How do I stop being angry about my husband's cheating?
The issue is in short. I am in the process of filing for divorce. I filled out the papers and I'm going to file on December 23rd my next day off work. The problem is he will not leave the house. The house was mine before I met him and neither one of us are confrontational people. He moved into the guest room but I used to do everything for him. I'm an enabler and I married someone who had nothing to offer me but I accepted him as he was. Now that I want to move on. He says he has no place to go because now the girlfriend is no longer interested either plus I was the breadwinner. Anyway, he keeps saying I don't know why you are so angry and that makes me angry. I work two full time jobs so I don't see him that much but the weekends are really hard for me. I just want to know how do I just ignore him without being angry. I know I need therapy huh? Thanks for any suggestions.