Ask Me Help Desk - Alty's chit chat thread.

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Originally Posted by albear

i have thanks, they were interesting reads, didnt agree with some parts and others were 'hmmm, that could work' moments.

i havent caught this weeks yet assignment deadlines and all that jazz, i should be working on one now, but i just really stuck with it and can't seem to make any headway other than what ive done, and there isnt anything else that i could be doing with it either :(

I agree, they do offer some different perspectives... I haven't received last week's as yet I'll forward it when I do.

Well I am off for a while... hungry again... dangerous since I have lost over 40 pounds in the last 7 months... later guys.

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Originally Posted by Stringer

I agree, they do offer some different perspectives...I haven't received last week's as yet I'll forward it when I do.

By m and Stringer and dalia and bear and bella... later

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

By m and Stringer and dalia and bear and bella...later

See you Kit.

K I hate to change the topic, but I am watching the news, and this woman is on here totally appalled because they are teaching her daughter, who is in grade three, about same sex marriages.

She isn't upset because they are explaining the different types of family units, she is upset, because they are going so far as talking about how gay men are at a higher risk of contracting HIV!! Wow, a little tense for grade three don't you think?

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Originally Posted by Stringer

Grocery store...here it is at Jewel and Dominicks, in the spice racks....great stuff, I put it on burgers too...

It's not the fake butter stuff right?

Night Stringer! Well now, everyone's leaving!

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Originally Posted by Just Dahlia

It's not the fake butter stuff right??

Ya know JD I haven't checked the label, could be, however it tastes great. I'll check and get back to you hon.

Bye for now...

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Originally Posted by Stringer

Well I am off for a while...hungry again...dangerous since I have lost over 40 pounds in the last 7 months.....later guys.

Later stringer, wish I could lose that kind of weight in that kind of time, but it doesn't sound too healthy, take care

Night kit

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

K I hate to change the topic, but I am watching the news, and this woman is on here totally appalled because they are teaching her daughter, who is in grade three, about same sex marriages.

She isn't upset because they are explaining the different types of family units, she is upset, because they are going so far as talking about how gay men are at a higer risk of contracting HIV!!! wow, a little tense for grade three don't ya think?

Agreed, in a way its like child abuse, they will learn about that kind of thing when they are closer to being ready, but at such a young age, it really is stupid

Think ill head off as well, night all :)

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

K I hate to change the topic, but I am watching the news, and this woman is on here totally appalled because they are teaching her daughter, who is in grade three, about same sex marriages.

She isn't upset because they are explaining the different types of family units, she is upset, because they are going so far as talking about how gay men are at a higer risk of contracting HIV!!! wow, a little tense for grade three don't ya think?

I completely agree with teaching kids that not all families are a mommy and a daddy and 2.5 kids. It's something children NEED to know.

They do NOT need to be told that gay men get aids and die. That's exactly how it translates for a 3rd grader. They're told that gay men run a higher risk of getting hiv, and they hear that all gay men get aids and die. It's just too subtle a difference for them to completely understand at that age.

Go ahead. Teach them about all the different kinds of families and that ALL families are good and deserve respect and love. Teach them understanding and acceptance. Do NOT teach them that one demographic gets sick just because of who they are.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

i completely agree with teaching kids that not all families are a mommy and a daddy and 2.5 kids. it's something children NEED to know.

they do NOT need to be told that gay men get aids and die. that's exactly how it translates for a 3rd grader. they're told that gay men run a higher risk of getting hiv, and they hear that all gay men get aids and die. it's just too subtle a difference for them to completely understand at that age.

go ahead. teach them about all the different kinds of families and that ALL families are good and deserve respect and love. teach them understanding and acceptance. do NOT teach them that one demographic gets sick just because of who they are.

^ - agreed, this describes in more accurate terms what I meant :)

I want to know if they realize what that will do to all the little boys who, in a few years, suddenly realize that their bodies react to other little boys. They are going to have a voice in their heads telling them that they're going to get aids and die. It's not going to be connected with unprotected sex. In their young minds, being a gay male causes hiv. Nothing else.

It doesn't MATTER what they learn later. The thing that will stick with them is the first thing they learned. That being gay will kill them. They probably won't even realize that the thought is there. They'll probably just feel like being gay is sick. They may never connect it to that lesson they had in school when they were little, but the connection will still be there.

It's already hard enough to realize you're gay in today's world. They don't need any added stigma. What they need, is to grow up in a world that doesn't see race, religion, heritage, income, or gender. Since that isn't going to happen, they need to grow up without anyone telling them that one group is any less healthy or deserving or special or equal than any other.

