call it a date...

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Originally Posted by kctiger

I wouldn't call it a date...

Now that made me giggle.

What would you call it?

A moment of pure serenity.

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Originally Posted by kctiger

A moment of pure serenity.

Be still my heart.

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I haven't been on a date in so long I have no idea what they do anymore.

Now, back in the day, when I was ahem, young, we did the movie thing, the house party thing, the sex in the back seat of the car thing. You know, teen stuff! ;)

Sex in the movies is great!! The car thing is out unless you have a designated driver behind the wheel. House parties are still in but not as fun/safe... to many idiots out there now-a-days...

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

lol :)

What would you do on a date Alty?

I think bowling is fun Shazzy... maybe we're dorks? :confused:

K that was a lot of AVI changing.

Haha..

Sarah