Oh, Allheart, I didn't know that Kara passed through those situations. I'm sure Kara has struggled to stay alive, you could do nothing more than what you've done. I also agree with Alty, that Kara is up in heaven, looking from some distance, and watching her mommy and looking after you the best it can.
Now, I think that the only way to meet her is through memories (your relatives may die, but they always stay alive for us) and dreams. I'm sure that Kara will visit you some time in your dreams and tell you not to be too worried about her. Kara loves you so much!
Love and blessings, from me, and God.
