Eeek, help. There's a really adorable 5 year old girl jumping on me and kissing my face, repeatedly. HELP!

M, I've got to go for a while. Bedtime play, bedtime story, kids go to bed. I'll be back in around an hour. Hope you're still here. If not take care and I'll talk to you soon.

No problem Alty , I'll be here in my corner :-)

Aunty Alty... I'm going to need your womanly advice on this one:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...161688-27.html

Okay Sneezy, I gave it a try. Don't tell anyone, secret, but sometimes it's sad to be lumped in the same group as these females. I'm happy that I am female, but there are so many out there that make the rest of us look bad. Frustrating.

Having said that, remember that not all women are like her, in fact, I think there are more great girls out there than bad, unfortunately bad things stick in our mind much more than good.

You'll find someone great one day, someone wonderful, someone who will treat you the way that you deserve, this girl is not the one, nor is she friend material. Heck, with friends like her who needs enemies?

Unfortunately, she was a WONDERFUL person for about... 3 years. Really. She was a SAINT at my school. Anytime anyone found out I was with her, the first question was, "How'd you get her?" Honestly. Just not sure how things did a 180... in such extreme directions... in such a short amount of time.

She was possibly the sweetest most caring girlfriend I've ever had... not to mention, I often refer to her as the best girlfriend I ever had.. . interestingly enough, this has got to be the WEIRDEST breakup ever.

Eh.

Anyway, I'm off for a coffee break really quickly, and I'll be heading to the library. Be back in about an hour or so.

Alty, if you're not here when I get back, thanks as always... and good night!

Sneezy, honey, sorry but it's time to remember why you two aren't together. I never like telling people to think badly about others, but in this case I'm going to. I'm sure that those three years wasn't all fun and laughter, in the end it definitely wasn't. She pushed you to the floor, ripped out your heart, then she stomped on it. Time heals all wounds and you were almost ready to remove the band aid, almost, now she wants to re-open the wound. Don't let her, don't give her your power!

One day you'll meet the most wonderful women, you'll love her and everything about her, and she'll feel the same for you. You'll fight sometimes, you'll disagree, you'll kiss and make up, the world will be a better place because she's in it, and it will be the same for you. The ex will be a thing of the past. Trust me on this one, been there, done that. I dated a guy once that I thought was the love of my life, he ripped my heart in two. Two years later I met my husband and I haven't looked back once. We have our problems, what couple doesn't, but in the end he's still my best friend, my lover, my partner for life, you'll find that too, count on it.

That was sappy, sorry honey.

I'm not disagreeing with you, I promise...

But to be honest, the 3 years... was all fun and games. We never fought. We argued, yes, but we always argued with relatively mature communication and just talked it out and came to a happy medium.. . isn't that bizarre? How many college kids actually do that?

Regardless, I know what to do... just wanted some thoughts as to... why she's not getting the clue.. I mean... a week of not picking up calls... not responding e-mails... c'mon!!

Oh you women.

Hee, hee, yup we can be stubborn and pig headed. Yikes, I'm going to be in so much trouble with the gals.

See you soon sweetie. Chin up and NC, you'll be fine.

A female may not want to have a certain male as a boyfriend any longer, but that doesn't mean she wants to push him out of her life totally. She wants him somewhere in her realm, even just adoring her from afar. Females are taught to be attractive and desirable. NC negates all that. If he abides by NC, she's not attractive or desirable, has lost her luster.

That's so true Wondergirl.

How are you sweetie? Care for a beverage?

For some reason the vision in my left eye is really blurry all of a sudden. I'm worried. I'm going to call it a night and give my eyes a rest. I hope there's nothing wrong.

Talk to you all tomorrow.

Alty out.

NC!!
Sneezy, you are wonderful, keep up the good work, the hard good work!
Now git to yer studying!! ;)

Alty: rest up!

Starty: yes ma'am.

Wondergirl: that should be... a greeting card... or one of those "wondergirl's thought of the day"... quite poetic.

Gosh Alty, you sure are having problems with that left eye, so sorry love!
I am going to read up on some cool AMHD stuff, see you guys around!:) Night!

No worries starty... I'll be here for a while :)

Anyone around? I need a good vent before I explode!

Yes. I'm here starby. What's up?

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Anyone around? I need a good vent before I explode!

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Vent away starby

Here!:)