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  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:20 PM
    albear
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xAjikanx
    Ohhh i have a phobia like out of no where everythig is just gonna go completely black! and idk...
    Ever saw the movie 1408? Or read the book?
    What haapaned to the man is everything I fear

    that movie was awesome, one of the best thrillers I've seen in ages,(not better than the 28 weeks later though), the one thing I didn't get was the random guy who kept popping up , u know the one I mean
  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:35 PM
    JoeCanada76
    Anything that is small and crawls. Besides dogs, cats and little babies lol lol lol

    Old house basements especially without any light.

    Joe
  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:40 PM
    firmbeliever
    Joe,
    Me too.
    Basements without lights and alone.. Eeeeeeeeek.

    Must be too many horror movies:).
  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:44 PM
    JoeCanada76
    Firm,

    For some reason I have been like that since I was a kid. My mother and even little sister have the same thing. It is kind of weird when you think about it.

    Glad I am not the only one lol
  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:45 PM
    firmbeliever
    Joe,
    We have never had basements in any of our houses.

    Did you have some sort of bad experience in one,maybe along with your sister?
  • Oct 28, 2007, 02:50 PM
    JoeCanada76
    I am 31 and my little sister is 17.

    As far as basements, I do not know what it is but Darkness and basements, I do not know what to tell you.

    I remember as a teenager turning on all the lights as I was going down stairs and bringing my dog down with me whenever I had to go down. It must be deep seeded from something, Maybe from family? Or something else. Not sure.
  • Oct 28, 2007, 03:08 PM
    albear
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Jesushelper76
    I am 31 and my little sister is 17.

    As far as basements, I do not know what it is but Darkness and basements, I do not know what to tell you.

    I remember as a teenager turning on all the lights as I was going down stairs and bringing my dog down with me whenever I had to go down. It must be deep seeded from something, Maybe from family? Or something else. Not sure.

    I think somebody has been watching too many scary movies lol
  • Oct 28, 2007, 05:07 PM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever
    Joe,
    me too.
    Basements without lights and alone..Eeeeeeeeek.

    Must be too many horror movies:).

    You watch horror movies? Oh my goodness, I haven't seen one in oh probably 5 or 6 years... I would pee my pants!
  • Oct 28, 2007, 10:43 PM
    cal823
    Hmmmm my biggest fears rite now would probably be
    Deadlines
    Failure
    People learning my secrets/shames etc
    Meeting my long distance girlfriend face to face
    Tall buildings (when you look up and they are swaying in the wind its scary!)
    Rejection
    Me not being worthy of people
    I also used to be terrified of looking at windows/mirrors at night, because I was afraid I mite see something looking in. (I had to walk around the house when I leave my room at night with my head down to avoid looking at windows/mirrors lolz)
    Its weird, my fears tend to be more social than physical :s
  • Oct 28, 2007, 11:08 PM
    magprob
    Speaking of strange... now that you mention it... sometimes, while lying in bed in the darkness, I start imagining that there is a deadly poison snake like a ten foot Cobra, at the foot of the bed and it is starting to slither up, up, up just looking for the best place to bite me. Then I start telling myself, reassuing myself that there is no possible way that could happen. Then, I scream real loud and climb on top of my wife shaking her and screaming, "Snake! Help! Snake! Snake! She jumps up and starts hitting me with a shoe and then she pulls the covers all the way back and we don't find a snake and then we go to sleep. With the light on.
  • Oct 28, 2007, 11:18 PM
    METERRE
    Anyone know if fear of deep water and the ocean even just a deep pool go away if or when you learn how to swim?? Cause when I was a little girl I would be afraid of a bucket half full of water. I don't know how to swim.
    And I share the fear of lonely dark basements and attics and just the dark.
    I don't know if to call it phobia or just fear, but I get really nervous when I have to be amongst many people especially if I have any attention of a big crowd. I am not completely phobic of small tight spaces but I don't like them.
    I have a fear of walking down the street or alley at night and have someone unknown following me and/or grabbing me from the back.
    And sometimes, depending on where or when, I fear open spaces.
  • Oct 28, 2007, 11:59 PM
    METERRE
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon
    Hello again, x:

    I don't like this. I'm finding out that I'm weird. Ok, Ok - before you start - I know YOU people have known that I’m weird for a LONG time, but I'm just finding out.

    I'm also Agoraphobic - Fear of open spaces or of being in crowded, public places like markets. Fear of leaving a safe place.

