I just want to say that it is possible to be a good mother at your age but its really hard. The fact that you impregnated yourself with a used condom suggests that you might have some problems with maturity and understanding long term consequences. You've got some fast growing up to do. For the next 18 + years (IF YOU ARE A GOOD MOTHER) you will have to put yourself and your needs and wants behind the needs of your child. And that is going to be true whether your boyfriend stays with you or not. Good luck! I hope you are ready to get serious about responsible living. I hope you have told the father how you used his condom. If nothing else, he needs to learn not to leave his sperm around for anyone else to create a person!