Thank you that helps a lot. We started dating in March of 2007, and living together in November/December of 2007. What sort of proof do they need? I moved in to his place, and then in April I bought a condo and we moved there.
Here is the tricky part, in December we are going to Mexico and he is going to stay down there, obviously because he can't get back into the US.
Can I apply for the permanent resident card after our trip in December, or will that mess up the common law and I need to do it before we go to Mexico in December.
I was thinking that I could apply for permanent resident and he could apply for his work permit.
I keep on thinking I have time to figure it out, but December seems so far away even when I know it isn't.