Goldie your mom sounds like the receptionist at my old company. She wore the most age inappropriate outfits I'd ever seen. She was in her 40's and had a teenage daughter and she shared her clothes with her 14 year old. Oh! And NEVER wore a bra. I was embarrassed looking at her I can't even imagine how her daughter felt. But she was kind of a big skank too... so that might've been what the whole "swinging free" thing was about