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  • Jan 5, 2013, 02:54 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You can teach them a thing to two now about resume construction. You are planning to attend the career fair, right? And will reapply at Goodwill, right?

    Yes, I am. And I see a some job openings for Milwaukee Sportservice at Miller Park, some at Petco ( I hope I really get) Goodwill, Hospital Food Service and a bunch of dishwasher jobs.

    I'm really hoping for Petco. I would love to be around some animals even though don't have much experience. Couldn't volunteer for humane society because I don't have health insurance or a doctor.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 02:57 PM
    Wondergirl
    When I was in high school and nervous about doing a presentation in front of a class, my dad told me that I am the expert for this presentation topic and also just imagine everyone sitting there in their underwear. That helped a lot, to the point I was almost laughing during my presentation. So go to that job fair and remember that you are the expert about you -- and you've proven that by narrowing down the resume to fit the kinds of jobs you would be good at. You might want to skip the underwear visuals, though.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:05 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Yes, I am. And I see a some job openings for Milwaukee Sportservice at Miller Park, some at Petco ( I hope I really get) Goodwill, Hospital Food Service and a bunch of dishwasher jobs.

    I'm really hoping for Petco. I would love to be around some animals even though don't have much experience. Couldn't volunteer for humane society because I don't have health insurance or a doctor.

    Petco would probably be putting products in their right places in the storeroom once they come off delivery trucks and then cases and crates on pallets into the store, stocking shelves, facing the items, keeping the shelves stocked, doing inventory, cleaning cages of the small animals and maybe fish tanks -- sounds like a job I would like too. The biggest challenge would be to learn how to deal with customers who want to find something in the store and see you working there, so will ask for help.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:07 PM
    despicableme
    Xx
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:10 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Petco would probably be putting products in their right places in the storeroom once they come off delivery trucks and then cases and crates on pallets into the store, stocking shelves, facing the items, keeping the shelves stocked, doing inventory, cleaning cages of the small animals and maybe fish tanks -- sounds like a job I would like too. The biggest challenge would be to learn how to deal with customers who want to find something in the store and see you working there, so will ask for help.

    Lol. I feel better now for some reason thank you.

    People asking me for help wouldn't be a problem. I would show them and go back to what I was doing. No biggie. The problem would be if they wanted to start a conversation. Or had to sale something, or give out cash basically working the front cashier.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:15 PM
    despicableme
    Wow 100 + for a counseling session? It's cheaper to just dull everything with alcohol.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:18 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Lol. I feel better now for some reason thank you.

    People asking me for help wouldn't be a problem. I would show them and go back to what I was doing. No biggie. The problem would be if they wanted to start a conversation. Or had to sale something, or give out cash basically working the front cashier.

    My son worked for Osco during high school, was a stock clerk, and never was asked to do any cashiering. My Asperger's friend from my writers' group is a stock clerk for Walgreen's and has never touched the cash register -- not part of his job description. If someone tries to engage him in conversation, he just says, "Sorry. Gotta keep working or I'll get fired."
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:20 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Wow 100 + for a counseling session? It's cheaper to just dull everything with alcohol.

    Don't believe everything you read. At Catholic Charities we charged $25 or whatever you could pay per session. My uncle paid a psychiatrist $3/session based on his non-existent income. I've had clients who got counseling from me on a barter system.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:22 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    My son worked for Osco during high school, was a stock clerk, and never was asked to do any cashiering. My Asperger's friend from my writers' group is a stock clerk for Walgreen's and has never touched the cash register -- not part of his job description. If someone tries to engage him in conversation, he just says, "Sorry. Gotta keep working or I'll get fired."

    Oh.. OK.. wondergirl thanks again for your help I'm having stomach & back pains and going to see if I can dull them with sleep.. I'm tried right now anyway. Good Night.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 03:23 PM
    despicableme
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Don't believe everything you read. At Catholic Charities we charged $25 or whatever you could pay per session. My uncle paid a psychiatrist $3/session based on his non-existent income. I've had clients who got counseling from me on a barter system.

    Guess just got to suck it up and call them hun.. *yawn* think I am going to sleeep
  • Jan 5, 2013, 05:52 PM
    despicableme
    I'm reading some symptoms and I think I may have atypical depression, the over eating and over sleeping is spot on also possibly avoidant personality disorder but not as severe. And thinking about it, I had it for quite awhile. Heh. Wouldn't have guessed.

