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  • Jul 7, 2008, 08:52 PM
    Alty
    Ah, it's a game, now I see. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 01:31 AM
    jrebel7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    Rebbie, your post made me cry, I don't know why. Thanks all for the support. I'm still thinking about posting it on the art forum, I will think about it. I'm glad you all enjoyed it, because it gives me allot of pleasure, that's why I do it, or did, haven't for 7 years. I think it's also hard because of what it means to me, the fact that it's something I shared with my dad, and he's gone, so is my mom, they both died in 2001. I still have a hard time with it, they both meant so much to me, their absence is something I'm still not used to, I don't think I ever will be.

    My dad's art brings me peace, I look at it and remember when he made it, the fun we had, the classes we took, the jokes and laughter. I don't know if I'll ever be able to experience that again with my art.

    Thanks all, you are all such great friends. What would I do without you, I hope I never have to find out.

    Sweet Alty,
    Tears are good for the cleansing of the soul to clear the path for the birth of new visions!
    You shared a vision with your father and it was fulfilled.
    The tears come now to clear your path for new visions, inspired by your father. He would be so proud to know you are once again, being inspired to create. No doubt, a dream he had for your life. (I don't presume to know). Seven years, (7) God's perfect number!

    Sharing a part of you that was so entwined with your dad makes it all the more difficult for you yet also, all the more special to share with others. Not everyone has a dad who loves them or inspires them or even sometimes accepts them. Your story and your art may be the only way some ever experience a little piece of that feeling and you can provide that through the written word, sharing little moments spent with your dad as you both painted together as you also share your new creations, inspired by your father's love for you and for art. I believe your dad would feel so honored for you to share the love he had for you, with others but that is not for me to say, only to suggest.

    I think you are ready to just burst forth as you move toward a new time in your life of creating, using the wonderful memories of your father to inspire you. Everyone likes to know the inspiration behind the artist's work, or enjoy reading little stories as to the development of the piece. Little Alty, I want to encourage you to become the artist that is within you! It has sat dormant for a time, as life moved slowly forward.

    To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: Ecclesiastes 3:1
  • Jul 8, 2008, 02:01 AM
    starbuck8
    Now you are making me cry Rebby! Your words are so sweet and touching. I'm so glad to call you my friend. Yes Alty's paintings are beautiful, and her Dad would be proud to see her painting again. I'm at a loss for words Rebby. That was just so sweet, for you to give Alty that inspiration. I'm sure her Dad hands will help her with every stroke of the brush, and she will feel him in the room with her while she paints more beautiful pictures. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 06:41 AM
    albear
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by theguywithnolife
    Gears fan eh? I didn't really care for it, But I only played the 1st level so i really can't give the opion of the game

    I'm more of Halo 3 person myself

    Should have gone more into it, tis a great game, but I agree with you on halo 3 is a brilliant game its just COD4 is in a word better in my opinion especially online
  • Jul 8, 2008, 07:38 AM
    startover22
    I like Donkey Kong myself... but I guess that is just my own opinion;);):)

    EDIT::::::::::
    Sneezy, welcome, I am sorry we didn't tell you;)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 07:39 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    ... no one's into the oldies..

    Blackjack..

    Texttwist..

    PACMAN?!
  • Jul 8, 2008, 07:40 AM
    startover22
    Ohhhhh... of course, that is pretty much all I know Sneezy!
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:18 AM
    Chery
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    I'm the same way Stringer. I haven't actually painted since my dad died. It was something we did together, he was a very talented painter. I usually paint in oils, and I got an easel and all new paints for Christmas, I have yet to use them. The kids are interested, and they've been begging me to paint something, I just have to find happiness in it again, not saddness because my dad isn't beside me.

