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  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:11 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    I'm near death with fatigue. I'll give you five more minutes, and then I'm history.

    I'm still waiting for Michelle. If you decide to call it a night, then I will still send you the message.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:12 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough
    I'm not going to send the message to friend4u178 until he indicates to me that he has written down the names and the other things that were asked.

    LOL :-) I have them written down.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:12 PM
    Wondergirl
    Michelle is waiting, just like I am. Do you mean friend4u?
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:13 PM
    Wondergirl
    Thank you, friend!!
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:13 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    LOL :-) I have them written down.

    Thanks! I'm glad you are back!
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:15 PM
    grammadidi
    We are all here, waiting and we all have our answers written down, Clough... tap tap tap... waiting somewhat patiently.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:16 PM
    friend4u178
    And yes I am male
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:21 PM
    br_hjs
    I just wanted to share something with you all... about 4 weeks before school started I had a strong feeling I was going to see my boyfriend soon and I wasn't sure at the time if he was going to my school or another school... luckily he goes to mine still. So, I did see him kind of sooner than I could have.
    Well, now I have that same feeling only its like I'm going to be able to actually hang out with him soon... I MAY be able to get my license soon or he may be able to talk to me anyway.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:21 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by br_hjs
    I never received a message

    Sorry, I didn't see that!

    I haven't sent the private message yet. I just wanted to make sure that you had read what I had written earlier. It is below.

    Friend4u178, please let me know that you have read it also. Thanks!

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough
    What I am going to do is send each of you a private message the way that Serena sent one to me. As a matter of fact, I am going to send the same messages. Because of the way that the test works, I think that it would be preferable that the reasons not be posted here the way that they were sent to me. If they were, then that would spoil it for other people who might want to participate in the test. I think you will see why after you see the reasons for the questions. (I'm using the word reasons for the questions, but that might not be the most correct word. Help me out someone please, if you would with a better word, if there is one, after you have seen the private message that I am going to send you.)

    I think that it would be okay to discuss the test on the post we are on right now, just not to post the reasons in the order they were given to me.

    I will proceed with more, after all of you have let me know that you have read this message by posting a response here to it. Thank you!
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:21 PM
    grammadidi
    Friend, is your avatar your dog, or just a general pic?
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:23 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    And yes I am male

    Thank you for clarifying that.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:24 PM
    grammadidi
    Michelle, you probably have a better chance of that if you make some changes in your life. I think you are trying, so keep up the good work.

    (Mind you, we aren't helping by keeping you up all night on a school night!):D

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:24 PM
    friend4u178
    Hi Gramma
    No just an avatar. Clough I have read it
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:34 PM
    Clough
    Okay. Enough waiting. Michelle, please don't copy and paste on this post anything from the private messages that I will send to you, okay? Please answer. Thanks!
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:36 PM
    friend4u178
    Nothing from PM's should ever be published on the public forum in my opinion anyway.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:40 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    Nothing from PM's should ever be published on the public forum in my opinion anyway.

    I agree! Although, I did slip up and mention the name of the poster when I originally placed the test on this post.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:42 PM
    grammadidi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178
    Nothing from PM's should ever be published on the public forum in my opinion anyway.

    I absolutely, totally agree! (Unless of course, you ask permission of the person who wrote it and it is given... or it isn't something private, but just general information.)
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:44 PM
    grammadidi
    Clough, are you sending something out to us?? Are we actually waiting for something?
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:55 PM
    friend4u178
    I have to leave now , will be back tomorrow. Bye all :)
  • Oct 9, 2007, 11:55 PM
    Clough
    I am going to send something out now. I haven't heard back from Michelle, so I won't send her something just yet.

    Please understand that the person who sent me the original test was someone who I helped on another post and who I don't know at all. Her wanting me to participate in the quiz, as she called it, came as a total shock to me! I didn't know what was going on.

    Her explanations to the answers I had given, quite frankly, set me back quite a bit! She was dead-on correct!

    I can't guarantee that you will have similar results as I did. I don't know why that it worked. It just did. If nothing else, it was just very interesting! I hope that you have similar results with it. If it turns out to be a waste of time for you, then I really apologize about that.

    I am going to compile and send the messages, now. Thanks for waiting! Please realize that my mailbox here is just about full. I save certain messages for personal reasons. So, if you reply to me that way, my mailbox might get too full. Thank you!
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:20 AM
    grammadidi
    Oooops... sorry, I sent to your mailbox here. However, I also sent you an email with the other test. When you have finished it, I will send the results, as well as an excellent personality test that is bang on!

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:36 AM
    Clough
    I wonder what happened to Michelle? She has been getting an awful lot of information to absorb and assimilate! I hope that she is okay! It was time to get to bed, though.
  • Oct 10, 2007, 05:30 AM
    JoeCanada76
    I just want to say that this thread for Michelle is a great idea. Thank you Didi, you have the special touch of reminding all of us what is important. To you Michelle, I am sorry if I was not possitive in earlier threads. I truly had the goal of helping out in some way and I hope that I can start to do that in a new way, starting here. Starting today.
  • Oct 10, 2007, 09:32 AM
    grammadidi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Jesushelper76
    I just want to say that this thread for Michelle is a great idea. Thank you Didi, you have the special touch of reminding all of us what is important. To you Michelle, I am sorry if I was not possitive in earlier threads. I truly had the goal of helping out in some way and I hope that I can start to do that in a new way, starting here. Starting today.

