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  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:45 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Can I sue my legal parent for damages?
    I am sixteen and will soon be emancipated. When I become emancipated can I sue my sister/adoptive mother for damages to my school text books and my belongings being thrown around the room and damaged as well as borrowed money from before I was emancipated?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:48 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    I am sixteen and will soon be emancipated. When i become emancipated can i sue my sister/adoptive mother for damages to my school text books and my belongings being thrown around the room and damaged as well as borrowed money from before I was emancipated?

    How you plan on paying for the Lawyers fees... for a case you are sure to lose? YOu think you are going to be emancipated... you realize that means you will HAVE to be self supporting... and how many 16 year olds can make enough to pay rent... food, utilities... AND a Lawyer at $150+ an hour?

    You aren't getting money back if you don't have signed loan papers... before you were emancipated it was THEIR stuff they were letting you use while in THEIR house.

    I think you have a lot of growing up to do yet... and even more learning about real life. Running around with a chip on your shoulder like that makes you a HUGE target of people that get off by knocking those chips off. And there are a LOT of them.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:51 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    How you plan on paying for the Lawyers fees....for a case you are sure to lose? YOu think you are going to be emancipated....you realize that means you will HAVE to be self supporting...and how many 16 year olds can make enough to pay rent...food, utilities....AND a Lawyer at $150+ an hour?

    With a job, probono lawyer you actually know, social security benefits etc. Got a real answer for me?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:52 PM
    Wondergirl
    Where will you live? Transportation? Education? Full-time job? SS benefits because of what?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:56 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Where will you live? transportation? education? full-time job? SS benefits because of what?

    Renting a room in exchange for house work, provides transportation to school and work food shelter water and electricity, full time job (fast food but still), full time student, and SS benefits for my deceased mother.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 03:59 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    With a job, probono lawyer you actually know, social security benifits etc. Got a real answer for me?

    How many real answers do you want? A sixteen year old getting a job for minimum wage would be interesting and even a cheap lawyer wouldn't touch your case.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:01 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    How many real answers do you want? A sixteen year old getting a job for minimum wage would be interesting and even a cheap lawyer wouldn't touch your case.

    Probono lawyer. I know one my question is can I sue her for damaged property and borrowed money.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:24 PM
    Wondergirl
    What total $$ are you thinking this will be?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:29 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    That I will sue for, 3 textbooks ranging from 50-85 dollars, 100 dollars of borrowed money. $350 approximately.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:31 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    That i will sue for, 3 textbooks ranging from 50-85 dollars, 100 dollars of borrowed money. $350 approximately.

    Big money ! Small claims court.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:32 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Wait what?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:33 PM
    Wondergirl
    Did you pay out of your own pocket for the textbooks? All my texts in high school were supplied by the school and collected at the end of each class (for redistribution to a later class).
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:35 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    They are school textbooks I now have to pay for because they are damaged, so not yet but yes I will have to pay out of pocket for them.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:38 PM
    Wondergirl
    Why do you have to pay?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:40 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Because they are damaged and I will soon be emancipated and my legal guardian does not support me even though legally she still has to.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:43 PM
    Wondergirl
    The school will demand restitution from your adoptive mother (no father?) since you are a minor. So let that happen.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:46 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    I have been living on my own on and off for about a year. The school doesn't deal with my adoptive mother anymore they know it's a lost cause and my adoptive father will not take any responsibility for me because he is my brother in law as well as my adoptive dad and he never really wanted to be my parent but wanted to be my brother if that makes sense.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:51 PM
    Wondergirl
    It sounds like he is related to you in several ways, so why not be responsible for you -- like a brother would be.

