I say this with respect for the position you are in - this is a legal board, not a discussion board. If you want to discuss your frustration at the system, who is on a dating site and who is not and why, I would ask a moderator to move the discussion to a relationship board.

If you want legal advice, this is the place to be.

This has went from legal advice, to a relationship discussion,
I have closed this, since it is no longer relating to law.