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  • Aug 15, 2012, 08:59 PM
    Wondergirl
    And this is good?
  • Aug 15, 2012, 09:06 PM
    DsprtCfsd
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bmar249441 View Post
    at school im bullied my guy friends stick up for me and the the girls call me "whore slut emo goth suicidal" and more im called emo cause i dont realy dress in girly cloths and im called all that outher stuff because i have soo meany guy friends

    I'm am so sorry to hear of your loss, I truly am. My heart goes out to you. As you have experienced, there are a lot of understanding and caring people on this site that are more than willing to listen and help as they can.

    Girls and/or boys can be so mean at that age. To me it says they are jealous of your ability to be friends with those that they would love to have the attention of.

    In regards to the bullying and being one that has been on the receiving end, you need to talk to a school counselor or a teacher you feel that would listen to you. This negative attention is not helping the feelings that you are having and it needs to stop.

    When I was younger I was just the exact opposite as you. A guy with more female friends than guy friends. You can only imagine what rumors were spread around about me. Anyway, friends are friends, no matter what sex they may be. If they are willing to give you the support a friend needs than they are your true friends.

    I know this isn't the religious boards and I apologize if I offend anyone but my prayers go out to you for this terrible loss.
  • Aug 15, 2012, 11:41 PM
    bmar249441
    This is better then being physicly bullied and the councilers know there's just not mutch they can do if they don't see it happing I make it by day by day year by year I uste to tell my cusins about it they just made things worse thoe the bullieys started saying "oh what you ganna go tell your cousin now" I finnaly stopped telling my cousins cause it just made the bullying worse as long as I stay out of there way they don't bother me as mutch
  • Aug 16, 2012, 05:59 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bmar249441 View Post
    at school im bullied my guy friends stick up for me and the the girls call me "whore slut emo goth suicidal" and more im called emo cause i dont realy dress in girly cloths and im called all that outher stuff because i have soo meany guy friends


    Sounds like the other girls in your school were raised by wolves, not parents.

    We have someone else who used to post here, keeps in touch with me, is going through exactly the same thing. I know she never posts anymore but she probably has some insight. Let me see if I can find her. If she won't post maybe she'll give me some advice to give to you.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 12:14 PM
    bmar249441
    Thank you
  • Aug 16, 2012, 12:28 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bmar249441 View Post
    thank you


    I'm looking for her - she can very eloquently explain what she has gone through, the bullying, the sadness, the "fear" of going back to school. Not that that isn't bad enough, but she's bright - very, very bright. Too bad school is such an effort for her.

    Anyway - still looking for her.
  • Aug 16, 2012, 01:40 PM
    bmar249441
    I know how she feels for awhile I hated waking up and going to school she sounds very nice
  • Aug 16, 2012, 02:04 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bmar249441 View Post
    i know how she feels for awhile i hated waking up and going to school she sounds very nice



    She is - and she's out doing something or other. I'm waiting for her to come back.
  • Aug 17, 2012, 10:14 PM
    bmar249441
    OK

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