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  • Mar 5, 2009, 09:02 AM
    lawrence23
    Disinherited under Duress.
    My father put me under "Duress" to sign a statement accepting his terms and conditions without let or hindrance in an argument about interest on a loan. Duress of the threat of Disinheritance. I stood my ground. He Disinherited me under Duress! What do I do.
  • Mar 5, 2009, 12:55 PM
    stevetcg

    Nothing. It is his choice who his inheritance goes too.
  • Mar 6, 2009, 08:13 AM
    JudyKayTee

    Please stop rephrasing and reposting this question. I think we're all bored with the problem by now and you don't want legal advice anyway.
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:27 AM
    lawrence23
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Please stop rephrasing and reposting this question. I think we're all bored with the problem by now and you don't want legal advice anyway.

    I followed your advice to refuse to pay interest on the loan.
    Now Ive been disinherited because of your advice and you just want to tell me to stop asking questions.
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:30 AM
    lawrence23
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Please stop rephrasing and reposting this question. I think we're all bored with the problem by now and you don't want legal advice anyway.

    I do want legal advice and don't say were all bored with a problem your advice helped create, give me some proper legal advice. Im talking 100,000 GBP up here I lose. I want answers.
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:38 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lawrence23 View Post
    I do want legal advice and dont say were all bored with a problem your advice helped create, give me some proper legal advice. Im talking 100,000 GBP up here I lose. I want answers.


    Please post where I said not to pay interest if/when you were REQUIRED to pay interest. I cannot find that. Stop blaming other people and take responsibility for your actions. You are not ENTITLED to inherit and your sense of entitlement is way out of line. You could probably also get a job sufficient to support yourself. Then you wouldn't need your father's money to support yourself and you wouldn't either need to borrow from him OR be disinherited. I find it odd that you are obsessing - since October - about this, about what will happen when you father dies.

    So pay the interest and get back in the Will if that's important to you.

    If you want legal answers based on your circumstances, then retain an Attorney. Just make sure when you quote that Attorney that your facts are correct.

    Stop opening new threads. Your various questions about your inheritance have been asked and answered.

    It would be helpful, also, if you would post ONE response to each answer, not multiple "one liners."
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:39 AM
    stevetcg

    Again, it is his choice who is in his will and who is not. That's the advice. There is NOTHING you can legally do to change that.

    Maybe you would included in the will again if you stopped acting like you were entitled to everything. Because you aren't.

    You want answers? Be a better son. Fighting about his inheritance is the easiest way to ensure you will never see it. If you don't want our advice, go pay a lawyer to give you the same advice we already have.
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:40 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by lawrence23 View Post
    I want answers.

    Hello again, l:

    Nobody here KNOWS the answer. Even if we did, you're still going to need somebody to DO something about it. The only person who could actually DO something about it, would be YOUR attorney, who'll investigate, and determine what course he wants to take based on the facts HE discovers.

    That probably should have been the first place to visit when you began your troubles.

    excon
  • Mar 8, 2009, 08:43 AM
    ScottGem

    Ok, I have again merged your threads. And AGAIN I advise you to post any follow-up under this thread, do not start a new one.

    Second, Do you have a copy of that document? Do you have any proof that he threatened you with disinheritance.

    The advice to not pay the interest was to let him sue you and let a court decide. He seems to have taken a different tactic.

    You NEED to consult an attorney here. This is a complex issue now. But its possible nothing can be done until the will is probated.

    Frankly, if he is still alive I would go to him and ask if there can be some compromise. Maybe offer to have the interest deducted from your inheritance. If you want, tell him you received bad advice in an online forum (not that I agree you did). But maybe that will mollify him.
  • Mar 12, 2009, 02:57 AM
    lawrence23
    Where to get fighting disinheritance info?
    Is being disinherited a taboo subject. Ive compiled a 80 page account of the case... who would you recommend I send it to? In the UK that is.
  • Mar 12, 2009, 08:53 AM
    stevetcg

    Why do you continue to post this same question? You were disinherited and there is nothing you can do about it.

    You MAY be able to fight the will in probate court after the demise of your father, but there is nothing you can do about it right now except work at getting back in his good graces.

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