I have found myself MUCH chubbier than I was when I first started dating my husband, so I understand the want to feel sexy for yourself thing.

Have you thought about going out and getting a really nice (supportive) teddy, or really good bra and panty set? When I KNOW I'm going to have a tough day, I wear my sexy underwear, and then I feel sexy and feminine all day.

Oh sexy underwear rocks but I just can't justyfi that kind of cash on undies anymore lol

I love that link CBW, it says: "Bring some nuts for the squirrels" - Guess he brought it for someone else, eh?

There is sexy clothes for all sizes and the internet makes it easy to find.

So true cbw... I would love to but with the kids... I'm lucky I get out of the house during the week... let alone spend money...

Well ladies I got to go and start getting ready... Kids are up so it's going to take me a bit, I'll tell you how the movie was... lol.

I just prance around in my tank top and undies... works best for me.. lol. Sometimes its even more fun with a couple blinds open... LOL!

Its fun to think you might be seen, but then when you actually are, it is embarrassing. I had my share of those moments, my husband tries to make me more kinky all the time. I just don't know about that swing, I didn't know it was that expensive. Any other ideas that are less expensive. Yes, Victoria Secret bras are the best, especially the oh so sexy bra, it puts the ta tas right where they need to be!! I love the panties too, but I usually only splurge once or twice a year. For some reason it is easier to buy for my kids.

I have boycotted Victoria's Secret successfully for about 10 years now. Everything they have, really is for smaller women. There is NOTHING in that store that fits a size 14 or higher, and nothing higher than a 38D bra. Since I've been a 40DD for years now, it just makes me feel bad about myself when I'm in that store!

I go to high end department stores, like Macy's or Nordstrom's, or to Frederick's of Hollywood when I want something less refined.

Lane Bryant has good bras, too, that don't look "matronly"

I love Lane Bryant.

I wish I had money to spend on frillies more often, though

My money goes to Wal-Mart right now. LOL

Don't have a lot of it to spend, well until I graduate and start working.

We're saving for a house.

It's the budget that never ends!

I don't have a lot to spend, either, but do it anyway!

Lol... what is money? I never get to see it... lol... we couldn't afford a playhouse, so we are building one... lol... I even got used swings and a used teeter totter from cheapcycle... the slide came from someone's garbage. LMAO... it just needed some soap and water... ever since we finally bought a house, Murphey just keeps on knocking, lol.

Heck, if I did we wouldn't have food. LOL, I am not a shopper anyway. But my hubby is!

Who needs food? Gnaw on some tree branches... lol.

I am not a shopper either. Which is good I guess. But when I do get in the mood WATCH OUT!

I don't even do the food shopping that's bens job :D I really hate walking round a supernarket it has to be one of the most stressfull things ever unless I'm buying a cucumber of course lol

Oh, yeah, John does ALL the shopping. And I mean all of it. I despise shopping. It gives me a headache.

I guess I am the odd man out. I love to shop.

Oh my you should have seen the zuccini we pulled out of the garden the other day... it was hidden deep in the foliage, and man is it a whopper... guess I'm making zuccini bread... lol it was almost frightening...

Heheheheehehe did it make your eyes water?

It definitely looked painful... lol.

Giggle you should have told thomas to bend over

OMG!! I need to run to the bathroom... LMAO!

Tee hee run run there's nothing worse than a soggy chair although you could swap ot with the office granny ;)

You are not the odd man, I love it and when we have a chucnk to actually spend, I go and I go crazy with my daughter. Synnen, I have never bought anything at victoria's secret because of that, I am a thin woman but very tall and I have bigger bones. Anyway, I couldn't wear their crap ever! They are too pricey anyhow!

We don't have victoria secret here I fear I'm missing out but its probably for the best lol

They are too pricey for me, and for some reason they just don't fit me the way I like.

Also, they don't carry spongebob undies. LOL

Ah well if they don't sell sb then hell I wouldn't even step over the door :D

I go for the semi annual... nothign better than 2 dollar undies and bras... lol.

Victoria's Secret
Well their stuff's real nice
Oh but I can buy the same damn thing on a Wal-Mart shelf half price
And still look sexy
Just as sexy
As those models on TV
No I don't need no designer tag to make my man want me
You might think I'm trashy
A little too hard core
But get in my neck of the woods
I'm just the girl next door

-Gretchen Wilson

Hehehehehehehehe I like it Em

Also, they don't carry spongebob undies. LOL[/QUOTE]

There is something wrong with this!! LOL

Well I am off to pick up my little spongebob... I will talk to you guys later tonight, that is those who are night owls.. lol.

Toodles Al!!

Be careful

Why are men so argumentative?

And Why is it so hard for them to see things my way?? And if they arewrong why can't they say they are sorry before I have to knock themup side the head?? Damn it!

It's their version of PMS. Duh.

I guess it is the right time of the month. I have to give it up more around this time so he stays quiet!!

Well I was raised in a sophisticated kind of style

But my taste in music and women drove my folks half wild

Mom and Dad had a plan for me, it was debutantes and symphonies

But I like my music hot I like my women wild


Hey I like my women just a tad on the trashy side

When they wear their clothes too tight and their hair is dyed

Too much lipstick and too much rouge

Gets me excited, leaves me feeling confused

Yeah I like my women just a tad on the trashy side


Well you should have seen the look on the faces of my Dad and Mom

When I showed up at the door with my date for the senior prom

They said, "Pardon us son, she ain't no kid,

That's a cocktail waitress in a Dolly Parton wig"

I said, "I know it Dad, ain't she cool? That's the kind I dig."


Hey well I like my women just a tad on the trashy side

When they wear their clothes too tight and their hair is died

Too much lipstick and too much rouge

Gets me excited, leaves me feeling confused

Hey I like my women just a tad on the trashy side. (When they wear them High Heels!)


Yeah, I like 'em sweet. I like 'em with a heart of gold

Hey I like 'em brassy. I like 'em brazen and bold.

They say opposites attract, but I don't agree

I need a woman as tacky as me

Hey I like my women just a tad on the trashy side


Yeah well I like my women just a tad on the trashy side

When they wear their clothes too tight and their hair is dyed

Too much lipstick and too much rouge

Gets me excited, leaves me feeling confused

Hey I like my women just a tad on the trashy side


Yeah, I like my women just a tad on the trashy side. :cool: