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  • Jan 25, 2011, 08:22 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Just Looking View Post
    Hi All,

    I just wanted to let you know I'm taking a break from here, probably for a few months. I have some family business to take care of (impending death of my grandfather) and I'm feeling a little overwhelmed between that and work. Take care.

    Jlo your grandfather will be in my prayers, take care.
  • Jan 26, 2011, 07:33 AM
    88sunflower
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Just Looking View Post
    Hi All,

    I just wanted to let you know I'm taking a break from here, probably for a few months. I have some family business to take care of (impending death of my grandfather) and I'm feeling a little overwhelmed between that and work. Take care.

    JLo your in my thoughts. Please remember to take care of yourself also. Times like these can be so stressing and tiring. In my prayers hon.
  • Jan 26, 2011, 07:36 AM
    88sunflower
    I may have sounded like a bad mother thinking my son was faking sick, yesterday he was. He was sick all weekend and Monday. But that stinker faked it yesterday. Oh he got in so much trouble when we caught on.
  • Jan 26, 2011, 09:39 AM
    Aurora_Bell

    JLO, you're in my thoughts. I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa. Please take care and come back soon.
  • Jan 26, 2011, 10:30 AM
    smoothy

    Take care... its a tough thing to go through... but like Jim Morrison once said... Nobody gets out of here alive.

    We all have our time... and nobody has thus far evaded it when it came. Be thankful they have had as many years as they have.
  • Jan 26, 2011, 01:53 PM
    DoulaLC

    Thoughts and prayers for you and your family JLo.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:08 AM
    88sunflower
    Another day, another dollar. Barely...

    I had one heater quit working here last winter. Guess what? My only other heater has bit the dust. Hmmm going to be an interesting day. I called the boss and said I wasn't working here with no heat. It's a huge place with huge windows and 18ft ceilings. Not the warmest place even with two heaters running all day.

    Should I worry about staying warm or my paycheck bouncing again? Lol It's a freaking circus in this place. Cracks me up.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:39 AM
    Unknown008

    Well, for the time being, have some warm clothing Sunny and don't get a cold :)
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:52 AM
    88sunflower
    I am already here at work and not dressed as warm as I should be. I have the little electric heater blowing on me but its not working out like I want it to. To close it burns me, I move it back and I get chilled. Aww.. the beauty of coming back here to work. Ha ha Oh well. Could always be worse I guess.

    How are you unky? I hear your going to partner with Sneezy and be a doctor? Well that's how I read it anyway. That would be great!
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:05 AM
    Unknown008

    I don't know yet, one thing that bothers me about medicine is that the years of study are hard, long and costly... so unless I get a scholarship, I don't think that it'll be affordable.

    On the other hand, I might get a try in accounting. I loved it back when I did it at school, but because I had to choose a side for my O levels, and that I was doing very well in all 3 sciences, I took the science path. Accounting is only 3 years, plus some years of internship, so I think it would be easier.

    Or, I might go towards engineering, maybe things concerning space and such :p
    Something else I might do is teaching. Tuition teachers here make a lot of money lol. For O level teaching, they usually take R 400 per student per month(R 30 = 1 USD), and they take about 30 students in a batch, for a maximum of 5 batches a week. The total becomes R 60 000 a month, or about $1 000 a month :eek:

    And for higher classes, the fees are higher, lol.

    I need to choose well, two weeks to go until I get my results >.<
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:14 AM
    88sunflower
    You will do so well no matter what you do.

    I loved accounting also when I was in college. Numbers are my thing and it comes natural to me.

    Although teaching would be pretty amazing. Everything you have learned you can give back.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:22 AM
    Unknown008

    Oh well, I guess only time will tell :)

    For the time being, I got an appointment for having my driver's license. I applied for learner and I have to get to the 'formation centre' on Monday. I'm not sure what I'll do, there were a lot of people when I took the appointment and I didn't get the time to ask what I'll do exactly. Oh well, I'll be preparing myself for the test, if that's the reason for the appointment.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:25 AM
    88sunflower
    Oh good luck with your driver's license. I can still remember the day I got mine. I passed the test. I remember taking my moms car for a ride for the first time alone. It was sunny out and warm. I had the windows down and the radio on, because I was cool. I know every one looked at me and thought I was cool because I was driving. ( hee hee well that's how I thought anyway at 17)

    It was so exciting! I am excited for you.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:31 AM
    Unknown008

    Lol, they won't allow a learner to drive alone here.

    I think it's only after two years that they remove the learner status from your license here. I'm not much into cars, but hey, since I have some idle time between now and getting my results, I'm trying getting some things done.

    And maybe I'll get the excitement when I'll drive a car... :cool:

    Otherwise, I'm looking for some small jobs to get experience.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:34 AM
    88sunflower
    I wished I was as put together as you are when I was your age. You have it going on. I was total night and day. I guess that's good it shapes us who we are as adults. Which thank god I grew and learned!

    Does your mom have suggestions on what you should do?
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:39 AM
    Unknown008

    No, she was the first one to discourage me to go into medicine.

    Then, she told me to pick what I'd like to do. For the time being, she's thinking either accounting or dentistry.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 08:53 AM
    88sunflower
    Well just enjoy your time right now. Life goes so fast. The older you get the faster it goes. Be the best you can be and be happy doing it. Your words of wisdom for the day.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 09:19 AM
    Unknown008

    Thank you, I'll sure be thinking about those words :)
  • Jan 27, 2011, 09:26 AM
    88sunflower
    :D

    Jeez unky your never on this long! Your usually so busy your popping in and out.

