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  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:34 PM
    Justwantfair

    How come your hug request only went out to the men??

    ::sigh:: Sure you can help me with pudding, but not looking for my hugs... I get it ;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:36 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    How come your hug request only went out to the men???

    ::sigh:: Sure you can help me with pudding, but not looking for my hugs... I get it ;)

    You might spank me, I don't like being the submissive. Oh darn, out loud again. :eek:
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:40 PM
    Justwantfair

    Hehe... :D

    Where are all the boys anyway?
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:42 PM
    startover22
    What boys? I thought they were all men?
    This was my only chance to suck up with no naughty remarks... forgive me ladies;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:43 PM
    Stringer
    Me man.
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:44 PM
    Justwantfair
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    me man.

    Straight out of his cave?
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:52 PM
    Alty

    Hee, hee, Stringer man, Stringer make fire, Stringer build hut, take women, Stringer buy woman trinket, woman asks, Stringer runs, Stringer no longer man. LOL! ;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:53 PM
    startover22
    Ohhh that didn't go as planned, sorry men... these ladies are GOOD!
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:53 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22 View Post
    Ohhh that didn't go as planned, sorry men...these ladies are GOOD!

    You got to watch out when we gals are on the job. ;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:55 PM
    startover22
    That's for sure.
    Alty and Justy are wearing their tough girl pants tonight so look out!
  • Feb 26, 2009, 08:56 PM
    Alty

    Tough girl pants, I like that. Are they pink? ;)

    Justy and I are a good team, those poor men didn't stand a chance. ;)

    Got to run, Survivor is on. Back in around an hour peeps.

    Be good, or bad, whatever. :)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 09:00 PM
    Stringer

    Have club, swing good.
  • Feb 26, 2009, 09:24 PM
    friend4u178
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    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Yawn, cough, sneezy, ow. I'm still sick, actually worse today than I have been all week. Me no likey.

    Sympathy anyone? Come on, I need a hug! M, Stringer, Bear, Adam, Sneezy, Tiger, anyone? Achooo. Oh poo. :(

    You know I'm always good for a hug Alty :)
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  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:05 PM
    Alty

    Awww, melting, melting, cutie bunny, cutie wutie bunny. M, you always know how to get to my heart, straight through the ribs with a knife, right? ;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:06 PM
    friend4u178
    :D:p;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:07 PM
    Alty

    M, your smilie didn't show up. So sad. :(
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:10 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    M, your smilie didn't show up. So sad. :(

    Fixed ;)
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:11 PM
    Alty

    I see. Now I look silly. :(

    How are you M?
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:13 PM
    friend4u178

    I'm excellent thanks alty , sorry to hear your feeling a bit off colour :(
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:19 PM
    friend4u178

    Have a look at this

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-322520.html
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:43 PM
    startover22
    A year and a half or longer of being scared and not feeling in control sure can take a toll, I hope she listens too Friend. I just can't imagine that pain and agony...
  • Feb 26, 2009, 10:49 PM
    friend4u178

    Yeah I know starty , pretty sad isn't it :( Thanks for chiming in , hopefully we can drum it into her.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 12:09 AM
    Alty

    I responded, thanks for posting the link M. She needs support, she also needs to realize that guys like him never change, they love the power way too much.

    I feel for her, and her little girl who knows more and feels more than she even realizes. He may not harm her physically, but mentally he's inflicting a lot of damage on her.

    I've been in abusive relationships, heck, one Mr. Wonderful put my head through the windshield of his car because I wouldn't have sex with him. I was 15. The windshield broke, he got madder and proceeded to beat me until I couldn't walk. I still have the scar on my forehead from that incident, thank goodness my hair covers it well. ;)

    Okay, apparently I feel like sharing dark secrets. Sorry. :(
  • Feb 27, 2009, 12:12 AM
    starbuck8

    I can't even respond to that now. It's been a not so good day. I'll make sure I do though, just not right now.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 12:14 AM
    Alty

    You okay Starby?
  • Feb 27, 2009, 12:22 AM
    starbuck8

    Yeah, thanks Alty. I'm fine. Just had an awful day, and I would likely just give very bad advice if I went there right now. I don't know what's wrong with me today, but I just can't deal with it. I'm going to try and get some sleep and get a grip. I don't know. Maybe it's this damn weather. I just feel overwhelmed with everything. I just need some sleep I guess. :(

    I'll maybe give you a call tomorrow sometime okay? Goodnight, sleep well,. and I'm going to try and do the same! ;)
  • Feb 27, 2009, 12:32 AM
    Alty

    Ditto here, I have to get up at, gulp, 5:30am to drive Wiggy to school. Trucks in the shop, no money to pay for the repairs right now.

    Life sucks, but death sucks more. ;)

    Night all!
  • Feb 27, 2009, 06:19 AM
    Emland

    I get up everyday at 5. It's not so bad.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 08:10 AM
    ISneezeFunny

    I go to bed everyday at 5, it's not too bad either.

    ... wait a second...
  • Feb 27, 2009, 08:38 AM
    startover22
    If I remember right, every time I wake up at 5 I feel way better than I do waking up at 6:45 or 7... why?

    5 Sneeze? You go to bed at 5am?

    Starbs, here is a hug love.

    Alty, we all have our stuff... its all right to share it;)
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:05 AM
    Justwantfair

    Today is the most beautiful day of my whole life.

    :):):):):)

    I can finally breathe a little huge sigh and know that justice DOES prevail, sometimes.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:12 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Today is the most beautiful day of my whole life.

    :):):):):)

    I can finally breathe a little huge sigh and know that justice DOES prevail, sometimes.

    AND you are adorable;)
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:13 AM
    Justwantfair
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22 View Post
    AND you are adorable;)

    ::blushing:: Gee thanks, I am just jumping with so much joy. $30,000 may not have been well spent but a happy outcome, is gratifying.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:16 AM
    startover22
    I don't know what you are talking about, and even though I still think you are adorable... you want to clue me in? Congrats for sure;)
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:17 AM
    Justwantfair

    I have been in a custody battle with my ex, who has some mental handicaps and it really has been a living heck... but thankfully today we had a pretrial conference that went really well and it looks like they will be granting sole custody in the next couple weeks. I am just excited.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:19 AM
    startover22
    Congrats, this is HUGE! This is a wonderful day! Justy I just realized, I don't know enough about you... how many kids? You are in the US right?
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:25 AM
    Emland

    Congrats, Justy
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:26 AM
    Justwantfair

    I am in the US, Illinois actually. I have two children, but only one involved in this custody battle. My ex was in a coma for 60+ days from contracting meningitis from the vaccinations you receive in boot camp, it left him 100% cognatively impaired, but he won't ever have to work again, so it was very difficult to compete with someone who has so much free time, heave income and can't make rational decisions.

    It's been a long process. Lots of ups and downs. I think my life story could sell a lot of books, it's like a soap opera. I am hoping that this gives some peace, except in Illinois he can have custody reevaluated every two years, so I might just be back in this boat in two more years.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:27 AM
    Justwantfair
    Thank Em.
  • Feb 27, 2009, 09:29 AM
    startover22
    Peace be with you my friend... even if it is for just two years. Congrats! AND write that book;)

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