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Originally Posted by startover22

Well, I will keep trying till i die......it will become my goal! LOL
HEY FIRMY WHERE ARE YOU???

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I know when I'm not wanted lol

Naw, albear... I was just wondering where she was is all... I miss her..

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Originally Posted by startover22

Naw, albear...I was just wondering where she was is all....I miss her..

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It's a good point though I haven't seen her in a while

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I know Stringer, i have suggested help, she just started a divorce a while ago, and it all started crumbling from there....Something about her being payed under the table by her dad and what not, stops her from getting help. I don't know, I love her girls, and she is a good lady. I knew it the first day we met, but i feel I can only do so much and babysitting for free isn't one of them.....sad but true.

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I understand.. 6 degrees... you have to take care of your own family first and foremost...

Yes, albear, I know she is off for a while but just a quick hello in here would do me some good... ;)
Stringer, I am going to do some re-thinking... I know I can come up with something... ;)

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Yes, albear, I know she is off for a while but just a quick hello in here would do me some good.......;)
Stringer, I am going to do some re-thinking...I know I can come up with something....;)

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Maybe you could get her to pay in installments instead of all of it in one go

I am going to ask if that will help, she is going to come over and eat and hang out here tonight I think? But if she doesn't I will send Davy over with a big ole pot of hot soup... and maybe homemade garlic bread...
Now the mention of garlic bread has to pull Firmy out of where ever she is... LMAO!

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I am going to ask if that will help, she is gonna come over and eat and hang out here tonight I think?? But if she doesn't i will send Davy over with a big ole pot of hot soup...and maybe homemade garlic bread...
Now the mention of garlic bread has to pull Firmy out of where ever she is...LMAO!!

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Nobody can resist garlic bread, except maybe vampires but firmy isn't one... is she?

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Originally Posted by albear

maybe you could get her to pay in installments instead of all of it in one go

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A good idea Albear, that may help.

But if she is having problems with even getting heat and food, it is probably a drastic situation.

Start, several things here; 1. If she is going through a divorce and she has the children then suggest to her that she should have her lawyer go to court and get emergency money from her husband. He is still responsible in the eyes of the courts. 2. Try to find out exactly what her situation presently is "getting paid under the table by her Dad." Even if she is, it is a different situation with family. Any money that she is getting from him, even if she is working for him, can be described as a gift from family and not considered income. Then she can get the seriously needed money from Social Services (Family Services). That is what they are there for.

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Originally Posted by Stringer

A good idea Albear, that may help.

But if she is having problems with even getting heat and food, it is probably a drastic situation..

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Originally Posted by Stringer

Start, several things here; 1. If she is going through a divorce and she has the children then suggest to her that she should have her lawyer go to court and get emergency money from her husband. He is still responsible in the eyes of the courts. 2. Try to find out exactly what her situation presently is "getting paid under the table by her Dad." Even if she is, it is a different situation with family. Any money that she is getting from him, even if she is working for him, can be described as a gift from family and not considered income. then she can get the seriously needed money from Social Services (Family Services). that is what they are there for.

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Some more good ideas here

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I understand..6 degrees....you have to take care of your own family first and foremost.....

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Sage advice! If you don't take care of yourself, you can't take care of others!

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Originally Posted by albear

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some more good ideas here

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This saddens my heart to hear about these situations, always has. Her husband, still is until the divorce, should be taking his responsibility here... this sucks. Is he only concerned about himself... possibly why this happened in the first place! I would definitely go after his as~ now. :mad: He will always have a responsibility for those children that HE brought into this world.he should step up, regardless of how he feels about her.:mad: :mad:

Just a quick hello to everyone.

Start, I'm sorry for your situation, but Your family comes first.
I don't know the lady,
But I think if someone was in a situation that resorted in essential heat being shut off,
They should be looking for assistance in other areas instead of stiffing the babysitter...

Honey you have a big huge heart, and that is a wonderful quality to have,
But let me just say that there are people who will use that to their advantage and to your disadvantage.
You are running a business, and business relationships should be kept separated from friendship relationships.
It's too easy to get stuck in their "feel sorry for me" guilt trips which I can already sense you're feeling.

Are you sure everything she's telling you is the truth... think about that...
Just the very little you explained sounds fishy to me...
No church or government assistance program is going to let a struggling mother go without heat...
And getting paid under the table?? puts her over the limit for assistance??
Like she reports it?? Isn't that the whole purpose of being paid under the table... so that you don't have to report it...

Just care a lot about you start and don't want to see anyone walking all over you dear... I'm not trying to be negative... Me loves Ya!

Nowwhat said it good:D you are not running a charity, you are running a business to provide for your family...

Okay, I missed a lot, but no time to go over it all.

Test is over. It was terrible!! I just knew I failed it. Need an 80% to pass...

I made a 90%

Woooooo Hoooooo

Good Job J!!

OMG, Kae, it was a really terrible test. Girls were walking out in tears. No, I wasn't one of those, but I was really sick to my stomach afterward. Now I just want to find out the 5 that I missed. Can't wait till Wednesday.

Now we are getting to stuff I DO know about. PREGNANCY!!

Oh boy, I bet seeing the tears wasn't a reassuring thing at the time.
You really put a lot of effort into knowing the material... So WOOOOOO HOOOOO for you!!

LOL. Pregnancy!! All right maybe this will be much easier section for you.
Might be some guys walking out of that one teary eyed:D

Congratulations, J! You are doing fantastic!
I like that doing a 90% inspires you to do even better!
Pregancy, huh? Have you talked to Rank lately?
(psst! Go Patriot's! )

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Okay, I missed a lot, but no time to go over it all.

Test is over. It was terrible!!! I just knew I failed it. Need an 80% to pass..............

I made a 90%

Woooooo Hoooooo

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YOU ARE FANTASTIC.. WAY TO GO!! :D

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Okay, I missed a lot, but no time to go over it all.

Test is over. It was terrible!!! I just knew I failed it. Need an 80% to pass..............

I made a 90%

Woooooo Hoooooo

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GO ON MY SON!! GET IN THERE!! (translates to = well done J)