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Oh, absolutely. I can't prove it, sitting here hiding behind my keyboard, but having been here only a relatively short time, watching what other's post and seeing their concerns, I feel I've definitely grown and learned.Quote:
Originally Posted by GlindaofOz
It may sound selfish, but that's far better than most of what I've shared.
I agree with you Captain. I love hearing what other people have to say and hearing their opinions. I always feel its best to open yourself up to all different perspectives. Its great to see someone else's side and be able to say I get where you coming from BUT...
It is hard to pin down one 'best part' of being a member here.
One of these is being able to share with others and get their opinions.
Speaking of sharing - I passed the test!
I was looking for a good site on teen sexuality and teen pregnancy and found this little challenge. I took the Sex-Fu Challenge and passed it.
Try it, you might like it. I'm in the fun mood, keeping myself busy so that I don't worry about my surgery tomorrow, and the weeks in a cast to come.
Let me know what you think abou this site and take the test.
Teens | sexualityandu.ca - Your Link to Sexual Well-Being
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Aw... good luck Chery! I am sure the surgery will go well!:)Quote:
so that I don't worry about my surgery tomorrow, and the weeks in a cast to come.
Excellent resource site that I'll bookmark. My daughter is only 7 but they grow up so fast these days. I see the Quizzes area in Multimedia, is that what you mean?Quote:
Originally Posted by Chery
That is an awesome resource! I took the test and passed it too! Thank goodness I know what I know, because there are some people out there my age that don't know very much about sex. I have met a couple of them in real life! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Chery
Hi old friend, nice to hear from you!Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedKarma
If you mean the test, it is on the site's page and it looks like this:
That's it, Chery. I took it and passed, too. I didn't get every question correct, so again I've learned something! Thanks!
Ah... I see it now, in IE. Firefox with AdBlock blocks that for some reason. I'll have to try it when I'm a little less busy.
Helping others is why most of us do this. I have been answering questions on sites like this one for over 10 years now. I have worked the pay sites as mentioned above but I enjoy the kick back free sites like this one the best. I have herd from a number of you some like what I say and some don't hehehe. That's OK we can't all agree and that's what makes this type of site work so good. The asker gets all types of answers and its up to them to take out of them all what helps.
Dennis777
Yep, what a strange world this would be if everyone loved chocolate?
Here's why I still do this. See the last post:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/small-...tml#post562041
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Originally Posted by ScottGem
Wow. That is so wonderful. Its so nice to be recognized for what you do. You do give a lot of great advice and are able to help a lot of people out of some sticky situations.
Yes, it sure is nice Scott... sheesh I think I have been brought out of a few of my own! LOL
I guess I must be missing something. :confused: I thought the best part about being a member of AMHD was the ability to sit down and answer questions early in the morning in my tighty whities, scratch myself where ever I want to with no one the wiser. Add a hot cup of coffee to that and I am in my own private heaven.
AHHHHH, that is why we are here.
Confuscious say, you go to bed with itchy butt, you wake up with stinky finger!! LOL
Its nice to reach out and try to help. Its also a good reminder that life experience really is worth something. :)
PMSL.Quote:
Originally Posted by shatteredsoul
That's who's been peekin'! :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyPitbull
The best thing about AMHD is the great advice I had gotten here when my ex fiancé broke up with me 6 months ago,again. Without that great advice I think I would still be sitting and staring at the wall and very hurt. I Am so much better the when I joined 5 months ago. I have taken the advise here and tried to apply through my hurtful situation. Now I get the satisfaction and the honor to apply what I have gone through and the knowledge I have gotten from my fellow posters who have helped me.
Awsome, SAB, that is wonderful!Quote:
Originally Posted by SAB123
I am also learning things that I don't need to worry until I get old, very educating.:)
Get well prepared for my future!
