So I've used one of those crochet caps to do some low lights in my hair (dark brown) and I now have these raccoon looking stripes or splotches right where my hair naturally parts. I need suggestions on how to get these to either fade quickly or techniques on how to go about blending/eliminating them. If all else fails I guess I will just go back and grab a lighter color and try to do it again to make them blend.

You need to go to a professional hair care expert to correct this. You can't do it yourself.