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  • Apr 26, 2010, 12:44 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Yes, not only that, but I filed these files, we do alphabetical filing. I went into the filing room and I found 6-7 "W" files put high up on a shelf, in the "Z" section, that no one ever uses. I filed them, went in there a few hours ago and the files were back there.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 12:47 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Yes, not only that, but I filed these files, we do alphabetical filing. I went into the filing room and I found 6-7 "W" files put high up on a shelf, in the "Z" section, that no one ever uses. I filed them, went in there a few hours ago and the files were back there.

    Yup. I feel your pain for real now. That is just out and out mean. Is there someone you can tell this to, at least for the record?
  • Apr 26, 2010, 12:52 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    On a lighter note, I talked to the woman from the Agri Collage, and she said I should continue on with my animal science class, but drop the chemistry and take the Animal behavior class!

    Also she said that starting in September they will be offering an Animal physiotherapy class, it would be 4 years right alongside the animal science and behavior classes, and the best part?? 6 months of the class is done online! 
  • Apr 26, 2010, 12:55 PM
    Aurora_Bell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Yup. I feel your pain for real now. That is just out and out mean. Is there someone you can tell this to, at least for the record?


    Yes I asked my supervisor, if she knew why they were being put up there, but I made sure to mention it in front of one of the partners. She was snarky, but at least I brought it out in the open.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:03 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    On a lighter note, I talked to the woman from the Agri Collage, and she said I should continue on with my animal science class, but drop the chemistry and take the Animal behavior class!

    Also she said that starting in September they will be offering an Animal physiotherapy class, it would be 4 years right alongside the animal science and behavior classes, and the best part??? 6 months of the class is done online!! 

    This sounds great. :)

    How many of these individuals are going to be laid off when you are? I am having a difficult time keeping a straight face while picturing them as low person in the pecking orderat a new job. That's if they manage to get new jobs and the ones who are left stabbing each other.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:07 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Well one of them was FIRED today. And the there are 2 others, but they may get psoitions in a different office.

    I want to say it's because they are young, but you know they are only a few years younger than I. I know it's not age, it's mantality. And they have a low one I guess. I am gald you guys are hear to vent to.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:11 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Well one of them was FIRED today. And the there are 2 others, but they may get psoitions in a different office.

    I want to say it's because they are young, but you know they are only a few years younger than I. I know it's not age, it's mantality. And they have a low one I guess. I am gald you guys are hear to vent to.

    Maturity knows no age boundaries. Just ask the 12 year olds who want to date 19 year olds. :rolleyes: :)
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:13 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Yes, that is so true. But they claim to be "like sooooo mature".

    Ok only 2 more months to go.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:19 PM
    Cat1864
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    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Yes, that is so true. But they claim to be "like sooooo mature".

    Ok only 2 more months to go.

    When is your last day?
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:22 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    June 30th at 5pm! Can you tell the count down is on?
  • Apr 26, 2010, 01:35 PM
    Cat1864
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    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    June 30th at 5pm! Can you tell the count down is on?

    Would it be tacky to have a countdown calendar on your desk with fireworks marking the final day? :D
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:04 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    That's a good idea... hmmm ::seriously contemplating it::
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:30 PM
    albear

    Hi bella, sorry to hear about your day,

    I agree with wondergirl that you should start keeping records so you can prove the underhandedness.

    The calendar sounds like a fun idea :)

    Although your boss might take it a bit personally
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:33 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Ya, you are right bear. Maybe I will just mark it in my personal agenda.

    I really want to contact the girl who filed the formal complaint with the labor board, she actually sued the company because of the harassment and the abuse she endured while she worked there.

    I would be so paranoid, if I didn't know that they went through 5 people before I was hired. I was starting to think it was me. I was really feeling incompetent. It's still Hell being there...
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:47 PM
    albear

    That is a really good idea

    Is there any way that you could contact her or them if that's the case, I'm not sure what you have access to but if you can legally access employment files about past emplyees then maybe you could find her.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:58 PM
    cdad

    Im going to throw in my 2 cents worth because it seems something keeps getting missed. If you feel you need or could use a therapist then you should seek one out now that has late day or evening appointments. Some even do Saturdays. It would be worth looking around for one.

    Another thing is if there are women that are driving you insane at work I would suggest turning the heat up. Use tabasco sauce. If you put it on their chair and it dries then later when they are seated and begin to sweat they will have hot pants.. lol. Just don't faint laughing.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 04:59 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    I don't know how I can go about doing it. I don't think I could look at employment records. But I may be able to do some fishing, maybe if I can find her name I can look her up on Facebook or something.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 05:35 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    I don't know how I can go about doing it. I don't think I could look at employment records. But I may be able to do some fishing, maybe if I can find her name I can look her up on facebook or something.

    The court case should be public record. Try finding her name by looking up the Company's name in lawsuits.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 05:40 PM
    Aurora_Bell
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by califdadof3 View Post
    Im going to throw in my 2 cents worth because it seems something keeps getting missed. If you feel you need or could use a therapist then you should seek one out now that has late day or evening appointments. Some even do Saturdays. It would be worth looking around for one.

    Another thing is if there are women that are driving you insane at work I would suggest turning the heat up. Use tabasco sauce. If you put it on thier chair and it dries then later when they are seated and begin to sweat they will have hot pants .. lol. Just dont faint laughing.

    Hahah, I would die laughing!

    I will look into the after hours therapist. I didn't know that was an option.
  • Apr 26, 2010, 05:41 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Oh that's good Cat.

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