    And this social isolation isn't healthy for my age but most of the time don't really want people around me. The more people around me the more I feel irritated and needing to escape or be alone for awhile. But at the same time I don't like being alone with one person because the pressure of having to talk is draining. Just too much.-.-

    Lost all care for my appearance and personal hygiene. I could go months without brushing my teeth, washing my hair or showering. All my clothes are too tight for me because keep gaining weight. And it feels like a chore even waking up. The longest I went without leaving the house at all was about 6 months. Sleeping, about 3 days straight.

    Don't know how to get out of this funk.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:09 PM
    Wondergirl
    Counselor.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:16 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Counselor.

    How do I find a good one?
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:19 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    How do I find a good one?

    Is there a Catholic Charities in Milwaukee? I will Google for that and some other counseling I trust.

    Here's CC --

    Milwaukee Catholic Charities offices
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:24 PM
    Wondergirl
    Lutheran Social Services -- not as nearby to you --

    LSSWis - Lutheran Social Services Counseling Services Wisconsin
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:25 PM
    despicableme
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Is there a Catholic Charities in Milwaukee? I will Google for that and some other counseling I trust.

    Here's CC --

    Milwaukee Catholic Charities offices

    Mhm.

    I-I'll call umm call tomorrow.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:32 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Mhm.

    I-I'll call umm call tomorrow.

    You don't have to be Catholic, and there is no mention of religion. I did one of my internships at CC near Chicago (and I'm Lutheran). And you will keep me informed when you call and what they said and what you said and how it went, right?

    And then we will have a party to celebrate your first appointment, right?
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:44 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You don't have to be Catholic, and there is no mention of religion. I did one of my internships at CC near Chicago (and I'm Lutheran). And you will keep me informed when you call and what they said and what you said and how it went, right?

    And then we will have a party to celebrate your first appointment, right?

    Aww, shucks! Now that your counting on it I HAVE to do it. I'm kidding. Yes, then we can celebrate.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:45 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Aww, shucks! Now that your counting on it I HAVE to do it. I'm kidding. Yes, then we can celebrate.

    I've decide I'm not going to eat or sleep until you make your first appointment. :)
  • Jan 5, 2013, 06:48 PM
    Wondergirl
    Whoops! I can't do that -- then you'd have something else beyond your control to feel guilty about. Never mind. I'll have to think of something else to guarantee you will make that call. I'd love to call you myself, but Ben would kill me (not allowed).
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:01 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Whoops! I can't do that -- then you'd have something else beyond your control to feel guilty about. Never mind. I'll have to think of something else to guarantee you will make that call. I'd love to call you myself, but Ben would kill me (not allowed).

    Aww man.. Ben is your husband? Lol
    But seriously I need to make the call you've been helping so much it's the least I can do.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:03 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Aww man.. Ben is your husband? lol
    But seriously I need to make the call you've been helping so much it's the least I can do.

    No, Ben is the admin on this site and watches us like a hawk. My husband just started his 32nd annual diet, so he has other things on his mind.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:12 PM
    despicableme
    Haha. Tha's tooo bad. Diet hun? That's what's everyone in this house is trying to do. No such luck from anyone. XD

    Seriously though, I might as well call couldn't hurt. I just kind of phobic about call people especially if its about a job or making an appointment..
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:22 PM
    Wondergirl
    My husband surrendered all the cookies (cheap ones from Walmart) he had hidden near his computer. We'll see how long this diet lasts. He's already getting ornery from lack of sugar.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:44 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    My husband surrendered all the cookies (cheap ones from Walmart) he had hidden near his computer. We'll see how long this diet lasts. He's already getting ornery from lack of sugar.

    Heh, I'm the same way. Though It wouldn't be so easy for me to surrender my sugar fix. I'm rooting for him, seriously isn't easy to give up the sugar!
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:51 PM
    Wondergirl
    He wants to go to Utah in April and camp and hike and wrestle mountain lions. Utah is his favorite state. He goes there once or twice a year, but didn't get to go during 2012 because his mom was sick and finally died in October. Meanwhile, he relieved all his stress by eating everything he isn't supposed to. Now there are all sorts of cookies lying around. I should give them to the food pantry.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:52 PM
    despicableme
    Great, I'm left alone with my sisters kids again. Just because I don't go out I'm now the designated baby sitter. Can't even have weekends alone. -.- And if I try to say something about it I get yelled at wth?
  • Jan 5, 2013, 07:54 PM
    Wondergirl
    How old are they? Girls? Boys? A mix?
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:00 PM
    despicableme
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    He wants to go to Utah in April and camp and hike and wrestle mountain lions. Utah is his favorite state. He goes there once or twice a year, but didn't get to go during 2012 because his mom was sick and finally died in October. Meanwhile, he relieved all his stress by eating everything he isn't supposed to. Now there are all sorts of cookies lying around. I should give them to the food pantry.

