Obviously people here really want to help however it's hard to do with only bits and pieces of information. I would strongly suggest seeking legal advice. There are many attorney's who will give a free consultation. Any choices you make right now will have legal consequences. And decisions concerning your child should be well thought out. I know you want a quick answer and some kind of reassurances however those won't help if you make a decision without enough information. Please see a lawyer and possibly talk with the doctor about the reassoning behind her actions. I truly hope you give this serious thought. Truly, Cathy