https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...nd-213324.html, Just so you know the whole story.
You have to many issues unresolved to just pick one. I think settling your business with your ex husband has to come first, and you have lawyers for that so I recommend some counseling so you may be guided through the process of resolving your old issues and not just uproot your children and alienate them from the things familiar and important just to satisfy some yearning on your part. Moving will not solve the problems you and your now husband have let alone solve any problems with your ex. You need help to solve these issues and a professional is highly recommended.

Wow, thanks talaniman. Things are really falling into place now. And I agree that we can't suggest getting a lawyer because lawyers have already been obtained, now I can only suggest putting them to the use they are there for. And some serious counseling would be a great help.

nitewriter disagrees: I thank you for your inner thoughts about my situation. Fyi I work at home as a writer. However, I might take your covetous comment into consideration. Remember:everything is mental. If you think poor, so shall you be. If you think rich, so shall


Read how to use the site - if you don't agree with "Twinkie" on a personal level post that; if the legal advice is incorrect, then a "disagree" MAY be appropriate.

Do you know what covetous means? As a writer, I'm sure you do - trust me, "Twinkie" is not excessively and culpably desirous of your possessions. What would she be jealous of? Your posts run from trying to get pregnant to being in a shaky marriage to you being older than your husband to you needing more space to mice and rats in your apartment to this endless support issue. I doubt she's jealous - or desirous to be you.

FYI I think you have issues - and when you post all this contradictory info someone is going to pick up on it - and several people have.

Is all of this tied in to your career as a writer?

I don't know what kind of a writer this OP is, but I for one don't buy into that part of the drama queen braggidicio. I'm beginning to think this may be a plot for her next tear jerker. Forlorn, misunderstood writer with 2 kids from a successful musican having to EEK out a living on $6,800 a month or ($81,000 a year) living in a mice infested Brooklyn apt with a younger husband who has to decide if she should take more monthly money or not. Never mentioned if she was successful or not as a "publisher and writer" and can only come up with $8,500 in receipts. (Just because someone says they are a writer does not impress me. I've met some successful writers in my time and won't drop any names here. I do some writing, so what.) Some pot boiler here. Can hardly wait for the next episode. Is that the one where she buys a new $50,000 car and can't make the payments on it and then ask us what to do?

I've been to Jessup, Ga. Just like Chuck and I know that place is not very well off and you and your family would hardly fit in.

Thanks Chuck for combining all her posts at the beginning for a real clarification on this poster.

I did notice that this "writer, author, and publisher" mangles the King's English in some of her posts using incorrect syntax, etc. something a real writer wouldn't necessarily do. Also writer and "author" are the same thing last time I checked the dictionary. I should have known something was up as she used this in the first paragraph of her first post.

If you take $81,000 times 3 years you get a tidy sum of over $243,000. All this “writer” has to show is a $2,000 mice and rat infested Brooklyn apt. Pathetic. I guess she doesn't realize that people watch TV shows that have the prices of apts in NYC on them. I can tell you that a $2,000 apt in Brooklyn is NOT a for-real luxury apt by any means and probably would have mice problems. Remember she wanted to only pay $1,500 – that was a post in the real estate section.

Also, what seemed out of the ordinary is why would she use a term for a miscarriage as a "procedure"? That got me wondering also.

Also a good job opportunity in Jessup had me scratching my head as well.

As far as us here at AMHD not being professional... oh well, I guess we all must be "naughty" people (me especially) for having "guessed" her true intent.

We're far from dumb on this site and can catch on pretty quick.

Yes, I did a goggle search of apartments there, and even the two bedrooms for 2000 started looking sort of shaby, and I do not think I would walk in the areas where three bedrooms were only 2000.
I will be honest it is hard in down town atlanta to find a real nice three bedroom (in downtown) for 2000 dollars. And to be honest even converted lofts, will all have some mice issues in the inner cities aeras at time

But what I asked the OP was why they were wanting to renew their lease, if they were wanting to move.

Yes, the good job in Jessup had me also, unless they were going to work at the atomic power plant ( I think there is one there, I know there is one by Baxley) But in Jessup, that walmart job is considered a good job.
*** not picking on anyone from there, I love it there and wish there was a good job and I would move there tomorrow ** so anyone there have me a job offer, PM me

LOL! Thanks for all of your sense of humor. Miss Judykaytee, Twinkiedooter and fr_chuck has made strong points and I don't negate your research skills. I also like the fact that one of yous looked into my careless writing and choice of words. Well the good news is I was awarded 8600 a month, I will be moving from my apartment and financing a home in westchester not too far from the "inner city". I am 3 weeks pregnant! And I thank you for your input, timeless observation and at times I tend to panic when things go a little off schedule. The next time you guys should hear from me is... after I have this beautiful bundle of joy. I do apologize for being rather defense to twinkie's comment, sometimes the truth hurts. Any way, keep up the great work and I will consider counseling as well. P.S. Hey, thanks for the idea! I think I could write an interesting and humourous story behind all of this.

Thank you and hopefully you guys would forgive me.
Take good care,
nitewriter

Sorry I was so strong in my posts, but you seemed a tad out of control hyper-venting. Glad things worked out for you. Good luck in your new home. Kids can go to public school as there are some good ones in that area.

[QUOTE=nitewriter]LOL! Thanks for all of your sense of humor. Miss Judykaytee, Twinkiedooter and fr_chuck has made strong points and I don't negate your research skills. I also like the fact that one of yous looked into my careless writing and choice of words. Well the good news is I was awarded 8600 a month, I will be moving from my apartment and financing a home in westchester not too far from the "inner city". I am 3 weeks pregnant! And I thank you for your input, timeless observation and at times I tend to panic when things go a little off schedule. The next time you guys should hear from me is... after I have this beautiful bundle of joy. I do apologize for being rather defense to twinkie's comment, sometimes the truth hurts. Any way, keep up the great work and I will consider counseling as well. P.S. Hey, thanks for the idea! I think I could write an interesting and humourous story behind all of this.



Now I'm really confused - I thought your twin sister was the one who wanted to get pregnant. Or is it both of you?

And, yes, I would use this as fodder for your next book.

WOW!! THIS WAS A REALLY FUN READ! At first I never really got it, then I understood completely... But then I lost it again. Now I'm hoping there is a part two. Will Jane successfully have the baby? Will she get back together with Will Smith? What surprises will Westchester have in store for her. Will she dissolve this false image and join help desk in a normal fashion? I'm not upset, I was humoured. But it has taken time away from some very helpful people to entertain your imagination.
Good luck.