    Oh that sounds pretty cool. Never been to Utah before. Looks like nothing but a bunch of rocks and mountains, dirt and hotness. LOL please don't tell me he actually wrestle mountain lions... wouldn't go near them with a 10 foot pole. Sucks about him Mom though what she die of? For stress he should take a trip somewhere. Getting away from the scenery is always nice, no? Haha.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:02 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How old are they? girls? boys? a mix?

    3 1 boy and 2 girls it's not that don't like 'em it's just they need my constant attention and on weekends need to be left alone. Always asking me to do this and do that. I have no patience right now. One is older one(Girl) is 7 the younger one (girl) 4 and the boy is 5. ANd all 3 are bad as heck. There quiet now since their eating but once that's over with the noise starts and I'm in hell again.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:10 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    3 1 boy and 2 girls it's not that don't like 'em it's just they need my constant attention and on weekends need to be left alone. Always asking me to do this and do that. I have no patience right now. One is older one(Girl) is 7 the younger one (girl) and the boy is 5. ANd all 3 are bad as heck. There quiet now since their eating but once that's over with the noise starts and i'm in hell again.

    Put on your teacher hat and teach them Paper, Stone, & Scissors. Or have a coloring contest. Or play Concentration with a deck of cards.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:14 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Put on your teacher hat and teach them Paper, Stone, & Scissors. Or have a coloring contest. Or play Concentration with a deck of cards.

    Wouldn't be a bad idea if they stayed quiet during those things.. All I'll hear is Alex, Alex he took my pencil, Alex Alex He hit me in the face, Alex Alex she ripped up my cards, alex alex he's drawing all over my paper, alex alex, he keeps pushing me alex alex she keeps breathing my air, alex alex this alex alex that... omg
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:18 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Wouldn't be a bad idea if they stayed quiet during those things.. All I'll hear is Alex, Alex he took my pencil, Alex Alex He hit me in the face, Alex Alex she ripped up my cards, alex alex he's drawing all over my paper, alex alex, he keeps pushing me alex alex she keeps breathing my air, alex alex this alex alex that... omg

    Take control of Alex. Make it a girls' game. No Alex. He can watch.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:20 PM
    Wondergirl
    Why are they eating at 9 p.m.
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:21 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Take control of Alex. Make it a girls' game. No Alex. He can watch.

    Alex is me lol. Put them together their hell in different rooms peace but they end up getting bored or something and gather up in one room to mess with each other and fight. -.-
  • Jan 5, 2013, 08:21 PM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why are they eating at 9 p.m.?

    I unno said they were hungry so I fed them.
  • Jan 6, 2013, 05:16 AM
    despicableme
    Actually, no. I don't need to go to a counselor I can do this myself! Just need to exercise more and stick to a schedule that's all. It's probably just mild anyway.
  • Jan 6, 2013, 07:42 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    Actually, no. I don't need to go to a counselor I can do this myself! Just need to exercise more and stick to a schedule thats all. It's probably just mild anyway.

    Who are you going to be accountable to?
  • Jan 6, 2013, 08:12 AM
    despicableme
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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Who are you going to be accountable to?

    I don't know. >.< I don't want to talk to these people don't need to anyhow

    OK, OK what do I say?

    Just going to tell me that's nothing wrong with me and that I just need to grow the heck up like eveyone else no need to waste their time when someone else need more help.I am just a lazy good for nothing chump.. that need to shut up and get a damn job.
  • Jan 6, 2013, 09:02 AM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by despicableme View Post
    I don't know. >.< I don't want to talk to these people don't need to anyhow

    It's scary to think about, isn't it.
    Quote:

    OK, OK what do I say?
    That's where role-playing comes in, to do a try-out with someone first.
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    just going to tell me that's nothing wrong with me and that I just need to grow the heck up like eveyone else no need to waste their time when someone else need more help.I am just a lazy good for nothing chump.. that need to shut up and get a damn job.
    I never said that. Another counselor won't either.

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