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  • Apr 20, 2012, 02:02 PM
    abusymom
    Scott, you don't know me so I would appreciate if you would stop assuming things. I posted a question and all you keep doing is judging me. I now have attitude because I did in fact try every option I had and still the system failed me. The clerks at the window do not issue postponements in California. All they do is check you in, call your name and tell you to talk to the judge. I did show the judge the proof of service. Like I said before, the new judge said his hands were tied. You are not offering any valid information based on my question, so no need to reply any further being you're probably not familiar with the laws of the state I live in. Thank you.
  • Apr 20, 2012, 02:26 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by abusymom View Post
    Scott, you don't know me so I would appreciate if you would stop assuming things. I posted a question and all you keep doing is judging me. I now have attitude because I did in fact try every option I had and still the system failed me. The clerks at the window do not issue postponements in California. All they do is check you in, call your name and tell you to talk to the judge. I did show the judge the proof of service. Like I said before, the new judge said his hands were tied. You are not offering any valid information based on my question, so no need to reply any further being you're probably not familiar with the laws of the state I live in. Thank you.


    First, it's a public site. If you want people to agree with you, talk to your friends. Scott is a well respected member of AMHD, obviously knows the laws of your State better than you do. Please don't attempt to dictate who will and who won't answer your question.

    Oh, and we do know you - we know you from your attitude toward us at AMHD (and we're not the enemy) and from what you've posted. You appear to enjoy being a victim.

    You seem to think you know it all, so I don't know why you're even posting. Your question has been answered - and answered - and answered. The questions we've asked in order to get info in order to help you have NOT been answered.

    So take your attitude, go back to Court and let us know how it plays out.

    I think this thread is over.
  • Apr 20, 2012, 03:45 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by abusymom View Post
    Scott, you don't know me so I would appreciate if you would stop assuming things. I posted a question and all you keep doing is judging me. I now have attitude because I did in fact try every option I had and still the system failed me. The clerks at the window do not issue postponements in California. All they do is check you in, call your name and tell you to talk to the judge. I did show the judge the proof of service. Like I said before, the new judge said his hands were tied. You are not offering any valid information based on my question, so no need to reply any further being you're probably not familiar with the laws of the state I live in. Thank you.

    First, I specifically said "based on the attitude you are displaying here". The above is more of the same attitude. Second, judging comes with the territory. We have to take what you post, weight that against our knowledge of the law and procedures and make some judgments to be able to give advice. I didn't say to talk to the clerk I said to talked to the head of jurors. Again, you are reading what you want to read, not what was actually said.

    You have been offered valid info, but you don't seem to want to pay attention. I warned you before about being argumentative when people were trying to help you. And as you have been told, you don't dictate who can answer or how. If you feel a response has violated our rules report it. If you don't like the advice, ignore it. Therefore I'm closing this thread.

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