Originally Posted by J_9
Stringer, I understand your disappointment. I can sympathize a and empathize with you both. There are other issues to consider also concerning your ages. I really HATE to talk about this on the board here, feel free to PM me if you want. I RARELY offer this, only to friends.
I had my youngest (he's now 5) at age 38. I am lucky that he is okay, physically as well as mentally at my maternal age. There are serious physical and mental issues that come along with having a baby at this age and that should be taken into serious consideration.
At my son's wedding tonight, the sister-in-law that I have the problem with, had a child at age 45, he is severely mentally handicapped, and it is due to (according to her doctors) her maternal age.
Sorry, to bring a damper on the conversation, if you would like to talk in private, I would be happy to.