    What is your living situation "on your own"?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:52 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Is there anything I can do about a deadbeat father?
    So Im 16 and when I was 8 my biological father abandoned me and my little sister at school which led to us being in my grandmothers custody, then my mothers, then my sisters when my mother died. I only saw my father 2 after that and has had no communication with him in 6 years. My younger sister just located him. Although his parental rights were terminated 1 year ago, does he legally owe anything to me?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 04:58 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    I am currently living with a former teacher and his wife and they will provide me with shelter food and basic utilities for housework and maintaining going to school full time. I pay for phone bills, clothes, bus fare and any random thing I need for myself.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:00 PM
    Wondergirl
    That's not on your own.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:02 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Is it not? I pay for most of my bills and what I don't pay for I work for. Like a live in house keeper, it's the same basic concept, what I earn just goes to my bills instead of into my pocket and then to my bills.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:03 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    With a job, probono lawyer you actually know, social security benifits etc. Got a real answer for me?

    Smartass too... got a HUGE life lesson to learn if they ever get out on their own... Good luck finding a pro-bono lawyer for a stupid lawsuit like you are proposing... I wouldn't trust a lawyer that touched that case with taking care of fighting a parking ticket.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:04 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    Is it not? I pay for most of my bills and what i dont pay for i work for. Like a live in house keeper, its the same basic concept, what i earn just goes to my bills instead of into my pocket and then to my bills.

    REAL obvious now they don't have a clue about the real world much less the law. I'd love to be a fly on the wall their first month on their own...
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:05 PM
    Wondergirl
    Can you shop for groceries and cook so you won't starve to death?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:06 PM
    smoothy
    Incidentally... running away from home or being tossed out for being a cocky SOB doesn't qualify as legally emancipated FYI.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:09 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Yes I cook for myself now, despite my age I do understand basic life concepts like 20 dollars of groceries goes farther than 4 meals at McDonalds. I may be 16 but I've been raising myself since I was 10.
    And to Smoothy, yeah I'm a smart but I know what I'm doing, I asked for advice not down right criticizim.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:10 PM
    Wondergirl
    So what can you cook? Or by cooking, you mean heating up a can of spaghetti-o's?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:10 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Incidentally...running away from home or being tossed out for being a cocky SOB doesn't qualify as legally emancipated FYI.

    Got chased out of the house with a high heal because I refused to let a drug dealer disrespect me. If I wasn't a smart I wouldn't have lasted so long in this world.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:12 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Legit meals, shepherds pie, chicken veggies mashed potatoes, beef stew, anything I can find a recipe to I can usual cook pretty well
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:13 PM
    JudyKayTee
    In a word, legally - no.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:14 PM
    Wondergirl
    And you are going to cook when (full-time school and full-time job)?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:14 PM
    JudyKayTee
    OP's threads should be combined. She's Hell bent on suing someone, anyone.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:15 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I think we have a troll with too much time on his hands....

    Who can't spell...
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:18 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    Got chased out of the house with a high heal because i refused to let a drug dealer disrespect me. If i wasnt a smart i wouldnt have lasted so long in this world.

    I can't imagine being chased around by someone brandishing a high heal. Or a low heal, for that matter.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:18 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    School for me is only 4 days a week not five and when school starts I will be a paid intern for massage therapy therefor I won't need to work 40 hours a week to make a full time wage. My home situation is not where I need to be, its not safe, and it hinders my ability to get my education to begin with.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:19 PM
    Wondergirl
    You graduated from high school already?
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:22 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RaiHarmon21 View Post
    School for me is only 4 days a week not five and when school starts i will be a paid intern for massage therapy therefor i wont need to work 40 hours a week to make a full time wage. My home situation is not where i need to be, its not safe, and it hinders my ability to get my education to begin with.

    Then its NOT a full time job and that alone disqualifies you under the law. But then, Reality doesn't have much meaning for you does it.

    Hell if you was my kid I'd dump you off in the deep woods.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:22 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    No Im in a program that allows me to be a paid intern for massage therapy as long as the clientele knows I am not fully license, I have a shop that will hire me when I start back in school in the fall.
  • Jul 5, 2012, 05:23 PM
    RaiHarmon21
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Then its NOT a full time job and that alone disqualifies you under the law. But then, Reality doesn't have much meaning for you does it.

    Well since I make 20 dollars an hour as an intern which is enough to pay my bills, yeah I think it is enough to convince the judge.

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