    I am in this abuse thread and its ripping my heart out. I just read the book The Boy Called It and then I read the one after it The Lost Boy. God some people don't deserve to get away with the things they do.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 09:44 AM
    Unknown008

    Lol, I was playing uno on the net and when a game is on, I might take some time before replying :o

    Oh, good I read Agatha Christie, at least, all the criminals get caught ;)
  • Jan 27, 2011, 12:51 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Hey guys how's things going? Sorry I haven't read back. It's lazy day for miss Bella. No school today so me and the child have been in our jamma's watching movies and reading all day. I finally got my pipes thawed out. Woot! I love running water ;)
  • Jan 27, 2011, 12:57 PM
    88sunflower
    Hey bella. Running water is nice. Good for you.
    I haven't been doing much today either. Surfing the threads today. I don't do that often. Today I was able to check a few out.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:07 PM
    adam_89

    Ello
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:14 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    See any thing good out there Sunny? Hey Adam, how goes things?

    Running water is great! I have never wanted to do my dishes so bad before lol. How's the little guy doing Sunny?
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:19 PM
    adam_89

    Things go good my way.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:21 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Good to hear that. Have you ever worried about something so much that in your mind you have changed the whole scenario and vibe of the actual situation, only to find out nothing is wrong and it was all in your imagination?
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:40 PM
    adam_89

    Yea, I actually understand that.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 01:53 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Lol, well I am glad I am not the only one. Ugg I hate stressing about stupid stuff! Sorry, I;m kind of off and on, making supper. Making meatloaf and roasted potatoes. Mmmmm
  • Jan 27, 2011, 04:36 PM
    smoothy

    Butts dragging today... Took me over 10 hours to drive less than 20 miles to get home locally thanks to MANY idiots that actually believed All Season tires are really good in Ice and snow... and that they actually thought they knew how to drive in the slippery stuff. Something all too many people found out neither of which were really true. Based on the dozens of abandoned cars in awkward positions I had no trouble driving past in my old rear wheel drive car that doesn't even have a limited slip differential.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 05:05 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Butts dragging today......Took me over 10 hours to drive less than 20 miles to get home locally thanks to MANY idiots that actually believed All Season tires are really good in Ice and snow.....and that they actually thought they knew how to drive in the slippery stuff. Something all too many people found out neither of which were really true. based on the dozens of abandoned cars in awkward positions I had no trouble driving past in my old rear wheel drive car that doesn't even have a limited slip differential.

    We had the freezing rain two days ago. Made for fun driving in the morning. Thankfully I've been in Canada most of my life, grew up driving on these roads in the winter. Not much phases me.

    I did get to see two cops slip on the ice while they were tending to people that overestimated their driving skills. That was entertaining. :)
  • Jan 27, 2011, 05:20 PM
    smoothy

    I grew up driving in it too... Learned in the snow and ice in fact... but thousands of idiots lacking the common sense to stay off the road they don't know how to drive on would stop a dog sled team in its tracks.

    IE... Three feet of snow would have stopped me... in fact 2 feet would have in this car... not what we got however.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:11 PM
    88sunflower
    Oh myh god my store is on fire! Not the one I work at his main store at the other location. What the heck!
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:19 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    oh myh god my store is on fire! not the one I work at his main store at the other location. What the heck!!

    Insurance??


    Sounds funny at this point in time. I wonder what's really going on?
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:20 PM
    Stringer

    I was thinking the same thing. I hope everyone is safe.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:25 PM
    88sunflower
    Oh my god! Its on frigen you tube under johnswackyworld look ups OBriens Flooring Center... god I am thinking the same thing guys, it wasn't a good day today. I amshaking and I want to link it but can't think.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:27 PM
    88sunflower
    YouTube - O'Briens Flooring Center Fire - Full Footage
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:33 PM
    88sunflower
    This isn't good
    Oh god this isn't good I am pacing for this ideiot
    What an idiot
    Hmmm wonder if I should show up to work, I am at the other store, well of course I should its up and running I think at this point... ahhh
    Forgive my nonsense typing guys I am seriously shakking and sick tomy stomach
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:44 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 88sunflower View Post
    this isnt good
    oh god this isnt good i am pacing for this ideiot
    what an idiot
    hmmm wonder if i should show up to work, i am at the other store, well of course i should its up and running i think at this point.....ahhh
    forgive my nonsense typing guys i am seriously shakking and sick tomy stomach

    Don't be as it is not your problem. Try to relax. Your out of the loop. If there is funny business going on someone else will answer for it. Its not your fault nor could you have done anything about a fire no matter what the circumstances are surrounding it.

    Give yourself a break.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:48 PM
    88sunflower
    Well it just wasn't a good day. I know its not my fault. I am a tiny better now. But I am telling you I won't be surprised it this was done on purpose. You all heard me talk about not being paid and this and that. The bank wanted a meeting with him in the morning. Now come on! Seems funny to me. I am so mad. Mad because he has been dumb enough to joke about doing that. Mad because he lost it all. All the caddys, all the houses, both stores. The new half million dollar place. He was losing it all. He wasn't normal today guys. Should I not be saying this here? Whatever not like I did anything but jeez its not good timing is all.
  • Jan 27, 2011, 07:50 PM
    88sunflower
    I am out of that loop but I really gave him a hard time today about some things and his issues. Then I got mad about my payroll and that set him right in tears. Well how was I supposed to know tomorrow is was all going. I don't know why the bank wanted the meeting but he isn't stupid and neither am I. I want to feel bad for him but at the same time I sat and watched it slip downhill and his bad choices. Economy is bad yes, but his business thrived and owned this area.

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