Originally Posted by
KeepItSimpleStupid
This reads well. Kinda interesting reading.
I'd focus your immediate attention on the following two terminals. R & C.
The next time it fails check R & C at the furnace first and R & C at the thermostat. There should be 25 VAC between these terminals at all times.
Those two terminals should go to the transformer in the air handler. There should be 4 terminals or wires. Two go to 120 VAC and two go to R &C.
Look for any loose connections in any of these wires.
There also may be a 3 A automotive type fuse on the control board. Re-seat that.
You need 24 VAC between R & C for the tstat to have power.