    I don't like crowds. I'll go to a game, but I get nervous. I'll avoid crowded restaurants (which could be because I'm too hungry to wait). I absolutely avoid parades and stuff where I'm hemmed in by people. I HATE that.

    I don't like open spaces. I love tunnels. I love country roads that meander with a canopy of trees COVERING the road. I love the rain. I live in Seattle, and I love the cloud cover. I had an MRI recently. I loved it in there.

    OMG. I'm falling apart.

    excon

    excon... do you mean you live in Seattle, WA?? If so, do you know you're only about 200 or so miles away from me?? By the way I like Seattle a lot, just that whenever I go it's rainy or cloudy. Oh and one of my other fears is to never get to see sunshine again.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 02:03 AM
    firmbeliever
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by METERRE
    Anyone know if fear of deep water and the ocean even just a deep pool go away if or when you learn how to swim??? Cause when i was a little girl i would be afraid of a bucket half full of water. I don't know how to swim.
    And i share the fear of lonely dark basements and attics and just the dark.
    I don't know if to call it phobia or just fear, but i get really nervous when i have to be amongst many people especially if i have any attention of a big crowd. I am not completely phobic of small tight spaces but i don't like them.
    I have a fear of walking down the street or alley at night and have someone unknown following me and/or grabbing me from the back.
    And sometimes, depending on where or when, i fear open spaces.

    Met,
    I know someone who used to fear water,but went for swimming lessons for beginners and from there went onto be a water lover.
    Maybe not the deep oceans,but yes she goes swimming in the shallow waters nearer to the beach.

    I wouldn't call my uneasiness in complete darkness a phobia either, it just makes me uncomfortable and I am not the sweating panic attack type when it comes to basements either.It just is an uneasiness.

    I second your thoughts on dark alleys and walking alone at night too.:eek:
  • Oct 29, 2007, 02:06 AM
    firmbeliever
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by magprob
    Speaking of strange...now that you mention it...sometimes, while lying in bed in the darkness, I start imagining that there is a deadly poison snake like a ten foot Cobra, at the foot of the bed and it is starting to slither up, up, up just looking for the best place to bite me. Then I start telling myself, reassuing myself that there is no possible way that could happen. Then, I scream real loud and climb on top of my wife shaking her and screaming, "Snake! Help! Snake! Snake! She jumps up and starts hitting me with a shoe and then she pulls the covers all the way back and we don't find a snake and then we go to sleep. With the light on.

    Mag!
    Are you serious..? :rolleyes:
  • Oct 29, 2007, 06:02 AM
    Depressed in MO
    Arachnaphobia and Clusterphobic (sp?)
  • Oct 29, 2007, 06:14 AM
    Emland
    How about Dumasaphobia - fear of stupid people

    My boss has a fear of bananas. I was told this by another co-worker. I now pack one for lunch everyday and keep it on my desk. She has avoided my area for several weeks.

    I have a form of claustrophobia. It's not the small place so much, I could get stuck in an elevator by myself and be fine, but if the elevator is crowded, I am miserable. I hate the feeling of having someone breathe down my neck.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:11 AM
    magprob
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever
    Mag!
    Are you serious...??:rolleyes:

    Serious as a heart attack! Sometimes it's Scorpions.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:16 AM
    startover22
    Mag... for me it is some mechanical bug that starts to feel around your toes and drills it's way under your toe nails... then it makes it through your whole body... I don't know what happens after that but I know they are real... at least I start to think it when my mind let's me... WOW, this thread is killing me!
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:37 AM
    firmbeliever
    Is there anyone out there who has a phobia of being asked about phobias?

    Oh well! I am sure that person will be too far away to answer.. no harm in asking though.;)
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:38 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever
    Is there anyone out there who has a phobia of being asked about phobias??

    Oh well!! I am sure that person will be too far away to answer..no harm in asking though.;)

    Probably anyone on this site that hasn't answered this question yet! LOL;)
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:48 AM
    magprob
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22
    Mag...for me it is some mechanical bug that starts to feel around your toes and drills it's way under your toe nails...then it makes it through your whole body.....I don't know what happens after that but I know they are real.....at least I start to think it when my mind let's me....WOW, this thread is killing me!

