Ask Me Help Desk - Depression and me...

Hey just stumbled on this... good for you Bella :)

Thanks M. It feels great. Plus I get to stay up late! :p

No need to thank us for something we should have done :)

You know I mean it.

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

You know I mean it.

I just reread your first post in this thread. That was only three days ago! Wow! How time flies when you're havin' fun! And what team spirit! Yay!!

I feel like we had a baby together!

Bella.. you'll do very well.. you are strong. WG you're wonderful.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I just reread your first post in this thread. That was only three days ago! Wow!! How time flies when you're havin' fun! And what team spirit! Yay!!!

I feel like we had a baby together!

It does have that feeling of 'WOW!', doesn't it? :)

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Bella..you'll do very well..you are strong. WG you're wonderful.

I miss you, kity, but I understand (been there, done that). Get your book edited, and let me know if I can help with anything.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I just reread your first post in this thread. That was only three days ago! Wow!! How time flies when you're havin' fun! And what team spirit! Yay!!!

I feel like we had a baby together!

Does that mean we all have to kick in on child support now ?

I think it's been a great out come. You know it was a quick turn around, but I was at the end of my leash ( :p).

It's not my character to be depressed, I am normally happy go lucky. You guys should feel proud. It was one simple solution, and a bunch of great ears and big hearts.

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

Does that mean we all have to kick in on child support now ?

Yes. Just your AMHD paycheques will do.

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

Does that mean we all have to kick in on child support now ?

Your DNA test is scheduled for Saturday morning at 10. Be there.

NooOOooOooOoo not Saturday mornings.

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

NooOOooOooOoo not Saturday mornings.

Just one test, one morning. It will be quick. Have you seen excon and Fr_Chuck around?

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

Ok so quick update. I quit my job. Yup I did it today. Well this is what happened. I went to my doctor on the 28th and he wrote me off for 8 weeks which would have taken me to the end of my term anyways.

I went into give it to one of my bosses and she said that she could make things easier on me and handed me a letter that said they were ending my term early. Seems that she already knew I was planning on leaving beforehand. She said she knew I was having a hard time with some of the staff, and they decided to pay me until the end of May, as well as continue my benefits. I wonder if this was to avoid another potential law suit for harassment.

It was something that I though about, but I wasn't planning on going through with it. This way works for me too, as I will still qualify for Employment Insurance.

So I did need to get some revenge of some sort, so I printed every nasty e mail that was sent to me by the girls, as well as a few nasy e mails that were sent to me by clients thinking they were sending them to one of the girls, just happens to be the one I had the most problems with. I left a copy on my bosses printer as well as forwarded a copy to the national office which happens to be the head of our H.R. department.

Oh well the deed is done. I will be going back to school full time in September.

I feel so relieved. It was my mental well being, and it was something that just needed to be done. I am happy and confident with my decision.

The deed is done! Long live the deed! :p

Bella I just came across this and took the time to read every post. I am so proud of you. I could see in each post your spirits lifting a little more. Good for you. Good luck with your new adventures. Never under estimate the powers of AMHD.

Now about this baby and child support?

(It's alive)

A post I had been responding to prompted me to come back here and re read this thread. Wow. I can't believe the turn around. Already have been back at school for a full year, getting ready to go back this September, my work environment is 100 times better than I could have ever imagined. I get to do hands on work with the beings I love. The animal behavior classes didn't work out due to funding, but now I am on an 8 year plan. I have another year to finish up the vet tech course, and then work experience for 2 years and then it is off to PEI for my DVM (doctorate of veterinarian medicine).

This thread REALLY helped me out. You guys should be so proud of yourselves.

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

(It's alive)

A post I had been responding to prompted me to come back here and re read this thread. Wow. I can't believe the turn around. Already have been back at school for a full year, getting ready to go back this September, my work environment is 100 times better than I could have ever imagined. I get to do hands on work with the beings I love. The animal behavior classes didn't work out due to funding, but now I am on an 8 year plan. I have another year to finish up the vet tech course, and then work experience for 2 years and then it is off to PEI for my DVM (doctorate of veterinarian medicine).

This thread REALLY helped me out. You guys should be so proud of your selves.

I take this means you still have a job (but that's another thread). :)

The person who should be proud of him/herself is you. Bella, you have done the hard work to get yourself moving forward and I am very proud of you.

Yea, so far so good with this job. It's kind of a catch 22, I don't want to bring it up in case it prompts them to re open the idea of employing an aboriginal over me. For the time being I just come to work, do my job and collect my pay :) After all, all I need is this year of employment and then I will be in school full time.

Whatever happens, I am glad you are enjoying this job after what you went through in the past.

You really have come a long way.