But from what we have been exposed to,them being married for all these 13 years,and he hasn't snapped yet.. perhaps he isn't as upset with all this as you are? I don't know,hence my questions about how his take would be on all this.

It sounds like he knew about her past before this marriage started(ie:the gun at her) and maybe he is OK with it all.

I sure hope all this settles down for you(and her).Best of luck:)

KBC

Your Son is a big boy now and if he wasn't wanting to be with her he wouldn't stay.

I would advise you to take a step back and let them live their own lives, you could be making matters worse.

Thanks for all you help, I guess this is not the place for answers. Nothing like professionals. You don't have to answer because I will not be back. Bye

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Thanks for all you help, I guess this is not the place for answers. Nothing like professionals. You don't have to answer because I will not be back. Bye

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I really hope you can look past a few of these comments and see that we are just presenting our perspectives, opinions,and perhaps solutions.. some of which might not be to your liking.. we are really here for others, not selfishly attacking and chasing newcomers off..

If you change your mind, we will be around,maybe there will be a development you would like to discuss.. don't burn any bridges,you never know when you might have to cross it!