Waxing works but if your too sensitive for waxing try the new neet shower cream or another cram skin removal system. I know they smell bad but they work too

I've used veet hair removal cream for sensitive skin and when I used it it made my skin bleed :(

I believe there is a laser hair removal for this kind too

Waxing is a good way to remove hair from the bikini area. Waxing leaves the area smooth and last 3 to 6 weeks. Hair re-growth looks lighter and less noticeable than it is after other methods of hair removal, such as shaving. Hair waxing should not be done on areas of skin affected by warts, pimples, moles or rashes or on skin that is irritated, chapped or suffering from sunburn. Never apply wax to peeling, broken skin or varicose veins. You must be careful not to burn yourself. Test the wax in a small area on the inside of your wrist to make sure it isn't too hot before you apply it.

If you want to remove unwanted hair quickly. Depilatory creams are your best bet. They're easy to apply and effective at removing hair just on the skin's surface. However, it can also cause skin irritation or burning. People with sensitive skin should not use depilatory creams.

Laser Hair removal and Electrolysis are common methods of hair removal, but it is not for everyone. These methods can also be expensive and time consuming.

Pinkcat, it seems to me that you have very sensitive skin and you may not be able to tolerate depilatory creams or waxing. Therefore, you might want to stick with the shaving method. Applying shaving lotion and working it into the hairs also helps soften them and makes them easier to shave. Be sure to change your blades often to avoid nicks. Shave the same way the hair grows. Avoid constantly stroking the same area during the shave because this may irritate the skin. You can use baby oil, aloe vera lotion or baby powder to soothe the shaved area.

I did buy johnsons hair minimising cream that's meant to reduce you to shave as often after shaving having been using this for a few weeks now and it make my legs nice and soft and when the hair grows back it's not very noticeable and soft.