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  • Aug 26, 2012, 10:52 AM
    teacherjenn4
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I'm with you - there's something odd about people in Chicago giving guardianship to people in Wyoming.

    $200 a day working in a warehouse? I'm having trouble with that.

    And how will they move out on their own if he can't rent a place because he is underage?
  • Aug 26, 2012, 10:56 AM
    Wondergirl
    And after high school, what will she do?
  • Aug 26, 2012, 10:58 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    And how will they move out on their own if he can't rent a place because he is underage?


    I'm guessing her parents will/would sign the lease.

    What will she do after high school (another question)? Probably nothing.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:03 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    What will she do after high school (another question)? Probably nothing.

    I asked the high school question before you did. HA!

    Things just don't add up in this story.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:50 AM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Why do your parents have legal guardianship? How did they get it?

    Because since he lives here and he's a minor.. For him to finish his school here his parents had to make a letter saying my mom had the right to sign everythig for him and that he was living with us, its not really legal gardianship itss a notorized letter saying she has responsibility over him.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:53 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    Because since he lives here and hes a minor.. For him to finish his school here his parents had to make a letter saying my mom had the right to sign everythig for him and that he was living with us, its not really legal gardianship itss a notorized letter saying she has responsibility over him.


    Back to where we started - why did his parents allow him to move in with strangers and authorize them to sign "everything" for him.

    And you're right - that's not legal guardianship.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:54 AM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I'm with you - there's something odd about people in Chicago giving guardianship to people in Wyoming.

    $200 a day working in a warehouse? I'm having trouble with that.

    There's nothing odd about it he does a 3 person job he's not going to get paid 50 buks a day, he goes in at 9:30 pm he has to clean the whole store, and have that done by 11 pm after that he has to help with stackig the merchandise until 6 jusg for that they pay 12 an hour and then drom 6 amto 12 am he is a cashier
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:55 AM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    And how will they move out on their own if he can't rent a place because he is underage?

    After you get married your legally amancipated and your parents are no longer in charge of you that's how (:
  • Aug 26, 2012, 11:57 AM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I asked the high school question before you did. HA!

    Things just don't add up in this story.

    wrong.. Don't judge if you don't know what's going on, actually I'm alreadyy a senior, I got moved up, because of my learning level and I already have a couple of scholarships for a cosmetology school, therefore I will be doing something after high school :)
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:00 PM
    Wondergirl
    And how did your parents get legal guardianship?
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:01 PM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Back to where we started - why did his parents allow him to move in with strangers and authorize them to sign "everything" for him.

    And you're right - that's not legal guardianship.

    were not strangers, my parents and his parents have know each other for a long time. Actually my mom and his mom are bestfriends, they've known each other since 4th grade, they're 38 now, that's not a stranger
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:02 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    After you get married your legally amancipated and your parents are no longer in charge of you thats how (:


    I see from your attitude that you are going to have problems if you decide to get married at 16.

    At any rate - he could get an apartment now with your parents as co-signers. Or your parents could rent the apartment with permission for him to live there.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:02 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    i got moved up, because of my learning level

    You took a test to move up? You skipped a grade?
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:02 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    were not strangers, my parents and his parents have know eachother for a long time. Actually my mom and his mom are bestfriends, theyve known eachother since 4th grade, theyre 38 now, thats not a stranger


    That's also nothing that you posted until now - you either met him on FB (why did I think that? Oh, I know, that's what you posted) OR your mom and his mom, blah, blah, blah.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:05 PM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I see from your attitude that you are going to have problems if you decide to get married at 16.

    At any rate - he could get an apartment now with your parents as co-signers. Or your parents could rent the apartment with permission for him to live there.

    What attitude I am just explaining myself to everyone saying the story doesn't add up, trying to clear up everything so there will be no misunderstanding. That's all.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:05 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    wrong .. Dont judge if you dont know whats going on, actually im alreadyy a senior, i got moved up, because of my learning level and i already have a couple of scholarships for a cosmetology school, therefore i will be doing something after highschool :)


    I find "dat" rather difficult to believe based on this: "Theres nothing odd about it he does a 3 person job hes not gunna get paid 50 buks a day, he goes in at 9:30 pm he has to clean the whole store, and have dat done by 11 pm after dat he has to help with stackig the merchandise ..."

    I'm not so sure you're "gunna" get a scholarship for cosmetology school.

    I actually was part owner and operated a couple of "whole stores." Nobody got paid $1,000/week for working from 9:30PM-11:00PM and then after "dat" helping with "stackig" the merchandise.

    Maybe I should have owned a store in Wyoming -
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:08 PM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You took a test to move up? You skipped a grade?

    The school I was attending in chicago is a very good school, I moved here in 9th grade but everything they were learning I had already learned and passed those classes, so I talked to my counselor , she gave me assesments on all of those subjects and found that I was past those levels so they moved me up to tenth grade , that was two years ago, now I'm a senior I'm actually tacking a couple of colleges classes this year
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:10 PM
    Wondergirl
    Yeah, Judy, I was trying to keep an open mind about all the spelling mistakes. I was always at the top of my high school class, but would never have been able to skip a year. Maybe high school is different now.

    It sounds like the cosmetology scholarships are a sure thing.
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:11 PM
    MayraCarlos
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I find "dat" rather difficult to believe based on this: "Theres nothing odd about it he does a 3 person job hes not gunna get paid 50 buks a day, he goes in at 9:30 pm he has to clean the whole store, and have dat done by 11 pm after dat he has to help with stackig the merchandise ..."

    I'm not so sure you're "gunna" get a scholarship for cosmetology school.

    I actually was part owner and operated a couple of "whole stores." Nobody got paid $1,000/week for working from 9:30PM-11:00PM and then after "dat" helping with "stackig" the merchandise.

    Maybe I should have owned a store in Wyoming -

    maybe you should have (: and my misspelling, km typing on my iPod trying to get this over with as fast as possible, yea I'm misspelling some stuff, so what? Im just trying to get everythjng straight here
  • Aug 26, 2012, 12:11 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MayraCarlos View Post
    the school i was attending in chicago is a very good school

    I'm in Chicago. May I ask which one?

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