I can't look into his eyes, but my best guess is, as soon as you aren't willing to do his work for him and come when he snaps his fingers, he will move on.
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I can't look into his eyes, but my best guess is, as soon as you aren't willing to do his work for him and come when he snaps his fingers, he will move on.
brb = be right back
lol= laugh out loud
idk= I don't know
I guess they could be whatever you want to make of them though
Welll I tell him I'm not going to do it since he's failing anyway and he just says "fine then i'll remember that"Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Its just that he never wants to hold hands or any of that but he'll do other stuff.
I really like this answer! And, I do hope you give it some thought!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Bubbling red balloons
Lazy old lutherans
Iowans don't kick
Gosh! Thanks! I'll try to remember! But, you know me...Quote:
Originally Posted by br_hjs
So he'll do private stuff if you cooperate with the homework, like paying you back, but not public stuff like holding hands?Quote:
Originally Posted by br_hjs
What I mean is that I'm not worried about him wanting me to do his work... just that he doesn't like to hold hands or kiss but he always wants to do other stuff. That's what I'm worried is all he wants from me.
There's one way to test it out. Ignore him. Refuse to deal with him in any way. See what he does.
That is called using you.Quote:
Originally Posted by br_hjs
That's what I tried today and then he came up to me wanting me to work with him... I was going to say no... but I don't want him to be the one mad at me. Because I can't control weather or not he decides for us to stay together... I may get mad at him but chances are I won't break up with him
But is that all he wants? Does he care about me at all?
I do agree with the above!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
>>>>Edited<<<< It may be all he wants. He might not really care about you. You may just have to accept that. We have already talked about choices...Quote:
Originally Posted by br_hjs
Please read again what I wrote many pages ago. Please take it to heart. Thank you.
I'm not sure that you even read it.
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Originally Posted by br_hjs
If he is, does that mean he doesn't like me at all?
Not at all. It may be just a guy thing. I remember when I was in college, it was very much kind of a game for me to see how many girls I could date. I did like most of them. It is best not to be getting really tied down to only one person at your age when you or anyone with whom you might be interested in are going to be going through so many changes in your lives as far as what you need and want for each of you as individual persons.
It might take much practice and trying different things out with a number of different people before arriving at the one who is right for you and you being right for the other person.
The important thing right now, is to concentrate on who you are. What you want to be and accomplish as a person. If you want to have a career in something, then you need to buckle down to doing your schoolwork. If you don't want to have a career and just be married, then maybe you will find someone with the same ideas as you about that. Just please remember, that if you do find that special person someday, with whom you want to spend the rest of your life, then either one or both of you is going to have to be able to provide food and shelter for you both, as well as take care of paying the bills.
But, please remember what I have said about people at your age going through so many changes and I will add here, choices as individuals.
Question for 1, 2, 3 above ------------ WHY NOT??Quote:
Originally Posted by br_hjs
Its like even though he shows signs that he's using me... I think those signs are LYING!!
That's just how I feel about it. So I try to ignore them... but I'm trying to do less and less for him but still be there for him. Like when I do his homework he usually says "thanks, i owe you" but then he never does anything. What's he waiting for? And why is it so hard for him to just let me know he cares? He's like with me how I am with school. Afraid to say anything, afraid to be wrong and feel stupid, or emberassed
Okay well if I'm mad, I can still keep us together if I want to. If he's mad and wants to break up... sometimes its too much of a stuggle to go through a long argument... but I always fight my way through it and get him to change his mind anyway... I would never break up with him because I won't give up like thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I wouldn't say he's really the romantic type though... at all... but we used to hold hands and stuff at first. I don't get it. Sometimes he says he wants to and sometimes no.
But aren't their a lot of guys that don't like all that kissing and holding hamds?
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