I have found myself MUCH chubbier than I was when I first started dating my husband, so I understand the want to feel sexy for yourself thing.

Have you thought about going out and getting a really nice (supportive) teddy, or really good bra and panty set? When I KNOW I'm going to have a tough day, I wear my sexy underwear, and then I feel sexy and feminine all day.

Oh sexy underwear rocks but I just can't justyfi that kind of cash on undies anymore lol

I love that link CBW, it says: "Bring some nuts for the squirrels" - Guess he brought it for someone else, eh?

There is sexy clothes for all sizes and the internet makes it easy to find.

So true cbw... I would love to but with the kids... I'm lucky I get out of the house during the week... let alone spend money...

Well ladies I got to go and start getting ready... Kids are up so it's going to take me a bit, I'll tell you how the movie was... lol.

I just prance around in my tank top and undies... works best for me.. lol. Sometimes its even more fun with a couple blinds open... LOL!

Its fun to think you might be seen, but then when you actually are, it is embarrassing. I had my share of those moments, my husband tries to make me more kinky all the time. I just don't know about that swing, I didn't know it was that expensive. Any other ideas that are less expensive. Yes, Victoria Secret bras are the best, especially the oh so sexy bra, it puts the ta tas right where they need to be!! I love the panties too, but I usually only splurge once or twice a year. For some reason it is easier to buy for my kids.

I have boycotted Victoria's Secret successfully for about 10 years now. Everything they have, really is for smaller women. There is NOTHING in that store that fits a size 14 or higher, and nothing higher than a 38D bra. Since I've been a 40DD for years now, it just makes me feel bad about myself when I'm in that store!

I go to high end department stores, like Macy's or Nordstrom's, or to Frederick's of Hollywood when I want something less refined.

Lane Bryant has good bras, too, that don't look "matronly"

I love Lane Bryant.

I wish I had money to spend on frillies more often, though

My money goes to Wal-Mart right now. LOL

Don't have a lot of it to spend, well until I graduate and start working.

We're saving for a house.

It's the budget that never ends!

I don't have a lot to spend, either, but do it anyway!

Lol... what is money? I never get to see it... lol... we couldn't afford a playhouse, so we are building one... lol... I even got used swings and a used teeter totter from cheapcycle... the slide came from someone's garbage. LMAO... it just needed some soap and water... ever since we finally bought a house, Murphey just keeps on knocking, lol.

Heck, if I did we wouldn't have food. LOL, I am not a shopper anyway. But my hubby is!

Who needs food? Gnaw on some tree branches... lol.

I am not a shopper either. Which is good I guess. But when I do get in the mood WATCH OUT!

I don't even do the food shopping that's bens job :D I really hate walking round a supernarket it has to be one of the most stressfull things ever unless I'm buying a cucumber of course lol

Oh, yeah, John does ALL the shopping. And I mean all of it. I despise shopping. It gives me a headache.

I guess I am the odd man out. I love to shop.

Oh my you should have seen the zuccini we pulled out of the garden the other day... it was hidden deep in the foliage, and man is it a whopper... guess I'm making zuccini bread... lol it was almost frightening...