Originally Posted by
ScottGem
OK, I was busy most of the day, so I just got back to this thread. I'm going to repeat some of what Steve told but its make you understand how things work here.
First, no one likes to be wrong! But most of the regulars here are concerned more with the asker getting the right answer then with their being right or wrong. That's why many of us will ask for more info before giving advice. That's what Cadillac was doing. You talked about this schedule as if it was some state mandated document and so he was trying to find out what this document was. But instead of answering him you kept coming back with one line responses that didn't answer his question.
As Steve pointed out we VOLUNTEER our time here. If we ask for more info and the OP (original poster) doesn't supply that info, then it gets frustrating. What makes it further frustrating is when the OP starts showing an attitude about this. I was able to take a stab at what you were saying only AFTER you had posted several notes, many of them barely understandable. Instead of throwing back, quick, 1-line responses, try taking your time to marshal your thoughts, proofread your response and answer the questions asked.
Now, as we have told you, it is unlikely you will get overnights until the child has stopped breastfeeding. But you can build that into the visitation schedule. Like I suggested, you have different scheduled for different stages of your daughter's development. But this can all be entered into the court order.
Right now, as I understand it, there is no court order and you don't seem to be able to reach an agreement on your own or even with mediation. So it comes down to presenting your cases before a judge who will then hand down a ruling. If you want to get anywhere near what you want, you need to prepare your motions carefully and that's where an attorney comes in. If you present a document to a judge that is as poorly constructed as many of your responses here, you are not likely to get much.