    Here's one of the first pictures I every painted, it's not great, but hubby loves it so it's hanging in our bedroom. Unfortunately I couldn't get a great picture, the spray that I put on to protect the picture makes in shiny when you take a picture. I hope you get the basic image. :)

    Attachment 9949

    I've gotten allot better since that painting, but it was fun to do, and interesting to look at now, because I can see all the flaws. :)

    Dear Alty. Your dad would want you to continue. When we encourage our children to do something that they have fun doing and are good at (and believe me, you're GOOD) they want you to find peace and happiness in your memories of them. When I taught Jaime a few things and she got good at it, it made me so darned proud of her and I sincerely hope she continues the rest of her life and has fond memories of me teaching her how. That's what drives us parents. It leaves a legacy - so think of it that way. I just downloaded your picture of the wolves for her because she has loved wolves since she was a baby and when we went to the zoo to watch them, they always came close to us and 'sang' their song for her - it was usually near closing time and it was a ritual. She still remembers that time as one of the happiest times as a child. Hope it's OK with you for me to share it with her. Keep up your wonderful talent my love, don't deprive the rest of the world of something so beautiful!

    The other picture makes me think of a scene in a Charles D*ckens novel - you've got talent babe, and should never give it up. - for some reason his last name gets blocked, maybe because 'someone' thinks it's a 'bad word'.

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:24 AM
    Chery
    On the subject of games and such ---- and I'm NOT advertizing for the products in any way!

    I like yachtzee(sp) still, dominoes, crosswords, scrabble,netuno, spades, any breakout game, jigsaw,the original mahjong, space invaders, etc.
    If you check out completelyfreesoftware.com - they have old and new games for all windows and/or DOS versions. I have lifetime membership on that site and believe me, it's worth it. It does not just have games, but everything else, from utilities to desktop apps and more.
    That's where I got my Total Commander and my Desk Sweeper. The desksweeper clears the desktop when the apps you use are minimized when you use them so that the icons in the background don't interefere with your concentration.

    That site also has a lot of bible-related games for kids of all ages which I download for my friend for her kids.

    Let me know if there is anything on it that might interest you and I can download and send to you to try out - because there is minimal fee to join - a lifetime cost me less than 30 dollars.

    Also, if you like jigsaw puzzles that you can create yourself with your own pictures, different piece shapes, and from 25 to 3000 pieces try out Jigs@w Puzzle. This one was so good I just had to buy it.

    Then there is Kyodai Mahjong.. where you can create your own tiles, tilesets, and the site has custom made tilesets made from other members that you can download and use. Just check out the site and see for yourself how much imagination some people have.

    Right now, I have RealArcade and BigFish Games and I just love hidden object games of all sorts. This keeps my mind busy and it's a lot of fun to find all the hidden objects in some super graphic apps. The nice thing about these sites is that you can download and play any type of game for an hour for free until you find one that you want to purchase.

    So, now you know I'm still a kid at heart. I collect all kinds of pictures and create coloring books in PDF format too with Painshop Pro 9, although I don't do it as much as I used to, I still have a pretty good collection and give them away to my friends and neighbors to keep their kids busy. The only problem is when I send them on the net, I have to make them small enough to use Yousendit.com for people to be able to download them. My Winnie the Pooh, flowers, fish, christmas, aminals, clowns, and easter coloring books have been sent almost all over the world.

    PM me any time if you need more information or if anyone has any ideas on how I can send large files an easier way.

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:34 AM
    startover22
    Ohhhh you are so cool Chery!!
    AND, I just figured out who you remind me of... :)
    I have a best friend in Alaska, I was 8 months old when she was born and we hung out almost every day after that special day! OUR MOTHERS were best friends... bowling, bingo, costume making, arts and crafts, and my fave was Dennys for breakfast! ;) I called them both "mom" I love my best friend and I love my Mom and her best friend. I can't tell you how I was devistated when my parents split, I can't tell you what it meant to me to have her around when my real mom left and never really came back. She was and is extra special to me, and so are you. I never called anyone else mom, even though there are people in my life today that would probably love it if I did. So I just wanted to share this with you. YOu are so much like her, I am lucky to have met you:)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:43 AM
    jrebel7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by starbuck8
    Now you are making me cry Rebby! Your words are so sweet and touching. I'm so glad to call you my friend. Yes Alty's paintings are beautiful, and her Dad would be proud to see her painting again. I'm at a loss for words Rebby. That was just so sweet, for you to give Alty that inspiration. I'm sure her Dad hands will help her with every stroke of the brush, and she will feel him in the room with her while she paints more beautiful pictures. :)

    Goodness Starby! I didn't mean to make anyone cry. I am sure knowing Alty's loss, it touches a chord in all of us. I agree with you that Alty will feel her dad's presence in the room as she paints because we all carry a part of those we deeply love with us forever.