    Oh my yes. I've been tortured by those too!
  • Oct 29, 2007, 08:58 AM
    startover22
    They sneak up under your covers and when you finally fall asleep... they get you!
  • Oct 29, 2007, 09:14 AM
    JoeCanada76
    No horror movies here, just a spirit afraid of darkness. For good reason maybe I always want to see the brightness and light.

    Joe
  • Oct 29, 2007, 09:41 AM
    albear
    The dark is good, I can see all the bad things in the light
  • Oct 29, 2007, 09:42 AM
    startover22
    albear, I see your point sweet, really I do!
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:38 AM
    mahal_kita9
    Oh my gosh.. after reading this thread... ill be having nightmares about little mechanical bugs trying to drill off my toenails. Thanks startover. Lol :)
    I don't think my degree of fear would be considered a phobia, but I do fear getting old. Id rather die now as a teenager.
    I'm afraid of people not listening to me when I have something important to say...
    Not living up to my potential...
    Oh and that scene from The Exorcism of Emily Rose where she is on the floor and her body is deformed looking and stiff... anyone know what I'm talking about? That creeps the heck out of me.
    The exorcist terrified me when I watched it, but I think id be okay if I saw it now. Lol.
    I guess I could say I have, well maybe had, a phobia of demon possession.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:39 AM
    macksmom
    Thalassophobia... absolutely TERRIFIED of the ocean/sea.

    I can put my feet in for a minute or so but that's it, then the fear overcomes me.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:42 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by macksmom
    Thalassophobia....absolutely TERRIFIED of the ocean/sea.

    I can put my feet in for a minute or so but that's it, then the fear overcomes me.

    ME TOO!
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:42 AM
    albear
    When I saw the exorcist, me and my brother laughed our heads off throughout the film, my dad looker over at us and said 'this was scary when it first came out', we laughed even harder of course but still, how times change
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:43 AM
    albear
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by macksmom
    Thalassophobia....absolutely TERRIFIED of the ocean/sea.

    I can put my feet in for a minute or so but that's it, then the fear overcomes me.


    Its usually because its cold that gets me
  • Oct 29, 2007, 10:46 AM
    Emland
    Is the dislike of something the same as the fear of it? I don't like crowded places, but it isn't as if I will refuse to get into a crowded elevator because I fear it.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 11:10 AM
    firmbeliever
    Em,
    I think fear and dislike is something and phobia is something totally different.
    Phobia's would hinder a person who has it from functioning normally in certain situations.
  • Oct 29, 2007, 11:15 AM
    startover22
    So when those mechanical bugs come to me, and I can't sleep because of them, that is a phobia!! Right?
  • Oct 29, 2007, 11:21 AM
    firmbeliever
    ;)... maybe...
  • Oct 29, 2007, 11:30 AM
    startover22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by firmbeliever
    ;)...maybe...

    Thanks Firmy... thanks a lot! :o
  • Oct 29, 2007, 09:11 PM
    cal823
    It isn't a phobia, but it used to be scary for me to walking in the water at the beach, because id be afraid of things being in the sand which is can't see because of the water, like conefish and stonefish hurting me.
    When I was much younger id be afraid of scorpions/spiders crawling up from the crack in between the wall and my bed lolz
  • Nov 1, 2007, 07:02 AM
    deist
    Fear of spiders is mine. Didn't see it on the list.
  • Nov 1, 2007, 08:14 AM
    KBC
    Pogonophobia- Fear of beards, OK not the fear OF them, The fear of losing Mine(tanned except where it is) :)

    Ommetaphobia- Fear of eyes( I don't look in peoples eyes much,its real enough)

    Ergophobia- Fear of work( really needs no explanation... lol):)

    Catoptrophobia- Fear of mirrors( especially in the AM)

    Barophobia- Fear of gravity(in the later years of life... HA)

    Arithmophobia- Fear of numbers (The checkbook balance at the end of a pay period)

    Arachibutyrophobia- Fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of the mouth.( when it pulls the dentures down with it:)

    Just a few of those foolish fears that we all live with, to an extent... :P
  • Nov 1, 2007, 08:17 AM
    startover22
    YouTube - John Mayer-Gravity
    Here Ken... this is a wonderful song sweet...
  • Nov 1, 2007, 09:09 AM
    KBC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by startover22
    YouTube - John Mayer-Gravity
    Here Ken...this is a wonderful song sweet....

    TY,

    But I think I was looking for something alone the lines of,

    Weird Al Yankavik singing a Bee Gees song 'Tragedy' but in Gravity form... ;)

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