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  • Jan 16, 2014, 11:47 PM
    jessicanguyen12
    @mogrann I haven't got rid of the guilt, honestly I think this guilt will be stuck with me for the rest of my life. I don't have a therapist, but I'll most likely ask my parents to get me one, and counseling will be involve. This happen 3/4 years ago. I'm 15. It's better off for me to face the consequences than running away from something I have done wrong. But thank you for your help, and honesty.
  • Jan 17, 2014, 06:08 AM
    Oliver2011
    "It's better off for me to face the consequences than running away from something I have done wrong." - With that kind of an attitude I doubt that you will need to have guilt stuck to you for the rest of your life. It doesn't need to be that way especially if you admit it so that all parties can heal. Therapy will help you with that too.

    And I have to say, to see a 15 year old accept responsibility for something is very refreshing. Trust me - in a few years this will be a distant memory for your both as you continue on your journey. Well done!


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    Originally Posted by jessicanguyen12 View Post
    @mogrann I haven't got rid of the guilt, honestly I think this guilt will be stuck with me for the rest of my life. I don't have a therapist, but I'll most likely ask my parents to get me one, and counseling will be involve. This happen 3/4 years ago. I'm 15. It's better off for me to face the consequences than running away from something I have done wrong. But thank you for your help, and honesty.

  • Jan 17, 2014, 07:33 AM
    tickle
    @Oliver. I surely know you weren't judging. My comment was meant particularly for Jessica. I applaud her tenacity in getting to the bottom of this ! This is not going to be an easy road for her.
  • Jan 19, 2014, 01:37 PM
    jessicanguyen12
    @Oliver thank you, I really hope all the things I caused will be healed.
    @Tickle thank you, and that's true, It won't be easy. There probably will be a lot of judgment towards me. Also, will my doctor guide my sister and I to the right path (counseling, therapy) if I told to her what happen?

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