    I am glad we are friends also. You and others have been such a blessing to me in ways you will probably never really know.

    I sound a bit sappy here this morning... sorry everyone, not meaning to. :o It is just so nice to have friends to wake up to every morning and know if we need each other, someone will be here.

    Thanks to all of you! :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:45 AM
    startover22
    Thank you too Rebby!
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:48 AM
    jrebel7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22
    Thank you too Rebby!!

    Starty, I have been enjoying all of your posts. You seem to have an extra bounce in your step so to speak lately. Sure makes me have a good day! Love and hugs!
  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:48 AM
    Chery
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22
    Ohhhh you are so cool Chery!!!
    AND, I just figured out who you remind me of....:)
    I have a best friend in Alaska, I was 8 months old when she was born and we hung out almost every day after that special day! OUR MOTHERS were best friends....bowling, bingo, costume making, arts and crafts, and my fave was Dennys for breakfast!!;) I called them both "mom" I love my best friend and I love my Mom and her best friend. I can't tell you how i was devistated when my parents split, I can't tell you what it meant to me to have her around when my real mom left and never really came back. She was and is extra special to me, and so are you. I never called anyone else mom, even though there are people in my life today that would probably love it if I did. So I just wanted to share this wiht you. YOu are so much like her, I am lucky to have met you:)

    Same here Start. I love you too and what you do with kids that need a 'mom'. When you feel exhausted and down, think of us sitting on couch with your head in my lap and me brushing your hair or rubbing your back and just talking about anything under the sun. We might be geographically away from each other, but always consider me there for you any time.

    Love,
    Chery

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 09:55 AM
    startover22
    I just don't know what to say...
    Rebby, I am trying my hardest to be as positive as I can. I am glad it is shining through. I have been through a few rough spots, and I am trying to find a way to move on and be well. Life is so short... I can't just sit around and mope, or be angry, or be sad! Hugs to you Reb...
    Chery, I can only dream of being right next to you;) This is what it is supposed to be, so I take it in as much as I can! I know I can count on you Chery, ever since I met you and CBW introduce us to each other... I knew.;)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:04 AM
    startover22
    YouTube - I wanna thank you-Jess and Rory
    This is a wonderful song... it says everything I feel for you all!;)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:05 AM
    theguywithnolife
    Why is it Whenever I get one here my post is 30 pages ago? :confused:
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:06 AM
    startover22
    It may be because we chat so much?? ;) Hi you Guy, how have youbeen?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:07 AM
    theguywithnolife
    Eh.. Busyish I could guess
    Football restarted and I got denied my application, So I'm unemployed... My Grandmother is getting some surgey done to check her heart and my dad wasn't smart enough to wake me up and we're going to the mall on Friday
    And I have an Essay I have to write on The Good Earth
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:12 AM
    startover22
    Oh busyish is good. All my love to grandma, and thank goodness for good DADS! ;)
    My 14 year old is going to be a freshman, he broke his arm in a very bad place, right under the shoulder, so he won't be playing this year! He has been playing football since he was in the first grade, this is a very sad situation. I feel so bad for him...
    Have fun at the mall
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:14 AM
    theguywithnolife
    I'll Try, I'm not much of a shopper myself
    I'm just going to guy 2-3 shirts maybe, and its quite a nice mall to so I've heard
    Opry Mills - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    Hchicky, Your from Nashville rite? Is it OK?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:17 AM
    startover22
    I think Chicky is on the other thread, I haven't seen her in here... at least I don't remember it if I did;)
    GOod, you get some shirts and take it easy! Love to your grandma Guy...
  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:40 AM
    Chery
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jrebel7
    Goodness Starby! I didn't mean to make anyone cry. I am sure knowing Alty's loss, it touches a chord in all of us. I agree with you that Alty will feel her dad's presence in the room as she paints because we all carry a part of those we deeply love with us forever.

