You need a better schedule.

Why won't you eat when people are around?

I just won't do it. I don't know. Theirs a lot I won't do when people are around and I haven't ate at school in about 6 years

What will happen if you eat when people are around? Why did you stop?

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I just wont do it. idk. theirs alot i wont do when people are around and i havent ate at school in about 6 years

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I know that this has nothing to do with your post. But what you said reminded me that believe-it-or-not, I never once used my locker the entire time that I was in high school!

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What will happen if you eat when people are around? Why did you stop?

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I don't know. That's not what's important

What purpose does it serve for you to not sleep, not eat, be late for school, etc? Why don't you make yourself stay up when you get home from school, do your homework, eat supper, talk to your mom, find something pleasurable to do in the evenings (besides telephone, computer, tv), go to bed around 10 or 10:30 pm and get up the next morning in time for school? Obviously, it won't happen overnight, but if you are dedicated to it, and follow the same basic routine every night for a month, you WILL eat, sleep, drink, perform better at school, etc. like most teens your age.

What is the payoff for NOT doing it?

Hugs, Didi

Please start a new thread, Clough. We will deal with you in that one. :D

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Originally Posted by br_hjs

idk. thats not whats important

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Actually, it IS important. If you figure that out, you may gain insight that you can use to start making your life better.

Love, Didi

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Please start a new thread, Clough. We will deal with you in that one. :D

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HAHAHAHAHAHA!! Touché!!

Hugs, Didi

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What purpose does it serve for you to not sleep, not eat, be late for school, etc? Why don't you make yourself stay up when you get home from school, do your homework, eat supper, talk to your mom, find something pleasurable to do in the evenings (besides telephone, computer, tv), go to bed around 10 or 10:30 pm and get up the next morning in time for school? Obviously, it won't happen overnight, but if you are dedicated to it, and follow the same basic routine every night for a month, you WILL eat, sleep, drink, perform better at school, etc. like most teens your age.

What is the payoff for NOT doing it?

Hugs, Didi

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I have the thought in my head to answer that, but my headaches getting the best of me and I will have to answer that tomorrow. Promise. I feel like I'm going to throw up though and I think I'm just going to go.

Hmmm, Didi. That may be so important that it has something to do with Michelle loving herself.

Yes, headaches really get fierce when one has to concentrate on something and can't just flip it over her shoulder.

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why would i live for me? I dont see the point in living just to die anyways.

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Don't live to die!! Live to LIVE!!

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But right now i'm hoping i dont die for several reasons. 1 of them is because i want to live just to see what happens in my life

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You already know what happens in your life. Life is what YOU make it. Nothing more, nothing less.

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Another thing is that i love him so much that he makes me want to live

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Actually, if you loved him you would want to be the best person you can be for him. You would not speak of killing yourself. You would eat properly. You would find things to fill your life and make you happy BESIDES him. You would be more positive. You would trust him and believe in him. You would not talk of taking drugs. You would get an education. You would look after yourself by getting the appropriate amount of sleep. You would be finding a way to make YOUR life fulfilling and satisfying so you didn't feed off him. You would have friends.

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... and also, i went like 24 hours without eating or drinking anything and i'm like really de hydrated. I want to sleep but i cant.

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So?? Go and get something to eat and drink then get to sleep! What purpose does it serve?? Who's attention is it that you are REALLY trying to get here?

Hugs, Didi

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i have the thought in my head to answer that, but my headaches getting the best of me and i will have to answer that tomorrow. promise. i feel like im going to throw up though and i think im just gonna go.

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Okay, Michelle... thank you. I think that going to bed is the best thing that you can do right now. Although, I would get a drink and a snack first. :) Seeing as your headache is so bad I think we should all let you be tonight. You have had to do a lot of deep thinking.

Good night, sweetie.

Hugs, Didi

Bingo!

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Actually, if you loved him you would want to be the best person you can be for him. You would not speak of killing yourself. You would eat properly. You would find things to fill your life and make you happy BESIDES him. You would be more positive. You would trust him and believe in him. You would not talk of taking drugs. You would get an education. You would look after yourself by getting the appropriate amount of sleep. You would be finding a way to make YOUR life fulfilling and satisfying so you didn't feed off him. You would have friends.

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Yes, headaches really get fierce when one has to concentrate on something and can't just flip it over her shoulder.

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Or when someone hasn't eaten or hydrated themselves enough nor had a proper nights sleep in ages! :D

I think she's actually done well tonight, don't you? Perhaps she is starting to understand a bit??

Hugs, Didi

It's all very overwhelming. Perhaps now tackle one thing at a time. Maybe we should move in with her in order to keep an eye on her... Clough can bring his cast iron frying pan (on another thread).

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Please start a new thread, Clough. We will deal with you in that one. :D

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You

Don't

Like

Me

Anymore!

:( :( :(

I SAID you could bring your cast iron frying pan.

And I got a response from Didi.

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I SAID you could bring your cast iron frying pan.

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:eek: But ONLY if he seasons it properly! ;)