To say the least, you are a wonderful soul. Smart, funny, pretty, and compassionate! Keep up the good work sweet. StartQuote:
Originally Posted by nicespringgirl
Oh, you're not going to want to worry... For me, worry never changed anything but my hair color.Quote:
Originally Posted by nicespringgirl
Assign everything that concerns you just so much time and when you've done your best, let fate do the rest.
The best thing that happened to me here was a girl who was having stomach pains. She said she could not be pregnant. After being here with her for an hour, I got her to log off and go to the hospital as she was clearly in labor (she was 17).
Although she could NOT be pregnant, I got a picture of a beautiful mother and baby daughter via e-mail the next week.
Awwww...
That's sweet and sad at the same time...
Does her family know?
I'm pretty sure they know now. That was this past fall, LOL Baby would almost be close to a year old by now.
Probably my fav part of AMHD is being able to learn from other people on day to day subjects but also being able to help others with their problems... knowing you can make a difference is actually pretty rewarding within itself:)
I love it when I hear from anyone that my post helped.
It warms me knowing that I helped in my own small way to make life a little easier for someone I do not even know...
... and it beats staying home... LOL
Bringing this forward...
... And to also say that being on here has allowed me to meet many good people and learn about myself.
Interesting dicussions and sometimes a little sparring. Rarely is it boring!
Being able to help others who are going through phases that we can help them with.
Being part of a wondersul international family. Having friends who support you more than the friends I thought I had who help me get back up when I'm down and depressed.
I love you all.
All the free love I get from here... ;)
Chery, you could use a hug! We've got plenty to go around!Quote:
Originally Posted by Chery
My thoughts are with you! Anytime!
Free love! Sharing our collective thoughts and lives!Quote:
Originally Posted by firmbeliever
Good post Captain
I came on here a few months ago when I was going through a bit of a tough time , I got lots of good advise and it really helped me get through it. Since then I come back and try to give some input back and hopefully help afew people understand not only what I've been through but hundreds of others. If it helps just afew its well worth it. Unfortunatelely I don't get the chance to get on here as much as some of you but love the interaction , you guys are Brilliant!!
The free love and support from here is such a blessing.
Unfortunately, what's not free are medical bills, rent, telephone and internet fees and groceries.
This is what I am currently having a lot of trouble with due to my piled up bills and welfare check of only 600 Euro. I have applied for medical retirement but that will take six months and I don't know if I will live that long. I have been told that by the 25th I will probably not have net access or telephone anymore, so I will not be able to spend much time with my AMHD family in the future.
My daughter helps me with groceries and lets me spend time with my grandson. My two brothers have problems of their own in Afghanistan and Las Vegas, so I cannot expect much help there. My BF rejected me due to my recent diagnosis so I can no longer use his computer.
I know that there are people in this world a lot worse off than myself, but this is happening to me and it makes me very angry and very hurt. So much so, that I don't want to prolong this degrading and demeaning condition. I used to be proud of who I am and happy to be alive, but these past two years have made me see things differently. There is no dignity to this and I don't see any light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope that it does not take long for it all to end. I've already been told that surgery is too late and that it might have spread through nerves and into my head, so chemo is out for me too.
I'm not giving up and intend to raise some hell while still around and will surely not let anyone push me around anymore or put me in the corner of a hospital room for my relatives to pay for.
I love you all and wish you all the best. And I will stay online as long as possible.
Oh no Chery... Noooo...
I like my Chery... I want you to be able to talk about things, and share good times with us... It will be very important for you to be able to do that!
OOH Chery,
I feel for you.
Me, not having so much trouble find this site a moral booster with all your love and have come to sort of depend on it a lot.I can understand how much more all the people here must mean to you chery.
I hope there are better times ahead for you.
HUGGGGS
You guys are making me cry, and maybe it's good for me because I've kept so much inside.Quote:
Originally Posted by firmbeliever
I don't plan on giving up till my last breath, and I hope that I can be here on AMHD for as long as possible. I promise I will try not to be too morose, but I guess today just overloaded me.
Thanks so much for being here for me and letting me vent. I will keep you posted as much as I can.
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