Originally Posted by
armandoalejos
Hi everyone,
Just need to vent, well were do I start. About 4 weeks ago DCFS received a call that my girlfriends 15 year old sister was being physicall abusive towards my 14 year old son. The way this phone call was generated is that the mother during her monitor visitation was questioning the children. One of the children indicated that both kids got grounded for arguing and pushing each other. Needless to say the mother added more to it. The good thing is that the investigation showed no abuse and case was closed.
Ever since she has had my 12 year old boy call his attorny for every little thing. If he feels is punishments are unfair. He is the one with the Behavior disorders. His condition has been getting worse.
To top it off I told the supervisor of DCFS that the 8 year old first communion was going to be at 9 am that I switched it from 11 to 9.
Seven days before the communion after I was told it was going to be at 9am. Mother and I went to court 3 days before the communion and she was trying to get permission to attend. I was against it do to her trying to run me over 3 month before. Needless to say the court approve her the visitation. The bad thing was that my attorney knew the time and so did the supervisor of DCFS. Only one has integrity and its not DCFS. But the mother of course is stating I did it intentionally. My past experience and my conduct has always shown I put the children first.
What upsets me is that my children were questioning me and they were devasted thinking that I was capable of doing malice. I had to sit all 3 and go thru my behaviors and actions of the past with them. Needless to say after that they were ok. I assured them that if they ever felt I was out of line to go to someone and talk or bring it to my attention.