Ok, well he pees in front of us even when we play with him. But when he poos he hides to do it. As for picking the breed, we just picked the dog that did the best with our kids when we met him. I really wanted t shetland sheep dog but the kids were afraid of him . We all hit it off great with the dog we got. We have a partailly fenced yard and are working on extending the fence so hopefully that will help! I have also noticed that when a male takes him outside he will urinate without a problem but when a female takes him out he only wants to play!