Ask Me Help Desk - Michelle's Growth

Ok sweet... settle down...
It is time you stop making NO attempt to help yourself and make A BIG attempt to help yourself... Maybe it is just time you do something aobut your problems instead of sit here and dwell on them... I haven't seen you not once make an attempt to become a better YOU... so maybe you are right... now is the time to get yourself in order and get off this puter! Time for YOU sweet... Make it happen! Today! Start today!

If you got some poop to clean up then clean it... you wouldn't just let it sit on the floor and gather flies would you?? Geeze... enough is enough!

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Originally Posted by br_hjs

Didi, i want you to shut up. And I dont know why i come here anyways but because of that none of you will EVER hear from me again. I come here to talk about one thing and that deosnt even get talked about. Im better off leaving the computer and just thinking on my own without EVERYONE's LIES here.. dont bother respnding to this... i wont read it. I know what you have to say... that its not lies whatever... thats just more lies

I don't know why you come here either Michelle. I thought that this was the reason:

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Originally Posted by grammadidi

Okay, I have started this thread for Michelle at her request. She would like the people who have been helping her the most to participate in the "New" Michelle! This board is for people who are willing to help by staying as positive and honest as possible with the ultimate goal of providing Michelle with support, caring and understanding... while encouraging her personal growth.

When the people here are honest with you, then you refuse to listen. When we try to help you we are pushed away. Yet we all keep coming back. I wonder why that is? (and I am not even Wondergirl! :P) We come here trying to show you that there is more to life than clinging to a relationship that isn't. We try to show you that a lot of people are far, far worse off than you but they don't go moaning and griping about something they cannot and will not change. We come here to play, to have a bit of fun (I think that's called being honest) dispersed with some life lessons, honest feedback and caring.

Michelle, the only people who have posted on this thread are people who genuinely care. Nobody has attacked you, like on previous threads. We are kind to you, and very, very supportive. You just never give one ounce of yourself back. If this is the way you are with your 'boyfriend', your parents, your friends, teachers and other people in your life it is no darn wonder why you are so very, VERY sad and lonely.

We are trying to teach you that talking about something over and over and over again does NOT resolve it if you aren't willing to listen. Communicating is a two way street. You will NEVER have a loving relationship with anyone if you don't learn from some of the feedback on here.

To my way of thinking, you are desperately crying out for love and attention. Do you not see that the only way to get it is to GIVE it?? Every time someone gets close to you they get pushed away because you are afraid. It's time to grow up.

I will not shut up, Michelle. Although, after you posting almost 750 messages on here my guess is that you really don't want help anyhow. You probably are a troll. You would have been booted off here a very long time ago if it wasn't for us being dedicated to supporting you on this thread. I will continue to provide advice on this forum as long as you ask the questions. That is my right as a member here. It is also my right as someone who cares.

I hope you come back. I hope you take 2 days to sit and re-read this entire post. Pretend you are the one giving the advice. I hope you will listen before it's too late. I will NOT play games with you anymore, Michelle. This thread is for your personal growth. Take it, by posting and listening, or leave it by getting off here. It really IS your choice! I will tell you this... I DO care.

Hugs, Didi

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Michelle, this thread was closed because kind people were taking their time out to help you, yet you because disrespectful and rude.