    I am glad we are friends also. You and others have been such a blessing to me in ways you will probably never really know.

    I sound a bit sappy here this morning..........sorry everyone, not meaning to. :o It is just so nice to have friends to wake up to every morning and know if we need each other, someone will be here.

    Thanks to all of you! :)

    Hi Rebby, you know that we care a lot and I am glad that you found this family - glad I found it too for that matter. 'Birds of a feather', so to speak.. and it is good to know that even though geographically apart, there are those that do accept us for who we are and encourage us to not give up, no matter how bad things get sometimes.

    I never go to any 'chatrooms' where there is nothing but a bunch of blah,blah with no meaning - and if we shed a few tears here it is because they are tears of joy and warmth and they are as important as taking our next breath. Since meeting all of you I feel that I am a part of a great big wonderful family and it brings joy to my heart, just as much as your emails bring - so don't stop sending them because you bring joy to my often painful days and sincerely hope that when you are here with us, your pain is a little more tolerable too.

    Lots of love and hugs,

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Chery
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by theguywithnolife
    eh..Busyish I could guess
    Football restarted and I got denied my application, So I'm unemployed...My Grandmother is getting some surgey done to check her heart and my dad wasn't smart enough to wake me up and we're going to the mall on friday
    and I have an Essay I have to write on The Good Earth

    Good luck on your essay dear and I hope your grandma's surgery comes out well. What type of heart problem does she have, if I may ask. I also hope that your unemployment does not last long.. mine was over 3 years until I finally got my medical retirement - what a pain! I certainly wish you better luck.

    Take care dear, and don't worry about the posts being so 'untogether', we always find the important ones..

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:29 AM
    jrebel7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Chery
    Hi Rebby, you know that we care a lot and I am glad that you found this family - glad I found it too for that matter. 'Birds of a feather', so to speak.. and it is good to know that even though geographically apart, there are those that do accept us for who we are and encourage us to not give up, no matter how bad things get sometimes.

    I never go to any 'chatrooms' where there is nothing but a bunch of blah,blah with no meaning - and if we shed a few tears here it is because they are tears of joy and warmth and they are as important as taking our next breath. Since meeting all of you I feel that I am a part of a great big wonderful family and it brings joy to my heart, just as much as your emails bring - so don't stop sending them because you bring joy to my often painful days and sincerely hope that when you are here with us, your pain is a little more tolerable too.

    Lots of love and hugs,

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    I couldn't have described my experience with this "virtual family" better than you just did! It seems amazing to me how so many with such warmth, found each other. Can't be a coincidence. A "meant to be" thing! I have never gone to a "chat room" and have to admit I read a lot of posts here on this site before ever posting. It was a new venture that seemed a bit intimidating to me in the beginning. I am so glad I did take the step into the family! I feel good when I am on the site, seeing you and others, knowing how much you care. You have been an inspiration to me. Love and Hugs right backatcha!! :p
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:29 AM
    Alty
    Oh my Goodnes, oh my goodness. I just want to send out a big hug and kiss to everyone. Chery and Rebby, your words, your heartfelt words, wow, my heart is beating so fast right now, and the tears are running down my cheeks. Thank you both so much, what you said opened up a window, one I've held shut for many years. Bless both of you, and thank you. There aren't words to tell you how much your words meant to me. :)

    Okay, happy time. I sent my book to a friend of mine, she's a graphic artist. She loves it, absolutely adores it, and she's going to work on a few sketches for me to consider.
    I'm going shopping for some art supplies today, including a canvass, yes, for a new painting. :)

    Thank you all for being my friends, you mean so much to me. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:32 AM
    jrebel7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    Oh my Goodnes, oh my goodness. I just want to send out a big hug and kiss to everyone. Chery and Rebby, your words, your heartfelt words, wow, my heart is beating so fast right now, and the tears are running down my cheeks. Thank you both so much, what you said opened up a window, one I've held shut for many years. Bless both of you, and thank you. There aren't words to tell you how much your words meant to me. :)