    Thank YOU, Joe! Knowing you, I am sure that you truly had the goal of helping Michelle in some way. I also know that sometimes people who really want to help can sometimes overreact and say or do the wrong things. I know I do! :) What matters here, I think, is that you have realized that you have made some mistakes and apologized. That is huge, Joe, and something that Michelle, and others, can learn from.

    See, Michelle! Sometimes we think that we have no-one. Then when we change our attitude and start on a path of self-improvement we find that people DO care! I bet that if you continue on this path you have chosen to follow that you will find yourself with some wonderful, caring and supportive friends.

    Those who really care will come here to offer encouragement and support to you. Sometimes we will just be silly and fun to help you minimize your focus on your problems to enable you to move past them. Other times we'll be a pain in the butt (like encouraging you to go to bed or only post during a decent time so that you get a good nights sleep!). We may try to help you to become more self-aware, self-confident or self-controlled. I know that whatever role we play in your life, regardless of the outcome, you will glean knowledge from it, and, if nothing else, learn that there ARE people out there who care. I also believe, Michelle, that you have something to teach us.

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:36 PM
    br_hjs
    Okay I'm here... now what about that list?
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:48 PM
    Clough
    Hi, Michelle? Are you asking about the private message that I was going to send out or something else?
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:48 PM
    br_hjs
    The private message
  • Oct 10, 2007, 01:56 PM
    Clough
    I'm going to send to you the private message that I sent to the others. But, please realize that I won't be around for awhile to answer any questions because there is some work that I have to do before 4:30.

    Is that okay if no one is around for awhile who knows about the test who could answer any questions that you might have?
  • Oct 10, 2007, 02:04 PM
    Clough
    I'm sorry! But, I really do have to go now! I will be back later...
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:00 PM
    grammadidi
    Hey, Michelle, are you online? Probably not, as it's showing you offline. Anyhow, I just wondered how your day went today. Do you have anything positive to tell us about? If not, we'll catch you later, I guess. I was just thinking of you...

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:06 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by grammadidi
    Hey, Michelle, are you online? Probably not, as it's showing you offline. Anyhow, I just wondered how your day went today. Do you have anything positive to tell us about? If not, we'll catch you later, I guess. I was just thinking of you...

    Hugs, Didi

    Me, too! :)
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:08 PM
    friend4u178
    WOW Clough , that quiz thing was brilliant , worked for me thanks :-)
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:14 PM
    Clough
    It really did? That's great! I wondered about that. I was taking a chance. I still haven't given those explanations to Michelle. It will be interesting to see what she thinks. Still no word from Wondergirl, either.
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:15 PM
    Clough
    Now, if we keep posting here before certain others return, it might get a little confusing for certain individuals to catch up. Nudge...
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:17 PM
    grammadidi
    And of course you know it worked pretty good for me, too! How about that other one I sent you? Have you ever done it before, Clough? I found some of your answers veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery interesting... heehee!

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:19 PM
    friend4u178
    Are you going to share that one with us too Didi?
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:23 PM
    grammadidi
    Hmmmm... I guess I could! You may have seen it before. It circulates the web a lot. Oh, well... why not? Here are the questions that you must answer:

    Make a wish before you begin to answer.
    First, order the following animals according to your preference:
    • a) Cow
    • b) Tiger
    • c) Sheep
    • d) Horse
    • e) Pig
    Second, write a word that describes each of the following:
    • a) Dog
    • b) Cat
    • c) Rat
    • d) Coffee
    • e) Ocean
    Third, think about someone (who also knows you and is important to you,) that can be related to the following colors (do not repeat your answers.)
    Name only one person per color:
    • a) Yellow
    • b) Orange
    • c) Red
    • d) White
    • e) Green
  • Oct 10, 2007, 06:24 PM
    grammadidi
    After you answer those questions, send me a PM and I'll tell you what it all means. :)

    Now, I have to restart my computer after a Windows Update and catch up on some other threads. Be back later...

    Hugs, Didi
  • Oct 10, 2007, 08:16 PM
    br_hjs
    I feel bad for trying 100's of times to get into his mail and now I did figure out his password and all the e-mails were from me and to me.
  • Oct 10, 2007, 08:35 PM
    grammadidi
    Michelle, have you not learned anything here? Let me give you my thoughts.

    When you love someone... and I mean REALLY love them, you trust them. There are no ifs, ands or buts about that, sorry! I don't know if you have ever heard this before, but read and think about this:

    "Love is very patient and kind, NEVER jealous or envious, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not touchy. It does not hold grudges and hardly even notices when others do it wrong."

    One other thing... you cannot ever truly love anyone else until you love yourself.

    Think about those two things, Michelle. I told you before that you will push the people you care about away with your immature behaviour. Now it is time to self-evaluate and grow.

    Hugs, Didi

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