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Originally Posted by nikkisweet2323

yes..I've tried that talking thing with him for two years..when he'd at my place..I basically cook for him to.while he's on the laptop all day n night...then at night..its if he wants sex only..and never want to take me out...also puts me down all the time.I know now that he must be using me..I guess I was blinded by love for 2 years....its sad...but I'm going to be string and move on..

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He says he needs me to stay sane.. what ever that means.. n the crazy thing is that after I fall asleep and we would have sex that night he would get up and watch porn.. I ask him why.. and he says also he like different things.. and that he watches it to stay sane.. I'm not bad looking.tall slender... exotic.. so its not that I'm not attractive..?

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Originally Posted by nikkisweet2323

He says he needs me to stay sane..what ever that means..n the crazy thing is that after I fall asleep and we would have sex that night he would get up and watch porn..I ask him why..and he says also he like different things.. and that he watches it to stay sane..I'm not bad looking.tall slender...exotic..so its not that I'm not attractive...??

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Don't believe any put Downs I think you need to get rid of him I don't know u personalty but u are beautiful no matter what he says or dose

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Originally Posted by lisaboo55

Don't believe any put Downs I think you need to get rid of him I don't know u personalty but u are beautiful no matter what he says or dose

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Thank you so much.. m going to try breaking up with him tomm. The first step.. I realty wanted it to work... so bad at one point.. but he could have cared less
.as long I was still there for him...
GN... thanks again... I'll talk about what happens tomm.on sat.. Or late Tommy..

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Originally Posted by nikkisweet2323

Thank you so much..m going to try breaking up with him tomm. The first step..I realty wanted it to work...so bad at one point..but he could have cared less
.as long I was still there for him...
GN...thanks again...I'll talk about what happens tomm.on sat.. or late Tommy..

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Your welcome I am glad to try to help but I would recommend that you not take his sorry back

Dump the jerk. These are things that girls should never have to go through. And if he stands outside your door and begs you to come back, don't answe the door, and if you do tell him off. He is not good to you at all from what I can see, because I didn't see one single thing on your post that is positive about this guy. DO NOT fall for him again because you deserve better. You are beautiful and there are much better guys out there that would love to be with you but you just have to give them a chance. And if you do find someone else, this guy will maybe get the idea that you are done with him. But if you do break up with him, which I highly suggest, make sure you tell him why and don't listen to him when he tells you things like he's sorry or he will never do it again or he will change, because he really has no intention of doing so. I have dated a lot of guys and have heard the same kinds of things and have experienced the same kind of things that you are now. But especially leave because he hit you. If you need to, get a restraining order. That is what I would do if a guy ever hit me. So anyway, tell him he needs to leave, because you don't need that kind of stress. Its really not healthy. Break up with him ASAP.