I can switch but there is no scope for any other, because our education system is complicated

I am in the U.S. in the Chicago area. Many people from many cultures live here. I love samosas!

Most of the Indian men I know are in engineering, medical science, or investment, with some in computers.

Thank you for your advice. I am leaving now but catch you later. Bye

You will have to be my friend here. We cannot do off-site communication. But thank you. (I removed your address, as per rules.)

Jack Panchu,

You are at the right place for the answer or reaction to your query. It is not uncommon to see boys, shy and hesitant, no doubt, but willing to win the hearts of girls. If you are not intelligent, not smart, not good enough, you can get girls falling on you for friendship, but you have everything, so you are in for BIG favours, big fun and big friendship. Relax!

First thing, learn to joke, for which learn to laugh at you, and you will stop becoming a laughing stock. For example, there was a snap of a very ugly and black girl on the cover page of a boy's copy. His friend laughed, "Is she your gf?" "No, she is even uglier and blacker than her." He retorted and in a stroke, by just making himself butt of his own joke, he turned the tables on him.

2. Gather courage, and make a chance to go near her (the pretty girl, you like, having trimmed, permed short hair, I presume), like by dropping your book near her and asking her for favour or something.

3. Find what are your interests and see where can you excel, in any game, activities or anything, so that you earn a name in some event, and you will become sort of unique and girls will get sort of interest in you.

4. Buy new garments, take exercise and change yourself/thinking, so that when you enter the classroom, you have extra/new energy (not really even, but you will have the assumption and hence the confidence).

Try these points, and if they work, tell me. If you need further advice, you are free to ask, anytime! We are here to help you, out. Good luck!