Bitter?
If you can't take care of the kids - don't have them.

Notice the responses from women most likely scorned. I agree 100% with you Xeno, and I am a woman with a child. Imagine a man has a one night stand. The woman is equally responsible for her actions. The man did not hold a gun to her head and make her smoke pot and spread her legs open and get pregnant no more than she made him take it out and put it in. It takes two to tango so to speak. That is why everything should be equal. Equal amounts of money paid and equal amounts of time spent with the child... agreed? That is what I thought. For some reason women seem to think the men owe them something because... well because men are evil bastards and should pay for their sins. Let's talk about how the mother had abortions prior to getting pregnant when she was 18. When are women ever going to be made to take responsibility for their actions. Let's say a man pays 500 dollars a month for a child for 18 years. Now, the woman pays an equal amount of 500. You really expect me to believe that a 6-year-old child needs 1000 dollars a month to survive? You really expect me to believe that mother won't use the money on herself? YOU are delusional. Meanwhile, she remarries and is still receiving 500 a month while having a supplemental income from her husband, and subsequently my child, who lives with me and her father, is out 500 dollars a month and we have to sell our house... fair... hardly!