Things like that just make me want to smack someone.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

what they need, is to grow up in a world that doesn't see race, religion, heritage, income, or gender. since that isn't going to happen, they need to grow up without anyone telling them that one group is any less healthy or deserving or special or equal than any other.

things like that just make me want to smack someone.

That is exactly what the world is, it's just not going to happen.

Try explaining alcoholism to the country folks, or bipolar disorder to a group of construction workers.

The world just isn't an accepting place.

No, but it needs to be.

I plan on vanishing off the face of the earth soon. Sorry, just having a REALLY bad time the past few days.

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Originally Posted by J_9

I plan on vanishing off of the face of the earth soon. Sorry, just having a REALLY bad time the past few days.

What's up J?

Don't do anything stupid... think of the bunny...

If you need to talk, we are always here...

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Originally Posted by J_9

I plan on vanishing off of the face of the earth soon. Sorry, just having a REALLY bad time the past few days.

As long as you come back, you can vanish for a few days. Vanish for good and we'll hunt you down. That's a promise. ;)

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

As long as you come back, you can vanish for a few days. Vanish for good and we'll hunt you down. That's a promise. ;)

Hi everyone.. tried to sleep. J are you okay? That was a stupid question... Hugs and I love you all.

Just going through a rough patch. Having some personal problems. Hopefully it will be resolved soon.

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Originally Posted by J_9

Just going through a rough patch. Having some personal problems. Hopefully it will be resolved soon.

Here's a big {{ HUG}}:)

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Originally Posted by J_9

I plan on vanishing off of the face of the earth soon. Sorry, just having a REALLY bad time the past few days.

Just be sure to take chocolate and alcohol with you when you vanish. And your towel. You never know when you'll need a towel.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

just be sure to take chocolate and alcohol with you when you vanish. and your towel. you never know when you'll need a towel.

I'll save the chocolate for you Heath. But the alcohol and towel! Heck YEAH!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Here's a big {{ HUG}}:)

Thanks for the hug Kity, I needed that!

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Originally Posted by J_9

I'll save the chocolate for you Heath. But the alcohol and towel! Heck YEAH!

If not chocolate, then be sure to take you're sugary, calorie-laden, guilty-pleasure of choice.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

if not chocolate, then be sure to take you're sugary, calorie-laden, guilty-pleasure of choice.

That would be STEAK! ;)

I would love a good steak right about now. Medium rare, seasoned to perfection, side of mashed garlic potatoes and asparagus with hollandaise sauce.

Sigh.

I'm drooling on my keyboard just thinking about it.

Hheath, I have never agreed with someone so whole heartadly inmy life.

As I continued to watch, it was most disturbing in one place where they were going as far as teaching the kids about how babies were made, and how gay people have sex.

I could see the confusion and curiosity in those children's faces as they were interviewing their parents on the subject.

J, mind if I vanish with you? I've been feeling a bit low myself. Got tested for my tyhroid. I could sure use a good vanishing.

I hope you feel better soon. I hope everything works out for you.

{{Hugs}}

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

Hheath, I have never agreed with someone so whole heartadly inmy life.

As I continued to watch, it was most disturbing in one place where they were going as far as teaching the kids about how babies were made, and how gay people have sex.

I could see the confusion and curiosity in those children's faces as they were interviewing their parents on the subject.

J, mind if I vanish with you? I've been feeling a bit low my self. Got tested for my tyhroid. I could sure use a good vanishing.

I hope you feel better soon. I hope everything works out for you.

{{Hugs}}

I want to go too. Let's go to the beach? I feel really blue today!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

I wanna go too. Let's go to the beach? I feel really blue today!

I don't live near a beach, but I do live near the river.. lol sound funny. But seriously, there are really no beaches in this crappy city.. Buildings have swallowed most of the land so we have side walks and mini parks by the river.

Anywhozzil good morning all.

I finally went to sleep after work, and guess what no pills.

-- how did I do it? With my new BOB.. hahahaha

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

I finally went to sleep after work, and guess what no pills.

-- how did I do it? with my new BOB.. hahahaha

THAT was going to be my next suggestion,:D

What's a BOB?

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

What's a BOB?

Um, MUD, do you want me to explain this, or you? LOL

What's a BOB ?

Battery Operated Boyfriend

If you still don't get it... it's a vibrator.

BAhahahahahahahhaha
:D

Too funny, but you I got it.

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Originally Posted by mudweiser

Battery Operated Boyfriend

If you still don't get it... it's a vibrator.

Okay, but yes I get it now and think that is highly personal information.

Tick

O my!

And hello everyone