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Originally Posted by Catsmine

I spent a hitch as a medical corpsman with the USMC.

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By the way... thank you for your service.

Ordinary people doing extraordinary things is worth, at least, a thank you.

yes thank you

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Originally Posted by kp2171

anybody want half my funnel cake?

too bad.

its mine.

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Did you eat it already? Can I have a bite?

Mean boy. Tempt me and then walk away. :(

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Originally Posted by kp2171

right there with you.

i know many have been in worse situations than ive been in, but there are times when all you can do it all let go... release... and sometimes ridiculous situations provide ridiculous responses.

there have been just a few times in my life when ive had no other place to go than to smile, close my eyes, and wait for whatever comes next...

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I agree.

Humor is important, it's a great stress reliever and makes you feel stronger, better, just more grounded.

When my dad was dying I started telling him jokes. Yes, he was in a coma, otherwise I'm sure he would have laughed. I was in fine form that day.

My Grandmother got angry. Asked how I could make jokes and laugh at a time like that. I turned to her, said "Don't you think we've all cried enough? Where has it gotten us? Nowhere. I figure this is worth a shot."

People always expect tears, but I prefer laughter.

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Originally Posted by spiritcharms

Hi all, I know that i haven't been here very long and not spoken to most of you before, I have spoken to Alty a few times when I first joined.

And although i never had the pleasure in meeting Starby,ive heard alot of love and kindness about her and i would just like to offer my thoughts and prayers to Jo and her family and of course all of you here. xxxx

If it's ok, I would like to share a site that i found which i feel may help some of you at this very difficult time.

Light a Candle - Show you Care!

Love,Peace and Light x

Claire x

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Thank you Claire,

It is very thoughtful. Very generous.

Lighting candles is very symbolic.

I am sure everybody here appreciates your kind words.

Joe

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

People always expect tears, but I prefer laughter.

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Sometimes I feel guilty saying my grandfather taught me what real love was... my mother was, and is, a kind woman who is good beyond good... but his love was all permeating... in a way that sometimes only grandparents love can be... not to diminish her love... his was just All Encompassing...

Anyway... last time I see my grandfather alive... he has been gradually going "downhill" for about ten years... diabetes, heart attacks, "normal" age issues with eyesight, coordination, etc... so he was in the hospital, I was in college, and it isn't looking good. I'm driving four hours every other day to see him (which means I'm failing classes)... so I show up and I've been told this is the last stretch... that, chances are, there isn't much more time.

I'm all in bits and pieces. I'm 20. I barely know how to tie my own shoelaces and keep my fly zippered.

So I go to see him and he asks in a weak voice for some water. He's on a limited water "diet" so he gets a sponge "lollypop" to moisten his mouth. I do this, he takes it, and then it pops out all of a sudden.

I pick it up, soak it again, help wet his mouth and again, *pop*...

On the third time I finally saw that infamous, naughty smile... yes, he wanted a drink desperately... but the chance to make me laugh at his naughtiness... at his deliberately popping that sponge-on-a-stick out onto his gown... it was priceless. I'm proud that ornery sob's blood flows in my veins... and I didn't get it at the time... but the humor in his last moments... it comforted me... even when I didn't get it right away...

And that's the thought that remains KP, the sponge popping out, your Grandfathers attempt to make you smile. That's what remains. That's the greatest gift he could have given you, the gift of laughter.

My mother died in Germany. When she found out she was terminal she decided we were going to go see her family, that was her final wish. Sadly she only survived for 3 days after we got there, but we made it.

My mom had lost all her hair due to chemo and radiation treatment, so she had purchased a wig some time back. It was summer though so she usually left the wig off, she thought the sun would help her hair grow back. Makes me smile.

Anyway, when we decided to go to Germany she wanted to take her wig, but we couldn't find it anywhere. She was living with us at that time. I checked everywhere, it was nowhere to be seen.

So we're in Germany, the night before she died we went out to dinner, we're sitting on the balcony of the restaurant. My son was only 3, we had him in a stroller, it had side pouches for storage.

We're talking, a few people she knew came up to say hello, shocked to see her. Jared starts getting fussy so I reach into one of the side pockets to get a toy and touch something that feels furry.

I pulled my hand out right away, looked at Rod, whispered "I think there's a dead animal in the side pocket of Jared's stroller". Hubby, such a man, says "Well take it out!".

So I reach in, grab hold, pull it out. Sure enough, it's my moms wig.

She was so happy to see it, and the look on her face when I whipped it out was hilarious. She started laughing at me, I started laughing, Jared just pointed and said "My puppy!" Apparently the little stinker had put it in there for safe keeping.

I guess you had to be there. ;)

I'm new, and don't "know" you , but GOD bless you, and have a speedy recovery. You obviously are well loved, I'm #468 ! Watch out for the garden tools!

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

I'm new, and don't "know" you , but GOD bless you, and have a speedy recovery. You obviously are well loved, I'm #468 ! Watch out for the garden tools!

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Thanks for offering your prayers and well wishes.

Sadly our Starby has taken a turn for the worse and is now terminal. Her organs are shutting down and she's not expected to survive for much longer.

I'm sure she'll be tripping over garden tools in heaven. She really is a clutz. ;)

I'm sorry to hear that. May GOD bless and keep her.

That was such a sweet story Alty :)

Sometimes a little time spent thinking about our lives is nice...

Finding Joy Movie

Beautiful... still going... but its beautiful! Thanks Stringer

It was great Stringer... I love those things at the perfect moments;)

My favorite picture was the daisy growing on the road.

"If you don't stand for something you'll fall for everything"

Love it Stringer.

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Originally Posted by startover22

Beautiful...still going...but its beautiful! Thanks Stringer

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You are welcome hon... sometimes you have to see it to believe it... I like these types of movies, seems to always 'wake' me up.

Well, we have about 30 to 35 indoors plants that haven't been repotted with new soil for about two years... It looks like rain today so I am going to the garage to do some 'dirty' work. It seems that when I do a little something with my hands (no comment Alty... he hee) it makes me feel better than sitting here at my desk...

Hope to get at least 5 to 10 of them done today and then Marta and I are going to go see 'UP' the new movie...

Love you all... :)

Stringer

Love you back Stringer.

Have fun getting down and dirty. Keep you nose clean. ;)

I'm going to the Gym today then I'm doing yard work, if the weather stays nice.

LOVED that one too...
The perfect quote to live by...

Also, Daisy's were my moms favorite flower, so they're really special to me.

When she died, at her funeral in Germany, we had a casket spray of all daisy's. It was beautiful.

She always had daisy's in her garden, tons and tons of them. I'd play the "he loves me, he loves me not" game all the time. :)

Now now... you said the name of my little sis three times in that post :p

Daisies are magnificent, yer mama had good taste.
You know I remember Jo saying something when I got some flowers, daisies were in there and she didn't like them (her being a florist) cause they were just a "filler" flower... she made fun of me... hahahahahah