    Okay, happy time. I sent my book to a friend of mine, she's a graphic artist. She loves it, absolutely adores it, and she's going to work on a few sketches for me to consider.
    I'm going shopping for some art supplies today, including a canvass, yes, for a new painting. :)

    Thank you all for being my friends, you mean so much to me. :)

    I am so proud of you Sweet Alty!! :p

    It is your time to shine and we will be so excited to hear about your progress and see great things from you! :p
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:33 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    I agree with rebby that other chatrooms are completely different from this environment.

    This is my usual encounter in other chatrooms:

    ::Sneezy has entered I love Kanye West::

    Sneezy: Hi
    Girl14124: See my pics here
    Guy12313: Want to be bigger, longer? Click ME!
    Girl1121: Want to chat? Pay me!

    ::Sneezy has left I love Kanye West::
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:33 AM
    ISneezeFunny
    I can't wait to see your book alty!

    ... so... I get an autographed copy, no?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:34 AM
    Alty
    I'm giving it my all, I won't quit, and it's thanks to my friends. Great things, hopefully, I'd settle for good things. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 11:34 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
    I can't wait to see your book alty!

    ...so...I get an autographed copy, no?

    You betcha. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 01:10 PM
    JoeCanada76
    Hello everyone, so much for me to get caught up with. Will later.

    Just got back from work and Mini me is still sleeping.

    Very hot and humid today supposed to get some storms.

    Well hope to catch everyone later.

    Joe
  • Jul 8, 2008, 01:33 PM
    Alty
    Hey Joe. :)

    Storms, yuck, sleep, ah, humid, eek. :)

    Mini me, hee, hee, that's what I call my daughter. :)
  • Jul 8, 2008, 01:42 PM
    startover22
    Hi you Joe, nice to see you working hard. I wish I were little cheeks right now... sleeping;)
    Hi Alty, how was your day today?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 02:13 PM
    Alty
    Hey Starty. Today's been good so far. Cleaning day, yuck, but it has to be done, and I'm the only one to do it. :(

    How are you today Starty?
  • Jul 8, 2008, 02:34 PM
    Chery
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
    I agree with rebby that other chatrooms are completely different from this environment.

    This is my usual encounter in other chatrooms:

    ::Sneezy has entered I love Kanye West::

    Sneezy: Hi
    girl14124: See my pics here
    guy12313: Want to be bigger, longer? Click ME!
    girl1121: Want to chat? Pay me!

    ::Sneezy has left I love Kanye West::

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    Yup! You hit it right on the mark.
    What's going on until the 15th of August? Hope it's good news and that you are OK.
  • Jul 8, 2008, 02:44 PM
    Chery
    Even emails are creeping in that are mostly from gmail.com - with suggestions on how to make my nights better and my you-know-what grow and last longer. Gosh, I didn't know I had a you-know-what.. the last time I looked I was still a woman. To bad gmail is letting things like this happen, so I have decided to mark all mail from gmail as SPAM and will not accept it anymore. So, if any of you have a gmail address, sorry for spamming you, but had to do it to stop receiving so much junk from strangers. I know that you can set your internet security to a higher level, but there are some sites with vital information for me that would not be accepted if I changed the settings.

    I have a good firewall and keep my antivirus, antispam programs running every day. It's just that my Yahoo mail does not have a very good spam filter - too bad. Do any of you Yahoo-ers have the same problem?

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  • Jul 8, 2008, 06:15 PM
    startover22
    If I were a good puter friend, I would be able to give you advice. I have windows vista... and I thought you did too? Yes? :) Good luck with the puter... hugs!
  • Jul 8, 2008, 06:16 PM
    Alty
    Everyone's having puter problems lately. Mine seems to be fine, for now, darnit, now I said something, watch, it will stop...
  • Jul 8, 2008, 06:17 PM
    JoeCanada76
    Still sticking with Windows xp. Not ready for the leap yet.

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