Thanks for all the help, this is the 1st time I've visited this site and it's been real helpful with a lot of different opinions and suggestions. I'll do more on my end to see if I cannot help out and will try and make sure my disability isn't a reason why I don't do more with him. I'll check back with you in a few and let you guys know what the outcome is.

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i know i sound bitter and sure at times i can spend more time with him but instead maybe this disability does seem to interfer. I want to thank replies and open minds, even though at times it seems like i was being attacked i do see the logic in them. Like any parent i want something better for him and sure ing about 60.00 is frivilous. i wasn't trying to clog this board with BS with useless dribble, but wanted other opinions. I am considered therapy for me so i can get beyond what's bothering me and will try several avenues mentioned. You guys and gals were great and gave me a different perspective instead of what i was considering and pray for the best. have a great day and your responses are worth more then i can say.

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Thanks for the kind words. Something you have to remember about this board is that most of us are experience driven. We aren't lawyers and don't have degrees in law but we try to help and have our own unique perspectives to bring to the table. Im glad we were able to help in some fashion. That's what we are here for. And we don't get paid either.. lol. I hope for the best for you and Good Luck for your future plans. Keep us posted and your welcome to contribute also anytime.

Here is something that came up all of a sudden, we went last week the AG last to settle the back so I owe no back but I agreed to pay 480 in medical. I checked my account and the AG has confiscated the complete balance in my account so now I have no money available to do anything. This is frustrating and without merit, I talked to my AG rep and they said that there is an order in place regarding the agreement we signed but the AG still confiscated my bank account and now I'm living on what cash I have which isn't much. I swear these guys really push people to their limit when it comes to this. It wasn't a lot of money but the fact that they did this after we agreed to an amount and I thought this was behind us. I've had this done before several months back and they took roughly 75% of what I had in my account. Then it takes 2-3 weeks to get this resolved and I'm very upset about this because now I don't have a lot of money to do anything and will fall behind on bills until this is resolved. At times I think the AG oversteps their authority and this is one of them. I will be in the AG's office in the morning trying to get this straightened out. When I talked to my local AG rep they stated that they do see the agreement that we signed but that it wasn't signed by a judge and apparently the person in charge of leins has no remorse when it comes to other people's money. I know I owe money but we agreed to 50.00 paid for back medical starting dec 1st, and 60.00 per month on medical starting dec 1st. It's things like this that push people to do irrational things when pushed like this.

I can see why you are frustrated and angry. Try to be nice to the bureaucrats you talk to. It sounds like just paperwork not catching up with itself. It's not fair, but you'll be treated better if you keep your cool. I know it's even harder when you are in pain.

Tell me about it, 3 ruptured disc 1 fractured and I'm in need of surgery that workers comp is fighting to not fix. Sometimes it seems like a losing battle and then you get hit below the belt. I'll try and keep my cool about it but at times it's trying.