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Originally Posted by yasminn123

I havnt had any boyfriends and no I havnt said I want money except once but never asked for amhd for some and what do you mean impetuous??? And what does amhd stand for ???

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Your posts 12 and 15 ask for money.

AMHD is where you are posting - Ask Me Help Desk.

Impetuous means to act quickly, without thinking things through.

And I originally asked if this is a question about weddings - not marriages, which is another category - or Islam because you posted in the weddings category. Your post has been moved to Islam.

I have not seen the OP ask for money.

OP, you need to stop worrying about where the money will come from, and asking where you can get money. That is not for you to figure out. That is your future husbands parents responsibility. Not yours. And it is your parents responsibility for their contribution.

Instead of being on this website, perhaps you should be speaking with your father about this? Your Imam? Your future husband?

All of whom know you and know what you are asking, and will be able to answer.

Good luck! And congratulations on your marriage!

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Originally Posted by jenniepepsi

I have not seen the OP ask for money.

OP, you need to stop worrying about where the money will come from, and asking where you can get money. that is not for you to figure out. That is your future husbands parents responsibility. not yours. and it is your parents responsibility for their contribution.

Instead of being on this website, perhaps you should be speaking with your father about this? Your Imam? Your future husband?

All of whom know you and know what you are asking, and will be able to answer.

Good luck! And congratulations on your marriage!

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I'm reading that OP says she asked for money "once." What does "I ay asking for money and I ent hear to argue ok I'm confused " mean?

Jennie, can you explain the "money for jewelry," apparently in order to get married, part of this? Aside from us reading this differently, I don't understand the problem.

I know you've studied and can explain so I'd like it if you would.

Many religions require a "dowry" to get married.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I'm reading that OP says she asked for money "once." What does "I ay asking for money and I ent hear to argue ok I'm confused " mean?

Jennie, can you explain the "money for jewelry," apparently in order to get married, part of this? Aside from us reading this differently, I don't understand the problem.

I know you've studied and can explain so I'd like it if you would.

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I don't know honestly. I do know a few things, such as women wear gold, but men cannot because of reproductive issues.
I do know that there are certain things a girl is supposed to wear at her wedding.
I'm looking through my books to find the answer. But I've never been married in Islam.

But I'm looking and hopefully I will find it.

I've said it before, Jennie, and I'll say it again. You always explain, find the answer, clear up questions. I ALWAYS appreciate what you have to say - and I ALWAYS know you are correct.

I'm really curious to find this out. It would seem that people with means can't get married, which seems unfair. On the other hand with the divorce rate in the US maybe it's not a bad idea!

Judy, you made me blush... Thank you :)


Im very curious to find this out too! I am not muslim (anymore I suppose, I don't feel I ever was, but the way Islam works, they may believe me to be an apostate lol) and ill never have a muslim wedding, but I do want to know more about this. So far all I can find is that there are specific types of jewlery that must be worn by the woman at her wedding. I can't seem to find WHY. Lol.

I agree, the divorce rate here in the US is scary, and granted, Islam doesn't have all the answers (I don't think anyone does yet) but they certainly must do something right.

And I have read on some social sites that the divorce rates for Muslims rise a LOT when the married couple moves to one of the more 'civilized' countries (I don't mean that offensively) especially the US. I have always believed divorce is contagious :P

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I'm reading that OP says she asked for money "once." What does "I ay asking for money and I ent hear to argue ok I'm confused " mean?

Jennie, can you explain the "money for jewelry," apparently in order to get married, part of this? Aside from us reading this differently, I don't understand the problem.

I know you've studied and can explain so I'd like it if you would.

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I THINK she is trying to say

""Im not asking for money and I not here to argue ok? I'm confused""

I think she is either using a translator or still learning english.